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CreepyMcCreeperson
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Go to court immediately after the kid is born, and establish custody and child support.
Let this be a lesson to yourself and everyone else to stop having babies out of wedlock.
Let this be a lesson to yourself and everyone else to stop having babies out of wedlock.
That part. Right thereAnd you still smashed her raw and nutted in her? Make it make sense.
Sorry to tell you but you're fukked. If she's acting like this weeks into the pregnancy, it'll only get 10 times worst. If you get a steady girlfriend or eventually marry a chick, she's going to make your life hell because it's not her.
This is why I find it so hard to have sympathy for people who complain about shyt they knew wasn't right from the jump. Y'all be ruining you own lives for a nut?
A lot of women do this. They pretend like they are okay not having a relationship with the unborn child’s father. But as reality starts to set in they suddenly want the perfect family and are crushed when they realize they can’t have that. So they start to be petty and vindictive thinking, for whatever reason, that them being an annoying brat will make the man love them. Op expect a tumultuous pregnancy.
Jaylen Tatum
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nikka said she has poor hygiene and still hit raw. How old is she sir?
Poor hygiene?
Now OP... you too damn old to be seeding up someone with poor hygiene
Please learn from this experience and make better choices in the future
Also... don’t take her “chaos” personal... she’s hormonal (which isn’t necessarily an excuse) and also sounds a bit off her rocker
She could also be scared and embarrassed. You never know. try your best to focus on the child, support her however you can, and keep conflict minimal. I can’t tell you this road you’ve embarked on will be easy... but good luck
Kyle C. Barker
Migos VERZUZ Mahalia Jackson
Let this be a cautionary tale brehs... wrap your shyt up or don’t fukk the chick
Dreadknox77
All Star
Ight brehs...i didnt expect it to come to this...but here i go
My ex from a year ago started fukkin wit me again at the top of 2019 n i got her pregnant. She about 12 weeks now.
At the start i let it be known that we will co-parent...and that I am still single. She said ok.
We opened a bank acct and thus far ive deposited $200 every other week for the baby.
I also call or text her twice a week to see if she good and whatnot...I just dont want to act as if I'm her man...because I'm not. Im her baby's father.
Shes a hair designer so she has concerns about her not getting federal benefits to pay her rent after birth. I let it be known that i dont want her to move in with me . because #1...my lease wont allow more than 2 tenants...#2...if i do change my lease...she would have to live with me for a full year (for the new lease of course)..and u already know what that situation would turn into...and #3..her mother lives 10 min from her! I suggested she move in wit her mom for the first 6 months of the childs birth and she immediately said no...So i already know the game she playin...n i aint playin that shyt.
I let her know the deal and she says ok
So at 6 weeks prego while im at Wal-Mart paying my rent she hits me with this text:
"I can't believe i got pregnant by a hoe u fukking suck"
I rebuttal appropriately and we continue as such.
At about 8 weeks...when we first visit our obgyn...she says
"I know u been fukking wit other bytches and its really been affecting me"
I'm like "Yo...ive been 100 percent straightforward wit u...never have i lead u on..i care about u and our baby...and ive held up my end of my responsibilities...so whats the problem"
Everything was gucci until I say I can have the baby with me 3 days out the week after 3 months
She then says "nah...imma need at least 6 months...maybe more because after hanging wit u for this long i know u be drinking and smoking weed on the regular"
Brehs...this chick would BRING weed and liquor to my crib n get lit WIT a nikka...where all them memories go?
Im like yo wtf...u really think imma treat my son/daughter the same as any other woman id have with me???" At this moment i realized there may be foul play at hand
I play it cool and she hits me back a few days later saying she just wants us to work together for the best of the baby...im like ight.
Now to this week. 12 weeks preggo. BM hitting me saying she feels miserable. Her friends dont wanna hang wit her no more cuz she preggo...she feels lonely...all dat. I speak wit my baby cuz who is preggo with her second child and she offers to help wit the baby shower...even sends a fb link to a group specifically for new mothers.
I send it to my BM hoping it will console her...she says "y would u send me this shyt"...and says that she's facing this pregnancy on her own...
Wtf brehs...not only have i been on time with all of my $200 deposits into the bank acct. I reach out 2x a week...and try my best to get to evey doctors appt. She then calls me an arrogant a$$hole and says "i dont get it".
I then come to the conclusion that she just bitter bc i let it be known off rip that i dont want a relationship with her. After i say just that to her she says im self absorbed!
I work full-time as an overnight dispatcher...and the day after our argument...she wakes me up with a text saying "I guess u forgot about the baby's first ultrasound"...mind u she hadnt mentioned it for nearly 10 days...and instead of doing so she complains about how her pregnancy is unbearable bc she doesnt get invited by her "friends" to Tyrese and B2K reunion concerts at the prudential center..she calls me an arrogant a$$hole...I then say yo...dont talk to me anymore unless its about a doctors visit...matter fact send me ALL the scheduled appointments...and if not i will get them from your older sister...whom she linked me with.
She then rebuttals with a "fukk you"...and says she will move to ATL (where her sisters live) from Jersey (where we from) after the child is born and put me on child support and visitation. I'm flabbergasted.
Thus far her sister said she will try to get her to come to grips with reality...but wtf brehs...someone with experience give a nikka some insight.
Breh what’s up with this long ass story ???
Anyway , she’s pregnant, take whatever she says with a grain of salt . Her hormones are all over the place . Keep ur composure
Them "I'll put sum on it" babies...
Tommy Knocks
retired
young brehs. take note....it starts off like this thread https://www.thecoli.com/threads/youre-smashing-this-chick-doggy-and-youre-about-to-buss.717484/
but ends up like this thread.
#gmb #bdb (babydaddybreh)
but ends up like this thread.
#gmb #bdb (babydaddybreh)
Thingsfallapart
Superstar
Is it really out or nowhere though? NO chick really wants to be a single mother and raise a kid alone (not saying you won’t take care of your baby. But you know what I mean). No matter how much shyt chicks talk about their baby fathers on social media, MOST of them would jump at the chance, If he told her that he wanted to do the right thing, get married, and do the family thing.
I ain’t saying she’s victim, she stupidly bet on a “keep him baby” and she lost, but the reality of that L, has got to be taking a toll.
It's stories like this that give credence to the whole waiting before marriage notion. Outside of STDs, the possibility of bringing an unwanted child into the world into a dysfunctional home is also there. It shouldn't be this way.
This one of the few times I cant put this on the women lol
I think it's more than what dude is telling..
This is his Ex and he just happened to get her preg?
Like I'm sure if she tells the story, she gonna say dude was doing all kindza "I like u" type shyt with her.... besides the fact he was fukking her raw and skeeeeting up in her.
My nikka, u knew what was up...