Deep down does any man really wanna be in a relationship?

[MikelArteta]

even a old obese balding man in his 50's can get a 35 year old chick if his job is good and he has his own house, women care about status not as much as looks.

secondly, 40-60 year old men are escorts highest paying customers, if a man that old wants to bang a young broad he can for a few hundred bucks no strings, nagging attached.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

except the avg marriage only lasts 7 years now

BECAUSE PEOPLE DON'T FOLLOW THE RULES. THERE IS AN ORDER FOR EVERYTHING. IF YOU DO THINGS OUTSIDE OF THAT ORDER YOU CAN'T EXPECT THE END RESULT TO GOOD.

 

[Rominati]

Most men want both. A Fab n Emily or Stevie J n Mimi type of situation. We want to have our cake and eat it.


We pretty much want a girl who is cool with us fukking other bytches. Problem is that shyt aint really happening. The best you can end up with is a Chrissy Jim Jones type of situation. Where you do your dirt but it never comes up to ya wifey

 

[Economics]

Not exactly on topic, but it relates a little - this thread reminds me of this old article about how sex is cheap for the younger generation than in years past.

Sex is cheap: Why young men have the upper hand in bed, even when they're failing in life. - Slate Magazine

We keep hearing that young men are failing to adapt to contemporary life. Their financial prospects are impaired—earnings for 25- to 34-year-old men have fallen by 20 percent since 1971. Their college enrollment numbers trail women's: Only 43 percent of American undergraduates today are men. Last year, women made up the majority of the work force for the first time. And yet there is one area in which men are very much in charge: premarital heterosexual relationships.

When attractive women will still bed you, life for young men, even those who are floundering, just isn't so bad. This isn't to say that all men direct the course of their relationships. Plenty don't. But what many young men wish for—access to sex without too many complications or commitments—carries the day. If women were more fully in charge of how their relationships transpired, we'd be seeing, on average, more impressive wooing efforts, longer relationships, fewer premarital sexual partners, shorter cohabitations, and more marrying going on.

 

[winb83]

A STRUCTURED LIFE FOR HIS SEEDS?

this like almost all the other supposed benefits of marriage assume the marriage works out which nobody can guarantee will happen. statistically speaking a marriage is about as likely to fail as it is to succeed and that's not counting all the people that stay married through things like infidelity that the average person wouldn't tolerate or marriages of convenience where the child knows there's no love in the home and everything is fake and they see festering problems the parents try to hide.

if the marriage fails the structured life for his seed can turn into his seed witnessing a warzone between divorcees that can breed hatred and contempt between two people who maybe if they didn't get married could actually manage to get along with no hard feelings between them.

lastly the structured life for the seed is a child benefit not a benefit for the man.

 

[JLova]

even a old obese balding man in his 50's can get a 35 year old chick if his job is good and he has his own house, women care about status not as much as looks.

secondly, 40-60 year old men are escorts highest paying customers, if a man that old wants to bang a young broad he can for a few hundred bucks no strings, nagging attached.

If you say so. But how many of these guys will have a good job and a nice house and some kind of status? Stop filling these dudes heads with false hope. Also, looks still matter, breh. Balding, overweight, old man with no money isn't pulling a dime.

Older men can pull fine women but those men aren't working at the call center driving a hyundai.

Did you really just bring up escorts?

 

[MoneyTron]

every man that ever fell in love with a woman felt similar to the way you do right now. and every man that ever went through a harsh break up or divorce learned that the feelings you have now can fade or even worse morph into hatred or disdain.

Yeah, no shyt. My parents divorced after 20 and haven't looked back. But what are you going to do, try to look for open relationships your whole life? You're fooling yourself.

 

[winb83]

Most men want both. A Fab n Emily or Stevie J n Mimi type of situation. We want to have our cake and eat it.


We pretty much want a girl who is cool with us fukking other bytches. Problem is that shyt aint really happening. The best you can end up with is a Chrissy Jim Jones type of situation. Where you do your dirt but it never comes up to ya wifey

basically feeds into my point that a real magnanimous relationship is a concession a man makes more than something he really desires.

if women would let us get away with it by not demanding relationships and commitments most guys would have a multitude of fukk buddies with no strings attached and never in real relationships or get married.

 

[jking23258]

theres no benefit from serious relationships why get married so a chick can take half your bread no thank you I'm good I'd rather just mack lmfao

 

[winb83]

theres no benefit from serious relationships why get married so a chick can take half your bread no thank you I'm good I'd rather just mack lmfao

most of the perceived benefits of a serious relationship are things a women use to lure men into them (like sex) once comfortably nested they get taken away or you end up getting them less than single guys do. women use them to ration out as leverage for manipulation.

marriage is not the relationship beneath it. marriage is a binding legal contract that states if the relationship beneath the contract fails you'll give up half your shyt and accept any liabilities the partner incurred during the relationship.

you could be with the same person for your whole life and never get married or define things and just enjoy each other's company. the reason such labels as relationships and marriage come into play is because the woman demands it.

 

[Gus Money]

Wasn't trying to offend you or anything with that question, just wondering if you're dealing with something.

 

[kevm3]

If they are in a great relationship, yeah, many men do. Being in a great relationship is better than being single, but being single is better than being in a wack relationship.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

I'm in between stage 4 and 5

its only been 3 weeks

 

[jking23258]

most of the perceived benefits of a serious relationship are things a women use to lure men into them (like sex) once comfortably nested they get taken away or you end up getting them less than single guys do. women use them to ration out as leverage for manipulation.

marriage is not the relationship beneath it. marriage is a binding legal contract that states if the relationship beneath the contract fails you'll give up half your shyt and accept any liabilities the partner incurred during the relationship.

you could be with the same person for your whole life and never get married or define things and just enjoy each other's company. the reason such labels as relationships and marriage come into play is because the woman demands it.

exactly man I feel that same exact way. marriage just puts pressure on your relationship

 

[winb83]

Wasn't trying to offend you or anything with that question, just wondering if you're dealing with something.

i've been pressured into relationships my whole life. i just woke up and realized that i never wanted to be in them just conceded to be in them for the safety and convince they were supposed to provide.

in the beginning they all started off great but they eventually turned into wounds that never healed and got infected. as the expectations, commitments, compromises, and obligations began to pile up they all became coffins of inconvenience where the negatives outweighed the positives.

we're out here playing a game with women where most of the group's endgame is being a stay at home mom that spends your money on useless bullshyt you don't care about or want. is that your endgame as a man?