Drip Bayless
Superstar
Go get you some new p*ssy bruh
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- Thread starter SnowflakesByTheOZ
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gotta cut her out.
even just sex with her is emotionally draining and is a point of weakness as she might weasel her way back into a relationship with you. Get some will power and don't let the easy sex keep you around.
even just sex with her is emotionally draining and is a point of weakness as she might weasel her way back into a relationship with you. Get some will power and don't let the easy sex keep you around.
She's going to leave with your baby. That's her mission.
Give her access to your DNA if you want.....
Yup im sure y all smashing raw
She gon have ur kid very soon
I knw u still got feelings but u better run away now
Thing is that you gave up control- Basically, she has the control of the situation and now can manipulate it to how she seems fit (i.e. telling her friends that you're talking again, restart the relationship etc.) you didn't establish any barriers, did not set an standards upfront or communicate to her that this will be a sexual situation. You left the door open for a lot of possibilities even though you said it's just sex. The real problem is that during momentary weakness, you let her back even though she violated by cheating. Obviously you still have feelings for her and she knows that. Your feelings may not be as strong as they once were, but they are there nonetheless. Because you still want to chill with her in a nonsexual way too, and then it seems like it will be a routine thing if yall continue hanging out.
But the trust factor is gone- so you have to decide whether to continue down this path and decide if you can take being on the receiving end of her taking advantage of you. Right now, she's getting the benefits while you're confused. I know it feels good because you're with someone that you were in a relationship with and it's emotional. Thats right now though.. how will you feel later on when the emotional feelings fall off and that resentment starts coming in to play. But you gotta decide if you are willing to put the indiscretions in the past, forgive and get over it. Or logically, can you put up with someone who violated your trust. Thinking ahead, what's to stop her from cheating again, then you're left in the same position, Because its kind of like you're giving her a pass from the cheating before; like she already got one over on you. is it better to repair and work on the relationship or should you cut all ties and move on without all this stress. All those lingering feelings will be harder to break from the longer that you stay in the situation. Need to decide if its worth all that.
But the trust factor is gone- so you have to decide whether to continue down this path and decide if you can take being on the receiving end of her taking advantage of you. Right now, she's getting the benefits while you're confused. I know it feels good because you're with someone that you were in a relationship with and it's emotional. Thats right now though.. how will you feel later on when the emotional feelings fall off and that resentment starts coming in to play. But you gotta decide if you are willing to put the indiscretions in the past, forgive and get over it. Or logically, can you put up with someone who violated your trust. Thinking ahead, what's to stop her from cheating again, then you're left in the same position, Because its kind of like you're giving her a pass from the cheating before; like she already got one over on you. is it better to repair and work on the relationship or should you cut all ties and move on without all this stress. All those lingering feelings will be harder to break from the longer that you stay in the situation. Need to decide if its worth all that.
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NotAnFBIagent
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U clearly have lingering feelings for her still.
Either cut it off completely or jump back into another relationship like she's luring you into
Either cut it off completely or jump back into another relationship like she's luring you into
UWasntThere
Superstar
I'm not giving these wolves any dirt.Treat the Coli like your personal diary brehs....
IMO I think you're doing it right by smashing on some HOH shyt. Use her for a nut and that's it - you get yours and also some revenge. Like some of these other poster have said, she's gonna try and trap you. Strap up unless youre trying to be trapped with a thot for the next 18
SnowflakesByTheOZ
Sorry, that's another B
When she told me that she told a couple people I immediately told her not to do that and I want no one even knowing that we even communicate. She asked why not and I made my stance explicitly. I still have feelings for her, the coli knows that but she doesn't. I don't call or text her if I don't need to, as I said the only reason I don't leave as soon as we're done is because that I believe that's gonna make her feel like shyt and jeopardize this. This thread is about the internal urges that I and some may face, none of which I've displayed outwardly towards her and which mostly exist when I'm physically with her. When I'm with her I'm pretty stoic and mentally distant. She tries to take selfies and shyt and I tell her to cut that shyt out. Sometimes I may become reflective but my rational thinking trumps emotion. Doesn't mean there's no struggle though.
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Rollo Goodlove
Palestine Titty
She lucky you didn't knock her upside her head
Tramp her out start doing nasty shyt recording it let her see where your coming from
Tramp her out start doing nasty shyt recording it let her see where your coming from
SnowflakesByTheOZ
Sorry, that's another B
Yea I'm anti kids and have only had unprotected sex maybe 3 times in my entire life. Definitely not having unprotected. I don't see it as dirt, if some posters want to be malicious so be be it but I've seen threads on here that have motivated me like @PhonZhi and a couple others that share their life experiences and I think it's dope. There's probably a breh on here that's going through this shyt or been through something similar and can use the discussion and an outlet.
SnowflakesByTheOZ
Sorry, that's another B
Agree 100%, admittedly I cheated on her as well, I can't fit the entire relationship into an OP, if I could I would but mistakes were made on both ends. I guess that played a role in me throwing her a bone (no pun) but once the trust is broken I'll show no care anymore.
OP this is worse not better and no reason to throw anyone a "bone." It signals y'all were toxic af together and should stay well away from any intimacy.