Detroit Breh shows up at wife’s job, proceeds to pistol whip and then shoot at her. Was he justified?

[Claudex]

It's crazy how relationships really convinces people that they own each and they really have a right to harm the other if they don't act in accordance with the ownership agreement.

So your telling me that relationships are so great and magical but the minute I don't "act right," I want to leave or it's a Tuesday there is a high likelihood that he will harm me?

It's crazy what we have convinced ourselves is normal or justified.

The overwhelming danger that people willing put themselves in for such a tiny pay off is wild to me. Relationships especially marriage are dangerous. You are literally giving an emotional, self serving and likely low intellect individual unlimited access to destroy you in 1000 different ways.

Ain’t love or relationships that’s the problem, it’s that we are systematically tossing the old rules that kept love safe. Back then it was truth, loyalty, self-control, and a real way to handle betrayal without picking up a gun. Lose that, and chaos gon’ fill the spot every time.

But let’s be real, the old rules weren’t perfect either, you and I both know that. Maybe we’re just circling back to where we started as a species: chaos.

Humans built money, churches, laws, courtships, bethrotals all that, to escape the “eye for an eye” instinct...to keep death from being the first response. And now? Feels like that plan’s backfiring heavy.

The other side of love is hatred. That's not an emotion to take lightly under no circumstances.

 

[bnew]

It's crazy how relationships really convinces people that they own each and they really have a right to harm the other if they don't act in accordance with the ownership agreement.

So your telling me that relationships are so great and magical but the minute I don't "act right," I want to leave or it's a Tuesday there is a high likelihood that he will harm me?

It's crazy what we have convinced ourselves is normal or justified.

The overwhelming danger that people willing put themselves in for such a tiny pay off is wild to me. Relationships especially marriage are dangerous. You are literally giving an emotional, self serving and likely low intellect individual unlimited access to destroy you in 1000 different ways.

Of the two spouses, the wife is the one who acted like she owned someone. someone she felt she could lie to about something so serious about conceiving a -child, three children. In doing so she effectively stole his time, resources, and love. she found a marriage-minded black man who we can surmise by his actions had made being a husband and father a big part of his identity and she decided to play a dangerous game. no court can make him whole for what she took from him.

that woman wasn't in danger simply because she didn't "act right" for a "minute", she lied for 9 years by deceiving someone into believing they fathered her children.

an unmarried woman or single mom can be in the same amount of danger by doing the very same thing.

 

[Traveler]

Ain’t love or relationships that’s the problem, it’s that we are systematically tossing the old rules that kept love safe. Back then it was truth, loyalty, self-control, and a real way to handle betrayal without picking up a gun. Lose that, and chaos gon’ fill the spot every time.

But let’s be real, the old rules weren’t perfect either, you and I both know that. Maybe we’re just circling back to where we started as a species: chaos.

Humans built money, churches, laws, courtships, bethrotals all that, to escape the “eye for an eye” instinct...to keep death from being the first response. And now? Feels like that plan’s backfiring heavy.

The other side of love is hatred. That's not an emotion to take lightly under no circumstances.

Marriage back in the day was very rarely about love, it was about safety, security, and more importantly carrying on your linage. We romanticized marriage and turned it into something it's not. I think it will slowly fade away in the future. Not saying it was perfect by any means. It was a business arrangement between families.

 

[King Poetic]

Was he wrong? Yeah,,, but

Married 9 years and all 3 kids not his

I see why some people snap behind something like this …

Your wife everyday waking up smiling and laughing

She looking at the kids calling u daddy

And all the while knowing the kids not yours….

I know from now on she going to be telling the truth

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Was he wrong? Yeah,,, but

Married 9 years and all 3 kids not his

I see why some people snap behind something like this …

Your wife everyday waking up smiling and laughing

She looking at the kids calling u daddy

And all the while knowing the kids not yours….

I know from now on she going to be telling the truth

Yeah right

 

[Squirrel from Meteor Man]

Everybody level headed on the internet
Nobody is condoning violence but if a bytch ain’t never took you to the brink
You would never understand but thecoli full of latch key kids that stayed on the porch
So let them tell it

Now nobody was outside because they don’t condone shooting a woman due to their emotional instability

There’s not a woman on earth, nor anything one of them can do, that would be worth my freedom. If the story is true, the dude had a free pass to end a relationship with a woman he was probably tired of anyway

Then, where’s the accountability for being that dumb that you’d have no idea that—not one—but all three kids you’ve been raising aren’t yours?

If he was attached to the kids, it definitely is hurtful, but you either continue on being the man in their life (the father that stepped up ) or go find a new woman to start a family with.

Everyone is anti-simp on here until it comes to domestic violence

Now he’s got a decade in the slammer to think about how justified he was, great job

 

[Eastside Get The Money]

Carl Winslow hairline.

And brehs he messed up for real you DO NOT want to be in Macomb county jail as a black man

 

[Diunx]

Hmm no, you call your lawyer, ask for divorce and make sure you get no monetary responsability for the kids.

You move on with your life, now this bytch its just gonna find some 50 year old divorcee or forever alone that will take care of her and the kids while you get your ass expanded at jail

 

[mvp_status]

Word to Chris Rock

I'm not saying he should've shot her..........but I understand

 

[3rdWorld]

According to medical professionals, at minimum 30% of you are not the father..and that's a conservative estimate.

 

[LadyJ2]

So based on some illiterate person’s Facebook post y’all are willing to believe this guy “snapped” because he found out on that day that his children weren’t really his?

And she just went to work like normal?

Yeah, ok.

I notice there is no mention of him skipping work or his job wondering where he was during the day on a weekday. Where were these 3 kids while he was attempting to kill their mother?

 

[MarcMan]

Dude is an emotionally weak simp.

He could have made the wife explain to the kids what happened, then went off to start his own family. Instead, he let his emotions take over and he'll be in p*ssy-free box for at least a decade.

Everyday I thank the Creator that I'm not like these lames.

 

[DetroitEWarren]

I knew nothing about this story before clicking on the article, but I went to school with that big head ass nikka. We used to cook that nikka because of his big ass muscle head. Hell naw dawg lol. Bro out here on some savage shyt now I guess.

 

[ORDER_66]

Damn

 

[acri1]

I mean, of course I can understand why he's upset, but it's obviously not justified legally.

There's really only one thing you can say about it -

Spoiler

Get married, brehs