Delete thread

[O.T.I.S.]

Found in your phone anytime you look at your partners phone, you gonna find what you looking for. Nobody to blame but herself

This

I had ex’s pull up texts from years ago like they brand new. I’m like, we weren’t even together

A friend of mines reached out on Facebook. We used to be real cool and only smashed like ONCE and it was years before I even knew my ex like that.

She reached out, we talked, I even yold her about my chick, etc. we just caught up. She would say wassup here and there and eventually my chick snooped through my messages, saw the convo, and texted her in response to not text me again.

I’m like .. you literally could’ve just asked me to not talk to her anymore if that was the case. But i knew this chick before her, she’s married, and she’s not even on the same continent I’m on.

I eventually cut old girl off (more like just stopped communicating at all), eventually found out my ex’s own secrets (like her still being in contact with a whole EX… not a friend, an ex), broke up, and eventually I reached out to the friend who was still pissed about the ex bullshyt.

So fukk them both at this point. Motherfukkers jump into your life doing fugazi shyt then get mad at you…

 

[O.T.I.S.]

She wasnt snooping. She was browsing the web looking for a dress (she going to a wedding). My mac is synced with my phone. I received a message and the iMessage popped up.

Suuurrreeeee

That Mac shyt will fukk you up every time though.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Trust is like a glass: you can put it back together if you break it, but the cracks will always be there.

 

[kdslittlebro]

This

I had ex’s pull up texts from years ago like they brand new. I’m like, we weren’t even together

A friend of mines reached out on Facebook. We used to be real cool and only smashed like ONCE and it was years before I even knew my ex like that.

She reached out, we talked, I even yold her about my chick, etc. we just caught up. She would say wassup here and there and eventually my chick snooped through my messages, saw the convo, and texted her in response to not text me again.

I’m like .. you literally could’ve just asked me to not talk to her anymore if that was the case. But i knew this chick before her, she’s married, and she’s not even on the same continent I’m on.

I eventually cut old girl off (more like just stopped communicating at all), eventually found out my ex’s own secrets (like her still being in contact with a whole EX… not a friend, an ex), broke up, and eventually I reached out to the friend who was still pissed about the ex bullshyt.

So fukk them both at this point

Damn near been there beat for beat my nikka

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Can’t be entertaining other women when you in a committed relationship. Even if it’s platonic you gotta move respectfully.

Exactly why I don’t have female friends. Honestly, no one should seriously get into a relationship with anyone who befriends too many people of their opposite sex. Major red flag.

If you ain't fukking, wtf yall talking about? ol unfulfilled ass nikka

And this is exactly why it’s a red flag. No one can give a valid answer why. If you’re in a relationship, you shouldn’t be entertaining anyone else who isn’t your partner.

 

[ucanthandlethetruth]

You moving sloppy but if you a alpha and If she truly love you she will stay this will be a test to your relationship.. most women won't admit but they want the man other equal or badder women in they mind desire they just don't want the receipts in there reality. You gonna have to man up admit your wrongs and confront her short comings and why you entertained other conversations from shorty and check her shyt too it's only right. make it make sense I'm sure there is blame on both sides..if your truly innocent in Convo and your game tight this will pass and you can actually get a stronger relationship together which you usually can't do without some real adversity to test y'all but you gotta be a real man and step up or you'll be her punching bag if you stay.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

You just gave her a hall pass so the question is - are you a cuck?

These are the origin stories of most cucks. Once potential cheaters get caught, they slowly lose their manhood to salvage the relationship.

@gho3st you just gave your girl dikklomatic immunity.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Trust is like a glass: you can put it back together if you break it, but the cracks will always be there.

Good metaphor.

 

[Geek Nasty]

Some of you just need a hobby. How are you finding time for all this sneaking around?

 

[Voice of Reason]

She feels like i broke her trust and wants to breakup….i dont feel like i cheated or did so since i didnt fck anyone nor apply pressure to any of them…

what to do?

Why are texting other women?

 

[Reptile]

These are the origin stories of most cucks. Once potential cheaters get caught, they slowly lose their manhood to salvage the relationship.

@gho3st you just gave your girl dikklomatic immunity.

Ive always said never take a girl back after you cheated on her. She'll embarrass you to save face.

 

[RhodyRum]

Nah just random sht…

Have female platonic friends brehs

 

[ThrobbingHood]

What were you talking about you couldn't with your girl OP?

No one can ever truly answer this question.

i met them some time back, exchange numbers, messaged but never chased or fcked. Only 1 girl i used to fck b4 my girl but havent since.

Just break up. I mean, if they were at least co-workers or ex-colleagues, that would at least be plausible. You’re not serious about this relationship.

I delete all numbers of women I messed with or talked to prior to getting into a relationship. It’s just having basic respect for the sanctity of it.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

She feels like i broke her trust and wants to breakup….i dont feel like i cheated or did so since i didnt fck anyone nor apply pressure to any of them…

what to do?

She gon do what she wants to do — like go thru your phone so the sky is the limit. She feels how she feels and in her min she’s creating all kinds of little scenarios and shyt about what she THINKS happened/is happening.

 

[Lurkio]

i met them some time back, exchange numbers, messaged but never chased or fcked. Only 1 girl i used to fck b4 my girl but havent since.