Death To The Nice Guy

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Ms. Elaine said:
In my 24/25 years of life, I have never actually dealt with a nice guy -- not directly anyway. Outside of short shallow PMs/texts (where I'm inevitably accused of being a tease even though I've never hidden my relationship status), idle chit chat at grocery stores and emails for work, I actually don't interact with men (who aren't my BF) much. All of my friends are girls from college and grad school.

Anyway that's just background. Let's get to the real story - my nightmare first experience dealing with a nice guy:

So a couple of weeks ago, I was dead broke....but not in the way some of you haters think. :sas1::sas2:

All of my cards were compromised and my a$$hole bank cancelled each and every one of them without any notice. I had no direct access to any of my accounts and none of these stores were taking personal checks.:martin:

I made frantic phone calls/texts to my parents and BF but they were no help. I couldn't use any of their cards (not even virtually) because they are all abroad currently and I have a thing against cash. They were like, 'let me send you some money via Western Union/Money Gram and I was like, no thanks. :hhh:


These are words that I'd live to regret. :to:



After 48 hours I was going stark crazy mad and my new cards still hadn't been shipped.:damn:

I was getting really desperate and I decided it was to put my scheming brain to work. :jbhmm:

Well, the Square Cash app has a virtual card the works with Apple Pay so if I can just get money through that, I'd be solid until my cards arrived. The people closest to me were international so they were no help since the app only works domestically. And I also don't like people in my business. :dame:


Anyway long story short, I ended up finding (a married) "friend" of mine who was willing to help me out. At first, he just offered to let me use one of his credit cards but I was like :patrice: no thanks. NOTE: Ladies, never accept ANYTHING from a dude who you are not in a relationship with, even if he's married with kids.

I simply transferred money to him via PayPal and he transferred the money back to me using the Square Cash app.

Everything was going fine until my cards arrived and then this nikka became UNHINGED and accused me of USING him. :wtf:


First, it was whatever, like...

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Then after a few days, he really lost the script and went on some crazy ass RANT. :merchant:

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He keeps texting me but I haven't responded since.

I can understand if this was some single guy I led on, but nikka, you're married with kids, what the fukk did you think was happening here? :what:


I still haven't told my bf about this whole ordeal. :mjcry:
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Your lips :whew:


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I don't know if this is really an example of a "nice guy"

Dude is just a weirdo. That's a completely different set of circumstances than the "nice guy" epidemic.
 
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Ms. Elaine said:
nikka, you've been giving me nice guy vibes your damn self. :jbhmm:


I have econ and math degrees. :russ: at me being bad with money.


And only people with bad credit don't use credit cards.:francis:
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what nice guy vibes? What can I possibly want from let alone get from you?

A degree doesn't mean shyt. A math and econ degree means you can memorize formulas, take a test based on problems you went over in class and solve them to the extent of passing. Degrees don't teach you about personal finance and how to make money. College professors can't teach you something they don't know how to do. They know how to teach you information from a book, not make money and manage it.

And if you were good with money, why did the bank cancel all your cards and block you from your account? :jbhmm:
 
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SheWantTheD said:
what nice guy vibes? What can I possibly want from let alone get from you?

A degree doesn't mean shyt. A math and econ degree means you can memorize formulas, take a test based on problems you went over in class and solve them to the extent of passing. Degrees don't teach you about personal finance and how to make money. College professors can't teach you something they don't know how to do. They know how to teach you information from a book, not make money and manage it.

And if you were good with money, why did the bank cancel all your cards and block you from your account? :jbhmm:
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:dame::russ:



And I had accidentally thrown away a portfolio that contained sensitive personal financial information. :stopitslime::comeon:
 
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Most major banks will give you a temporary card on the spot until the new one arrives in the mail. Anyway, I just don't understand the logic of turning down cash from your bf but then happily taking paypal from a married man. Cash works just as well and some places will ever offer a slight discount when paying in cash. All this drama could have been avoided if you just took the western union.
 
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Ms. Elaine said:
Anyway long story short, I ended up finding (a married) "friend" of mine who was willing to help me out. At first, he just offered to let me use o
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All I needed to know.
He was using this situation as a way to smash and when he found out that wasn't happening he got mad. Sounds like a scumbag not a"nice" guy, whatever the hell a "nice" guy iy
 
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So your debit/credit cards were compromised but not your bank account?

You couldn't go to a bank branch, withdraw money, and buy a re-loadable debit card for the time being? Some institutions make debit cards right in the branch, did you even ask about that?

There are holes in your story before dude was in the picture.
 
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