Deep down does any man really wanna be in a relationship?

[jab343irk]

It gets to a point in life where chasing after puzzy gets old.

 

[Ooh Marty]

It seem like most guys say they want to be in a relationship but don't want to deal with the things it takes for one to work.

One of the main reasons why I remain single.

edit: and on top of that, the only guys that seem to want to be in a committed relationship tend to be in their late 20s early 30s.

Men around my age only care about partying and sex.

 

[kermit da hustla]

I dunno. There are some chicks you just don't wanna see with another man. That's the only reason I'd put the cuffs on a chick. Cause I want them in my life.

what kind of possessive mentality compels you to marry a woman so that she won't be with another man? that's warped. at the end of the day, all females are being shared, and there's nothing you can -- including being their husband -- that prevents that from happening. that's what so many simp ass nikkas don't understand. there is absolutely NOTHING, short of locking the bytch in a basement and never letting her see the light of day, that you can do to stop your girl from being shared with another nikka. it's in our nature! monogamy is not a naturally occurring dynamic on a sexual level. i will never ever believe that "being" with only one woman until death do us part is what life's about. fukk that.

 

[StackUp]

used to be, when i was 17. willing to be faithful and the whole 9.

but after extreme heart break, im willing to never be in a committed relationship again.

stay fit + get money = women 4 life

 

[kermit da hustla]

you better get married while you're young. don't let the "men get better with age" bs fool you. most of the older men i know are dusty, overweight, ugly or a combo. it isn't like you'll be 59 pulling young 8s, 9s or 10s unless you have lots of cash. the ones in your age group will have kids, grandkids and maybe even great grandkids by then.

i don't know one older man that i'm attracted to.

play the field while you are young. get it out of your system. however, marriage does have its pros for both genders. maybe it has more cons for certain groups

eh, i'm in my early thirties, and i'm pulling dimes of all ages -- 19 to 35. as long as you're taking care of yourself, men do get better with age. it's you females that become flabby and sick. older men pull young females all the time. not sure where you live, but it happens a lot.

 

[VerbalIntercourse]

Winb you've got it all wrong again. Stop living in your bubble of self-misery and isolation.


Being a stable long-term relationship is one of the best things that ever happened in my life. I can count on my wife and she can count on me. We're a team, and that means something. I ask her to make me a sandwich and she will do it, but if she's ask me for something i'll gladly agree.

It means something to wake-up and know that someone cares about you. It means something to come home to a cooked meal. Or to know that she spent all this time to make you happy with some food.

If I was to go to the hospital in critical condition, i know she would drop everything to come attend to me, and she knows that I would do the same. There's nothing wrong about it. at all.

The thing is as a man, were programed to want to sleep around, and the more a woman makes that cost of losing her very great, the less likely will cheat. I won't cheat on her.

 

[YBE]

The only thing a woman can give me is a family. Other than that, they're useless. I have a small family & I always thought I'd have a boatload of children, on some Cosby's shyt. Now........that seems like asking for trouble

 

[kermit da hustla]

Winb you've got it all wrong again. Stop living in your bubble of self-misery and isolation.


Being a stable long-term relationship is one of the best things that ever happened in my life. I can count on my wife and she can count on me. We're a team, and that means something. I ask her to make me a sandwich and she will do it, but if she's ask me for something i'll gladly agree.

It means something to wake-up and know that someone cares about you. It means something to come home to a cooked meal. Or to know that she spent all this time to make you happy with some food.

If I was to go to the hospital in critical condition, i know she would drop everything to come attend to me, and she knows that I would do the same. There's nothing wrong about it. at all.

The thing is as a man, were programed to want to sleep around, and the more a woman makes that cost of losing her very great, the less likely will cheat. I won't cheat on her.

she will cheat on you, though. dumb ass. nikka, you sound

 

[VerbalIntercourse]

she will cheat on you, though. dumb ass. nikka, you sound

ehh.... I had a lunch prepared for me when I went to work this morning. She also washed all my clothes last night. Soft? no. but definitely appreciative.

 

[newworldafro]

I do....im getting old so random, meaningless sex isnt as appealing

I know .... ...........

 

[jadillac]

I do

 

[MrFantastic]

It gets to a point in life where chasing after puzzy gets old.

And you got to deal with mutiple women issues.. Its gets old playing therapist women

 

[winb83]

It gets to a point in life where chasing after puzzy gets old.

so new p*ssy gets old?

meanwhile you're saying what amounts to eating the same meal every day for the rest of your life doesn't?

we're men, we have a biological desire to sow our wild oats and that's it. women are the ones with the biological desire to nest.

Winb you've got it all wrong again. Stop living in your bubble of self-misery and isolation.


Being a stable long-term relationship is one of the best things that ever happened in my life. I can count on my wife and she can count on me. We're a team, and that means something. I ask her to make me a sandwich and she will do it, but if she's ask me for something i'll gladly agree.

It means something to wake-up and know that someone cares about you. It means something to come home to a cooked meal. Or to know that she spent all this time to make you happy with some food.

If I was to go to the hospital in critical condition, i know she would drop everything to come attend to me, and she knows that I would do the same. There's nothing wrong about it. at all.

The thing is as a man, were programed to want to sleep around, and the more a woman makes that cost of losing her very great, the less likely will cheat. I won't cheat on her.

pretty much none of the things you've mentioned are exclusive to having a wife or even being in a committed relationship.

i'm not saying live in isolation. what's wrong with living free? being able to do as you see fit and only having to answer to yourself.

a lot of you sound afraid to grow old and be alone but you don't necessarily have to be alone and even if you did you are great company to have right?

 

[BlvdBrawler]

i know a man that's been with the same woman for over 30 years and they aren't married. you think he's statistically doomed to die of cancer because he didn't sign a binding legal contract with a woman? your study also shows that divorced men face the same cancer mortality rates as never-married ones and there's no guarantee that marriage will workout.

at this ether being ignored.

 

[Amy Traphouse]

Smh at being pressured into MULTIPLE relationships....sounds like you're trying to project your weak mindedness on all men instead of accepting that you jumped into relationships with women you lack compatibility with and made some fukked up decisions that shaped your views on monogamous relationships.

Everybody ain't have the same experience as you, some men see the benefits of marriage, some would prefer to be lifelong bachelors, thats what makes the world go round...people who think differently and subscribe to different life choices.