Death To The Nice Guy

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So your debit/credit cards were compromised but not your bank account?

You couldn't go to a bank branch, withdraw money, and bought a re-loadable debit card for the time being? Some institutions make debit cards right in the branch, did you even ask about that?

There are holes in your story before dude was in the picture.

Right, this isn't adding up.
 

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So your debit/credit cards were compromised but not your bank account?

You couldn't go to a bank branch, withdraw money, and bought a re-loadable debit card for the time being? Some institutions make debit cards right in the branch, did you even ask about that?

There are holes in your story before dude was in the picture.

Yes, my credit union does this but their business hours are inconvenient and I don't have security clearance to enter the office building in which it is located in - which is a problem, since I sneak my dog to work with me on most days.
 

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I got the texts. Ready to enter into an IP ban bet. :sas1::sas2:
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I really don't get why you passed on money from your fam only to turn around and ask a favor of a married man who thought "maybe she'll let me smash if I did it"

Secondly, ain't no married man you consider your "brother" gon go ape shyt because you started ignoring him after you got what you wanted. If he was just a friend then he'd launder the money and gon about his business.
 

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I really don't get why you passed on money from your fam only to turn around and ask a favor of a married man who thought "maybe she'll let me smash if I did it"

Secondly, ain't no married man you consider your "brother" gon go ape shyt because you started ignoring him after you got what you wanted. If he was just a friend then he'd launder the money and gon about his business.
I didn't ask him for any money. :stopitslime:

I transferred money TO HIM and he simply transferred that money back to me using a mobile money transfer service.


And his reaction was alarming to me, considering our relationship to that point.

But in retrospect, some previous texts he's sent me should have raised some red flags.
 

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Why you dealing with all that extra when all you had to do was accept that western union from your boyfriend or your family, leave that man alone, you know men always want some shyt in return, especially those nice guy type dudes. You tripped on your own feet girl, accept your L and be smarter about it next time. See the errors in your ways, I'm sure your boyfriend wouldn't be happy with what you did. Going to a married man, you fukking up B. :usure:
 

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I didn't ask him for any money. :stopitslime:

I transferred money TO HIM and he simply transferred that money back to me using a mobile money transfer service.


And his reaction was alarming to me, considering our relationship to that point.

But in retrospect, some previous texts he's sent me should have raised some red flags.
I never said you did ask or receive money from him.

I'm saying something was done or said for your married friend to think his behavior was okay. This shyt doesn't just happen out of nowhere, especially after a 17yr long friendship.
 

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I didn't ask him for any money. :stopitslime:

I transferred money TO HIM and he simply transferred that money back to me using a mobile money transfer service.


And his reaction was alarming to me, considering our relationship to that point.

But in retrospect, some previous texts he's sent me should have raised some red flags.

Texting a married man on the regular seems like thotish behavior.

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:manny: I'm a lame & a nice guy and I would have done this for you in exchange for a small tip/token of your gratitude, like maybe you buy me a little bit of weed or something. Obviously not something massive but a little dime bag as a thank you would be appreciated
 

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Yes, my credit union does this but their business hours are inconvenient and I don't have security clearance to enter the office building in which it is located in - which is a problem, since I sneak my dog to work with me on most days.

It sounds like you need to change institutions. Even if you don't go to the bank branch much, there isn't much point to having an account at a place you can't get to easily - unless there is some other benefit of having a checking there.

You could of also just opened another account elsewhere and transferred your money. This is a reason why many people have multiple credit/debit cards and bank accounts. I still don't get why you turned down your family and boyfriend's offer for help to involve dude. If you wanted to you would only had to deal with cash for a few minutes before loading it to another card.
 
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