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[Rozay Oro]

You sound like a woman lol

Extremely gay undertones OP

Y’all are some fakkits

 

[African Peasant]

It seems like you never cared for dude and were only using him or you had no other choice.

Cause if you really cared, you will be calling him and telling him all the things you're writing here about him and see if you can reconcile.

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

This shyt was the other night.

My “best friend” is literally the glue to my connection to our small social circle. I didn’t do any fukk shyt. I just stood up to him bein an a$$hole and he lowkey threatened me.

I asked him if that was a threat. He just rambled. Then dipped to the patio (apartment) to smoke and closed the door behind him.

I waited some minutes for him to maybe pop out. He didn’t so I just left. I known breh for over 10 years. Sometimes shyt happens and an apology can fix things. Even if disguised as a joke.

If he’s going to be an a$$hole with jokes and be a sensitive thug when I clap back then fukk him.

Problem is I’m shy and awkward. When I warm up I can be funny and likable.

Also he’s staying with a mutual friend and lot of us like to hang out there. That would be so awkward and annoying to be showing up or dodging each other.

He’s usually man enough to apologize. I have made a thread on a similar situation with him.

It’s been two days and no text or call. Might be time to make new friends. Problem is I just don’t have that gift of gab.

Damn I already feel empty struggling to connect with women romantically. Now I need to make new friends at 26. fukk lol

You probably weren't his friend. You were his point of comparison. You probably started to shine more than he liked and he hasn't adjusted to the change in the dynamic. The other people probably still fukk with you, you might be surprised.

 

[Rozay Oro]

You probably weren't his friend. You were his point of comparison. You probably started to shine more than he liked and he hasn't adjusted to the change in the dynamic. The other people probably still fukk with you, you might be surprised.

Surely but I’m have to invite them out to see them

 

[feelosofer]

I will be able to afford it in January

There is a site called Betterhelp.com they have affordable options for therapy.

Taking everything you said at face value, you have some emotional issues that are in turn holding you back socially. Like someone in your life abandoned you or betrayed you when you were younger and the shadows of that still haunt you.

 

[Unemployed GM]

I literally already did. The words don’t matter but the behavior is the real culprit. nikka if you that mad or whatever just say let’s split or I’ll see you around nikka.

Don’t just leave a nikka waiting like a dumbass while I can’t even see if you smoking or on the phone.

 

[Rozay Oro]

There is a site called Betterhelp.com they have affordable options for therapy.

Taking everything you said at face value, you have some emotional issues that are in turn holding you back socially. Like someone in your life abandoned you or betrayed you when you were younger and the shadows of that still haunt you.

Yeah cousins, middle school.

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

If we become cool again I’m definitely distancing myself from him though. He’s just gotten too comfortable with the way he been talking to me. We just have so many mutual friends so shyt would be awkward.

You need to tell him that. If you’re good friends like you say then you should be a man and tell him that 1:1.

I had to do that w/ one of my best friends a couple years ago. We got into an argument at a bar (that had been boiling for awhile), and a few days later I pulled up to his house and basically said look we’re friends and I love you, but for the last few months you been pressin the line you can do it w/ X, Y and Z, and they won’t say anything to you, they’ll just stop fukkin w/ you and inviting you places. But you’re doin that w/ me? Nah let’s talk about it.

 

[Unemployed GM]

We joke and talk shyt a lot.
He said how does it feel to be gay
Which is a line he likes to use a lot in general as a joke.

I went idk ask your dead homie’s cross dressing brother

he goes I’ll beat the shyt out of you

I go I’m talkin bout his brother, not my fault he happen to be dead

then I pause look him directly in the eyes and go is that a threat

he then rambles and exits room without returning

after 10 mins I leave

was I wrong? If I shytted on the dead homie, sure. I didn’t. Even made it clear.

No disrespect Breh but are y’all LGBTQ? I’m confused.

 

[Rozay Oro]

No disrespect Breh but are y’all LGBTQ? I’m confused.

LMFAO NO nikka WE NOT MOIST TF
CMON nikkaAAAAHH

 

[Rozay Oro]

You need to tell him that. If you’re good friends like you say then you should be a man and tell him that 1:1.

I had to do that w/ one of my best friends a couple years ago. We got into an argument at a bar (that had been boiling for awhile), and a few days later I pulled up to his house and basically said look we’re friends and I love you, but for the last few months you been pressin the line you can do it w/ X, Y and Z, and they won’t say anything to you, they’ll just stop fukkin w/ you and inviting you places. But you’re doin that w/ me? Nah let’s talk about it.

I don’t wish anything bad nor have animosity but I ain’t doing that. Been getting sick of the nikka

 

[Menna]

This shyt was the other night.

My “best friend” is literally the glue to my connection to our small social circle. I didn’t do any fukk shyt. I just stood up to him bein an a$$hole and he lowkey threatened me.

I asked him if that was a threat. He just rambled. Then dipped to the patio (apartment) to smoke and closed the door behind him.

I waited some minutes for him to maybe pop out. He didn’t so I just left. I known breh for over 10 years. Sometimes shyt happens and an apology can fix things. Even if disguised as a joke.

If he’s going to be an a$$hole with jokes and be a sensitive thug when I clap back then fukk him.

Problem is I’m shy and awkward. When I warm up I can be funny and likable.

Also he’s staying with a mutual friend and lot of us like to hang out there. That would be so awkward and annoying to be showing up or dodging each other.

He’s usually man enough to apologize. I have made a thread on a similar situation with him.

It’s been two days and no text or call. Might be time to make new friends. Problem is I just don’t have that gift of gab.

Damn I already feel empty struggling to connect with women romantically. Now I need to make new friends at 26. fukk lol

So what go make some money...you gonna be 30 in 3 years...Why you caring about meeting up with NEW guys at 26 if its not about money its time to grow up...I understand old friends and people you know since 15 but if its not working out go make money and go meet women...."Friends" lol...yea ok...that friend shyt gets old and is forced if it isnt easy bro stop putting emotional problems on eachother...

 

[Rozay Oro]

So what go make some money...you gonna be 30 in 3 years...Why you caring about meeting up with NEW guys at 26 if its not about money its time to grow up...I understand old friends and people you know since 15 but if its not working out go make money and go meet women...."Friends" lol...yea ok...that friend shyt gets old and is forced if it isnt easy bro stop putting emotional problems on eachother...

I got a job. I’m free 2-3 days a week. Idk how to get more money besides a second job. I don’t want more hoes I want a boo.

 

[Menna]

I got a job. I’m free 2-3 days a week. Idk how to get more money besides a second job. I don’t want more hoes I want a boo.

Go make some more money or spend time studying on investing/stocks/crypto/real estate/ecommerce stores....I said go meet women not go fk mutliple women a week.....To get to the boo you have to get to know multiple women thats how it works its not the 1950's where you know the girl from school and the only way to see them is by calling their house and speaking to their parents....you might meet more hoes while you on your way to the boo...But this mental energy on guy friend this or guy social circle that in your late 20's is played if the male friendship isnt easy or worth it THERE IS NO SENCE COMPLAINING ABOUT IT....GET MORE MONEY AND MEET YOUR BOO WHICH WILL REQUIRE MEETING MORE WOMEN.......

If not than you value what other men think over getting your life right...and then watch you put all this energy and TIME into keeping the circle or the one guy friend and then within the next 5 years ya'll gonna drift apart naturally...someone move for a job...someone meeting a women get serious...this and that....take the hint now but ya gonna do what ya want to do at 26 its still young so you need experience to really know...just don't be 33 posting about the same shyt

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

What do yall usually do when yall hang out?

probably hand jobs, prostate massages, and blow jobs......

 

[Art Barr]

Smoke and joke around. Just be homies. Lately breh been an a$$hole. We’ve come close to scrappin. Idk may be time to stop wasting time with this hot headed ass nikka.

I just don’t know how to make new friends well.

Friends do not play dozens with one another.

A friend who sheltered and wanna be a comedian but scary is the only one with all them jokes. You need to get him an application to budweiser supercomedy fest.

Get rid of the pessimist.

They not a friend.
Plus waitining on you.
to fix their problems.
they will not address. Then trying to treat you becaise they have low self esteem. That is not a friend. That is someone who has low self esteem.

Send them to the bush leagues.


Art Barr

Ras you are alone.






Art Barr