coudln't they do a prenatal DNA Test to determine paternity and go from there?They aren't married and the child isn't born yet, so there's absolutely nothing he can do to stop her from leaving the state...
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International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Time to grow up, young fella
I remember fukking raw a woman I didnt see a future with, after 3 strokes i came to my senses & put my condom back on
I remember fukking raw a woman I didnt see a future with, after 3 strokes i came to my senses & put my condom back on
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Nah, I see fatherhood as sacrifice. If I got someone pregnant, I would feel obligated to adapt.
The effectiveeffectiveness is dependent on trying to trap the right person.
She was already pregnant and the kid ain't hisare u guys still having sex? i know u say you're not trying to act like her man, but u two were having unprotected sex so seems a bit odd.
God willing
Don't sign that paperwork till paternity is confirmed pal
With that clinical arrangement y'all got it shouldn't be difficult
Good for you. But if that was the case in general there would be far less single mothers
trillanova
The Truth
she's dealing with the reality that she's a baby mama and she probably thought the pregnancy would change you to want to commit. her plans fell through and now she's coming to terms with a harsh reality. plus pregnancy makes women emotional and are prone to mood swings. nobody really wants to bring a child into the world knowing that the parental structure is flawed from the jump...but hey...i guess ya'll though this new age bm/bd thing would be cool but in reality there's nothing cool about it. the baby mama baby daddy thing was a last resort after trying to make it work failed. now people are already deciding they won't be together before the baby is even born, which is lowkey wild to me. but that's ya'll situation. you get points for keeping it a buck and putting money aside for your seed. i think your bm will always resent you tho. she thought the baby was going to change things and it didn't.
ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
Ain’t shyt nikka knocks up an ain’t shyt bytch.
Water is also wet.
Water is also wet.
Better be saving for a child support lawyer/ family court lawyer.
Plus future mediation fees.
Make sure she tells you about any government programs she'll be using cause they will be looking for the father to pay them back.
Put your agreements in emails and writings.
No advice will help unless it's about preparation at this point. She gone do what she wants to, as you have given her the right to. With that being said good luck.
Babies with no strings attached....
This is the best advice on this thread..
Nothing you can do to change the past. You CAN affect your childs future, so start getting prepared. I would actually suggest you go to the state and put yourself on Child support immediately and guarantee your rights to your child. That includes a court ordered Paternity test BTW as a first step in determining parentage. Because it sounds like you think y'all can be cool throughout the child's life and yes that can happen but from the sounds of your situation thats not going to happen.
Don't forget you can be putting money in a bank account for 10 years "off the record". But she gets upset over whatever bs when child is 12 and bang hit you them court papers. You will owe 12 years back child support because you never put the arrangement into a legal document.
I've spent 9 years and 30K in lawyer fees + court costs, bro. Bite the bullet and do the legal route now. Might not sound like a good option but it will be the best in the long run.
ALSO you might hate your BM right now but you need to respect her. Especially once the child is here. Not the best idea to go talking sh*t about her on forums. You made the decision to sleep with her. So even if she ain't shyt she is your BM and deserve a little bit of respect because YOU choose to have a child with her if she is so "bad hygiene" what does that say about you?
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LiveFromLondon
Superstar
Ahh you see the way the female brain is set up they think its gonna pan out well but realy it dont.This. I also don’t understand why any woman with a brain cell would put themselves in a position to even get pregnant by a nikka who doesn’t want them. Makes zero sense to me.
Congrats OP
@donwanducketts is the ass fat, only feasible reason you should still deal with an ex
MischievousMonkey
Gor bu dëgër
And this is why I'll always be condom gang
Good luck to you in your current and future endeavors OP
Good luck to you in your current and future endeavors OP
Where did you get that from,sounds like OP was fukking raw and at 30 years old still wants to be out here fukking other women raw to the point he would stress the mother of his child into a miscarriage. He doesn't love her,doesn't love his seed more than p*ssy,grow up OP. Getting alot of p*ssy made you a man at 13 years old,you are 30 now. Stepping up and guiding the mother of your child into being a real woman who's not poisoning her body and mind,having a plan for you, her and your seed is man shyt now.Don't let me catch you in this site talking about shyt else until you get that through your head:henbron:.
Ight brehs...i didnt expect it to come to this...but here i go
My ex from a year ago started fukkin wit me again at the top of 2019 n i got her pregnant. She about 12 weeks now.
At the start i let it be known that we will co-parent...and that I am still single. She said ok.
We opened a bank acct and thus far ive deposited $200 every other week for the baby.
I also call or text her twice a week to see if she good and whatnot...I just dont want to act as if I'm her man...because I'm not. Im her baby's father.
Shes a hair designer so she has concerns about her not getting federal benefits to pay her rent after birth. I let it be known that i dont want her to move in with me . because #1...my lease wont allow more than 2 tenants...#2...if i do change my lease...she would have to live with me for a full year (for the new lease of course)..and u already know what that situation would turn into...and #3..her mother lives 10 min from her! I suggested she move in wit her mom for the first 6 months of the childs birth and she immediately said no...So i already know the game she playin...n i aint playin that shyt.
I let her know the deal and she says ok
So at 6 weeks prego while im at Wal-Mart paying my rent she hits me with this text:
"I can't believe i got pregnant by a hoe u fukking suck"
I rebuttal appropriately and we continue as such.
At about 8 weeks...when we first visit our obgyn...she says
"I know u been fukking wit other bytches and its really been affecting me"
I'm like "Yo...ive been 100 percent straightforward wit u...never have i lead u on..i care about u and our baby...and ive held up my end of my responsibilities...so whats the problem"
Everything was gucci until I say I can have the baby with me 3 days out the week after 3 months
She then says "nah...imma need at least 6 months...maybe more because after hanging wit u for this long i know u be drinking and smoking weed on the regular"
Brehs...this chick would BRING weed and liquor to my crib n get lit WIT a nikka...where all them memories go?
Im like yo wtf...u really think imma treat my son/daughter the same as any other woman id have with me???" At this moment i realized there may be foul play at hand
I play it cool and she hits me back a few days later saying she just wants us to work together for the best of the baby...im like ight.
Now to this week. 12 weeks preggo. BM hitting me saying she feels miserable. Her friends dont wanna hang wit her no more cuz she preggo...she feels lonely...all dat. I speak wit my baby cuz who is preggo with her second child and she offers to help wit the baby shower...even sends a fb link to a group specifically for new mothers.
I send it to my BM hoping it will console her...she says "y would u send me this shyt"...and says that she's facing this pregnancy on her own...
Wtf brehs...not only have i been on time with all of my $200 deposits into the bank acct. I reach out 2x a week...and try my best to get to evey doctors appt. She then calls me an arrogant a$$hole and says "i dont get it".
I then come to the conclusion that she just bitter bc i let it be known off rip that i dont want a relationship with her. After i say just that to her she says im self absorbed!
I work full-time as an overnight dispatcher...and the day after our argument...she wakes me up with a text saying "I guess u forgot about the baby's first ultrasound"...mind u she hadnt mentioned it for nearly 10 days...and instead of doing so she complains about how her pregnancy is unbearable bc she doesnt get invited by her "friends" to Tyrese and B2K reunion concerts at the prudential center..she calls me an arrogant a$$hole...I then say yo...dont talk to me anymore unless its about a doctors visit...matter fact send me ALL the scheduled appointments...and if not i will get them from your older sister...whom she linked me with.
She then rebuttals with a "fukk you"...and says she will move to ATL (where her sisters live) from Jersey (where we from) after the child is born and put me on child support and visitation. I'm flabbergasted.
Thus far her sister said she will try to get her to come to grips with reality...but wtf brehs...someone with experience give a nikka some insight.
Should have kept your penis in your pants
