MrFantastic
Pro
Pay 878 for my 10 yr old...got a 1yr now and spend nowhere close to that amount now for my son...
Delaware puts Child Support Cards in Effect
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Some Of My Partners Dope Fiends Ha
If you have shared custody why does one need to pay the other child support? Wait wait, I ain't got no kids, let the little b*stards starve lol
It all comes down to women wanting to buy whatever they want with the CS money and not having to justify the purchases
They in here talking about fixing the car. That's not a child support issue. That's a parent issue.
If that's your logic, then you could justify everything as child support.
I bought a $55,000 car for the child to get from A to B, so I used the CS to put a $2,000 downpayment on it and to pay the monthly car note
Even though I have one child, I bought a 6 bedroom house and used the CS as downpayment so that my child would have shelter
I bought a $3,000 bedroom set for myself because I need to have a nice bed to sleep in so that I can be well rested to go to work and provide for my child
They in here talking about fixing the car. That's not a child support issue. That's a parent issue.
If that's your logic, then you could justify everything as child support.
I bought a $55,000 car for the child to get from A to B, so I used the CS to put a $2,000 downpayment on it and to pay the monthly car note
Even though I have one child, I bought a 6 bedroom house and used the CS as downpayment so that my child would have shelter
I bought a $3,000 bedroom set for myself because I need to have a nice bed to sleep in so that I can be well rested to go to work and provide for my child
This doesn't change my point breh. U dont want to pay child support, don't have kids
Which is why I don't have any!
However your statement above is a simple no brainer! What I challenged was your inaccurate, routine implications that single men completely deserve what they get or are at 100% at fault for having kids out of wedlock with dusty women when the data shows that this clearly isn't the case & that men who were once actually married with family values or separated (after marriage) are also bearing the brunt of family courts & child support system.
Honestly no kudos needed you have kids you have to pay. Im just trying to shed some light to brothers that you don't have to be stuck paying 1000 a month and see your kid every other weekend that's bs. I remember when my son was like two he stared picking up themon that income tax fraud
But kudos to you for being proactive and getting joint custody and filing every other year. And not just bytching and moaning about it.
lady gestures. Had to get that boy asap. Now Lil breh out here doing one hand push-ups at 7 trying to show off and shyt.
i have zero issues with the child living with the parent who can fully support it
This isn't even #HOH, it's just basic logic and fairness.
Me neither
So what happens when 1 parent can't fully support the child?
(Alot can't btw. Many intact couples married or otherwise struggle with the extra costs of children)
So who gets em?
The video i watched didnt mention cash access....it kinda defeats the purpose.
Mama better budget
Lol That's messed up
If I was a single mom I'd feel like I was in the driver's seat. Cats are more afraid of being behind on CS than they are of being a minor & waving a toy gun around in the park.I had to bail my boy out of jail because he lost his job after falling behind on child support & being arrested for it...so he REALLY fell behind being jobless
...loves his kids, not a stereotypical breh.
I think the child support consequences can be extreme and they should definitely take into account the situation of the parent paying. If they lose their job, they shouldn't be punished for something they're not capable of providing and there should also be a more reasonable time limit on how long the person should be allowed to not pay support before they are punished especially if they can provide a valid reason for failure to pay.
I think the court system is too involved but sometimes it's necessary especially considering how many deadbeat parents there are out here.
Unfortunately as a result there are a lot of good men who are victims of this system.
There's really no 100% foolproof solution and getting rid of child support is definitely not the right decision.
Honestly no kudos needed you have kids you have to pay. Im just trying to shed some light to brothers that you don't have to be stuck paying 1000 a month and see your kid every other weekend that's bs. I remember when my son was like two he stared picking up them
You still get kudos from me. I applaud all parents custodial or non who take their responsibilities in nurturing growing loving and supporting their child/ren seriously.
they should sacrifice the child to the sun
CashmereThoughts
Veteran
What % of cases is this representative of
I havent seen a study that provides these stats, have you? i know alot of hoes pimping the system though, do you not know any?
notice how your eager to hold him financially accountable but say nothing about the women who live off benifits provided for the entire time they have a minor in their home?
thats whats wrong with our society. woman AUTOMATICALLY gets custody even if she cant afford it, society foots the bill and she raises more of our youth to live in that cycle of poverty. and people want to blame the man for everything. illogical. she gets a free ride if she cant handle her responsibility and the man gets to see the inside of a cell. this is a corrupt system,.
Pay 878 for my 10 yr old...got a 1yr now and spend nowhere close to that amount now for my son...
You must have a nice income no?
That gets lost in these conversations. They guy who works at burger king and makes 1000 a month is not getting hit with a 900 cs payment.
10 year olds are much more expensive than 1 year olds, I have no earthly idea if what you pay is also expended on your older child, maybe it is. Maybe it isn't though. Not trying to come at you personally.
The parent who could provide the better lifestyle for the child should have custody.
Never made sense to me why a mother who makes $30k a year gets custody over a father who makes $85k
It's a form of socialism. Taking his money to provide her a better standing of living that she couldn't provide for herself.
Now if dude said "I don't want nothing to do with the kid" or "I don't want custody" then he has to pay to play
But if he wants custody, he should get it. Especially if he doesn't need financial support for her
But wait... that would fukk up her cashflow.
Never made sense to me why a mother who makes $30k a year gets custody over a father who makes $85k
It's a form of socialism. Taking his money to provide her a better standing of living that she couldn't provide for herself.
Now if dude said "I don't want nothing to do with the kid" or "I don't want custody" then he has to pay to play
But if he wants custody, he should get it. Especially if he doesn't need financial support for her
But wait... that would fukk up her cashflow.
So you think outside of rappers/singers/pro athletes
That the income disparity is that huge generally?
What if the 85,000 a year parent works 90 hrs a week and the child would likely be with daycare/staff the majority of the time?
Just curious