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[Van Cleef]

hope she leaves you

 

[jdubnyce]

She text some shyt like "the bacon in aisle 5 is ready to be purchased". She'd text another dude "The Olympics are going to be great"

Straight vulgar secret code shyt

 

[Gloxina]

What transgressions? Im being accused of cheating off platonic texts? I’m tryna figure out how something so innocent would cause you to cry…it’s one of 2 things…projection or past trauma I need to see your phone to rule one of those out

That’s a good point. Now, how would YOU react if your lady was texting with platonic male friends?

 

[shopthatwrecks]

check her cash app transactions

 

[ChatGPT-5]

If she did the same thing to you, how would you feel? Would her texting or even giving other men her attention be okay with you?

dont women talk to the opposite sex ? might just be a boss or coworker.

its when reversed that i see people making it a big deal. it never sat well with me.

 

[Left.A1]

Leave the bytch ….you obviously don’t care about her why keep lying to yourself ….go live the lifestyle you actually want

 

[O.T.I.S.]

No one can ever truly answer this question.

Just break up. I mean, if they were at least co-workers or ex-colleagues, that would at least be plausible. You’re not serious about this relationship.

I delete all numbers of women I messed with or talked to prior to getting into a relationship. It’s just having basic respect for the sanctity of it.

I often wondered if females actually did the same…

I know my ex didn’t delete my number when she first got with the original nikka who was her ex first… didn’t delete his number after me, I also know she didn’t delete my number after she was linking with the new nikka after me… she was still texting talking about fukking.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

dont women talk to the opposite sex ? might just be a boss or coworker.

its when reversed that i see people making it a big deal. it never sat well with me.

he need to check her cash app transaction...

those text messages dont compare to the amount of funds office bae/husband has sent her for the past couple of years

$$$ >>> text messages

u cant delete the transactions are there long as she has the account...


she can delete all the messages and pictures n call logs all day...


9 times outta 10 u can click the cash app sender n see the face ...

 

[gho3st]

This puerto rican chick with some big ass tities. Ive not seen her face to face since i started dating my girl tho

 

[90MIND]

Y'all dudes really be having zero contact with other women if you're in a relationship? I can’t wrap my mind around that shyt. I understand not talking to hoes and shyt but I actually have real female friends. Even if I didn’t have those friends, I think it’s asinine to expect your partner to not talk to another motherfukker. I don’t want that kind of control over anybody and I damn sure ain’t letting nobody have it over me.

Seriously, for mature adults with actual fukking discipline this shyt shouldn’t be an issue

 

[Greed]

Honestly if it’s just friendly chatting, then I’d probably take it as a red flag that she wants to end things (but who cares about flags at that point right? Unless you’re trying to keep her) I’ve been around enough to know that sometimes folks are just looking for a reason or justification. People will absolutely blow the smallest things YOU do out of proportion while they themselves are doing far worse with no sense of shame or guilt

I don’t mind my chick having a few guy friends but she has to be open with me about it. If she’s secretly contacting them or trying to hide it, that alone is a sign of guilt. So if that’s what you’re doing, then you’re in the wrong full stop. Never a reason to hide communication from others from your partner if y’all are serious.

 

[DamienWayne]

String her along until u find someone better or she leaves u . We HOH in 2023 obviously she wasn't all that if u was texting other women

 

[Kingofthereal]

She feels like i broke her trust and wants to breakup….i dont feel like i cheated or did so since i didnt fck anyone nor apply pressure to any of them…

what to do?

Lol that’s a wrap mo, best to let her go and you do what you do. I’ll give you some advice, if you gonna chase other women… don’t get in a relationship. I’m not saying you do this but a lot of dudes lie to women to get p*ssy by calling em their girlfriend… don’t do that. In my experience, they respect upfront honesty more than doing some shyt behind their backs.

 

[Heavy_Handz]

Let her go. If she still wants to be with you then she will let you know. She won’t leave unless she wants to.

 

[Him]

I mean as long as you were just texting them and not doing anything that could be considered explicit your relationship can continue but she will hold this over you forever and if you can deal with that then I say go for it. She will always have trust issues now but I guarantee if you went through her phone or social media DMs you’ll see her entertaining other guys but I don’t know if that’s a road you want to go down (I’ve been there). Either way, good luck.