Dear ‘Broke’ Men: Don’t Punish A Woman for Not Wanting to Date You (EBONY)

[ItzRailT]

You know it's funny because most of these women have babies by broke men and then complain about him being broke and ain't shyt.

Besides were gonna ignore the fact that the majority of these women that talk the most shyt be brokest ones begging online and using gofundme.

Now if guy wrote an article saying "dear single broke baby mama's were not obligated to deal with you or your b*stard kids" it'll be open season.

 

[ezrathegreat]

How can anyone be mad at this?

 

[MoveForward]

MGTOW for the win, once again.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Most divorces are said to be triggered by financial difficulties in the marriage. So I can't say anything.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Articles like this is why there's a disconnection between men & women specifically in our communities because everything is about money. When I read these articles it tells me these women don't want love they want money, the big white picket fence, the expensive luxury cars etc etc just a bunch of fantasy living & probably are the type to brag about how a man needs to make over 100k in salary (when majority of them don't even make anything close to that) just to have a chance to blow their back out when they've already done constantly let flipping burger type dudes bust em down back in high school/post graduate.

 

[Easy-E]

Can't really blame women for wanting a man of certain means in their lives.


I do wonder though in this age of wokeness, is it fair to shame men who have endured struggles through systematic oppressions.

On another note, who's going to write "Dear ‘Educated’ Women: Don’t Shame Men for Not Wanting to Date You" ?

The bolded is the biggest.

Also, they changed the title make it "Don't Punish Women" to make them out to be victims

When, it's not us going on new channels to beg richer men to date us;

 

[AllHolosEve]

You not capable of dating out unless you came up?

Stop saying this fukking lie. They want us. fukk is you talking about

 

[Gravity]

Damn, that was a shytty article.

What does her main point have to do with the title????

The “Use a sensationalized title for your otherwise meaningless article for clickbait” trend is the wave now. In general, people have said “fukk integrity”.

 

[Eclipser]

EBONY has been dead for years. This is now a zombie.

I picked up a copy of Ebony before catching a flight. There was an article promoting intersectionality and LGBTQIA+ issues ultra heavy and saying that this is the black community's future. Then I looked at the author and I it was Jamilah Lemieux.
Senior Editor at Ebony.

I haven't bought a copy of Ebony since.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Why are black people so obsessed with being broke, as if most people have a savings account for a rainy day.

Online and articles vs real life makes people appear insane

To me if a guy has been educated or trained and having a hard time in his career or changing careers and he's doing the best he can(same for she). That's all you can ask. Everybody is NOT going to be a millionaire or living with 6 figures in 2 bank accounts.

Most people are in debt, thank God my girl doesn't care about money

This obsession is very unhealthy. However, blame the rappers who started this.

 

[knl14]

How can anyone be mad at this?

They’re broke.

 

[ezrathegreat]

They’re broke.

Must be, people in here are mad that women won't entertain men who can barely take care of themselves.

 

[you're NOT "n!ggas"]

You see this kinda talk a lot and yet you see articles and discussions like "Why are so many black women single?", complaining when black men date out, 'fukkboys' breaking their heart, men being unwilling to commit, etc

They make it to where you don't wanna take women seriously til your situation is straight and by that point the shyt is learned behavior and way easier to use to your advantage. I mean who in their right mind is spending their prime building their wealth just to risk it all on women that 'weren't obligated' to see them broke? Then fukk around and want half in a divorce bytch you wasn't shooting with me in the gym

 

[Taadow]

You know the most interesting thing about this article to me?


Her "friend" mentioned didn't even approach this woman he liked, as if she was "obligated" to date him.
He didn't even bother said woman because he didn't think he was good enough.

So in that sense, how could he be "punishing" that woman?

All he did wrong was to have a conversation with his "friend" - and the advice his "friend" has for him is:

"It's okay if you're broke, just be confident about your broke ass...even though it may not matter how confident you are if you're broke, because nobody wants anybody who is broke...and after all, she just may not like you in general - not because you're broke. And she doesn't owe you any explanation why she doesn't like you anyway. But yeah - go up and shoot your shot!"


Meanwhile, she gonna have an article next week asking "why don't Black men approach anymore"?

 

[Imogen]

The men who are mad about this are entitled as fukk. Women dont need to struggle with you because you're struggling. We should all aim to date ppl on our caliber or higher.