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Studious one

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What you texting them about that your girl was clueless to? :sas2:

Reverse the roles...how would you feel?
This is never considered. Also, that relationship is over because she feels justified to do anything that she does from here on.
 

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Don't get me wrong, i still think he was acting foul if he was hiding it from his girl. But if he wasn't and if he truly feels like he's innocent, he should act like it. Right now, his whole demeanor is like a guilty man trying to get his girl back (which is why he's losing)
She gonna resent him even if she stays so the relationship will be a ticking time bomb. I agree with your assessment of OP acting guilty.
 

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Well, it seems like you’re hiding something for her.

My girl knows of my female friends or female coworkers that I speak to but I don’t really have any close female friends besides my girls friends at this point.
Dude, the only male interactions I have is on this site. I gave up all my male friends because I KNOW they would be down to duck in a New York minute. Op just want to have “girl talk” with females. Yeah, ok. That girl isn’t stupid
 

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Babes idk what she was doing but the bolded is concerning if you didn't do or say anything to hearty Heather in a sexual manner. If she has issues with being cheated on before, then her reaction could make sense because it could be triggering. If not she could be going through something on her own. If she's not willing to talk about it, it could be over
Sounds like someone has been in her ear telling her OP is no good, she halfway believed it and now 'found' justification.

Either way OP needs to move on. Sounds like he may have dodged a bullet.
 

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You're gonna have to regain her confidence in you 🤷🏾‍♀️

How can you text other girls and expect your girlfriend to not think something fishy is going on? If those girls aren't your family or childhood friends then you def got some explaining to do.

Next time just stay faithful your girlfriend, you may not have been doing anything but sometimes as women we'd believe otherwise in this situation unless, for me at least, as previously stated above that these women are of some level of importance to you (blood or childhood connection).
Sis, I’ll be honest: if it ain’t his fam or someone he grew up with all his life, I don’t want my man texting no bytch or no bytch texting him.I don’t give a fukk. I’m not entertaining other men in no way, shape or form so I don’t want that shyt done to me. That’s the point of being in a committed relationship. Idc. my boyfriend has a lot of sisters and nieces. if he want to talk to a female, talk to them. Men don’t give a fukk about what women have to say to be friends without ulterior motives like that, and that’s the reason why men feel a way about women having male friends. They KNOW. At any given time, he’s ready to jump in the ring. Disclaimer: this is true of the woman is attractive, but ugly girls can get it too.
 

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Lol that’s a wrap mo, best to let her go and you do what you do. I’ll give you some advice, if you gonna chase other women… don’t get in a relationship. I’m not saying you do this but a lot of dudes lie to women to get p*ssy by calling em their girlfriend… don’t do that. In my experience, they respect upfront honesty more than doing some shyt behind their backs.
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Dude, the only male interactions I have is on this site. I gave up all my male friends because I KNOW they would be down to duck in a New York minute. Op just want to have “girl talk” with females. Yeah, ok. That girl isn’t stupid
Facts. My girl already knows how I feel about “male friends.”

That’s why I barely have female friends. Unless they’re married and she knows them.
 

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So what if you text another girl. She ain't the one brother. She's treating youike a child. Only you can trip if she's talking to the opposite sex. Not the other way around

Unless of course, these women you're talking to have significant others.
 

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@gho3st I fukk with you from the soccer thread but that update isn’t hope. She’s building a case to justify the next nikka about to pipe her.

Honestly, cut your losses now because it seems like she’s already mentally checked out. :francis:
Yea…i know. My thought is if thats what it takes for things to end, then it was always gonna go that way

plus i feel like her family already corrupted her.

im going to try to her back but i most definitely will not simp or embarrass myself. Im not about to be in a relationship where power dynamics is uneven.
 

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You mean they don’t trust? I couldn’t imagine why that is. :troll:
Nah..her family comments on anything she does. And she does not stand up to them. So they do affect her.

her mom is married but leaves separate from her husband, sister is single. So im like “wtf you taking advice from ppl who aint got stable relationships“ :dahell:
 

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Nah..her family comments on anything she does. And she does not stand up to them. So they do affect her.

her mom is married but leaves separate from her husband, sister is single. So im like “wtf you taking advice from ppl who aint got stable relationships“ :dahell:
oh yeah, prepare to deal with that bullshyt too…

Family and friends always seems to be a denominator for the dumb shyt with these sneak through your phone types.

They’ll listen to women in shytty relationships, ones chasing after whiteboys, ones getting cheated on themselves, or the ones in no relationship at all. No man acts on “straight advice” from another man that doesn’t have his shyt together, but women care much more about what their friends think and suggest…


All just to be single again
 
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