Did he do it on purpose or am I just awkward?

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Context: I'm pretty rubbish at hugging people I'm not close with, avoid hugging them and particularly the males so not sure what to make of this

What happened this guy I know comes at me, it's a public event loads of people and he's like "I'm in the mood of hugging people Hello" put me on the spot

He half comes round his desk and leans forward. He's in this weird position

Instead of facing me head on, he's facing my left (like "T" so his shoulders are perpendicular to mine) his shoulder/left arm is the closest part of his body

Now in the split seconds before I reach forward I'm thinking wtf how is this supposed to work

Anyway I reach forward not to be rude and I'm in this weird side to front hug then I feel that his left shoulder that he's pushed forward is on my boob so I'm like yo let's make this short and instead he turns it into a tight hug

It all happened in a matter of seconds. Disgusting experience even if it wasn't on purpose but now I'm wondering. Is that a thing or am I over thinking it

 

[MadameMoreaux]

I wouldn't hug men if I were you.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I wouldn't hug men if I were you.

I avoid it as much as possible but sometimes you're just put on the spot

 

[mannyrs13]

 

[Donald J Trump]

Get punked into giving a hug brehettes

 

[Larry Lobster]

why you always bragging about yourself?
dont nobody care

 

[Remote]

This is some Napoleon Dynamite type shyt

 

[OPTiMO]

you're over thinking this greatly. relax girl.

 

[Jhoon]

You got bullied into giving up the boobs. This is how sexual harassment starts.

 

[KOohbt]

What shyt thread. fukk you think this was a good thread idea for.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Context: I'm pretty rubbish at hugging people I'm not close with, avoid hugging them and particularly the males so not sure what to make of this

What happened this guy I know comes at me, it's a public event loads of people and he's like "I'm in the mood of hugging people Hello" put me on the spot

He half comes round his desk and leans forward. He's in this weird position

Instead of facing me head on, he's facing my left (like "T" so his shoulders are perpendicular to mine) his shoulder/left arm is the closest part of his body

Now in the split seconds before I reach forward I'm thinking wtf how is this supposed to work

Anyway I reach forward not to be rude and I'm in this weird side to front hug then I feel that his left shoulder that he's pushed forward is on my boob so I'm like yo let's make this short and instead he turns it into a tight hug

It all happened in a matter of seconds. Disgusting experience even if it wasn't on purpose but now I'm wondering. Is that a thing or am I over thinking it

Relax just a hug innit

 

[mtu wa chuma]

You really need to stop telling us your pointless boring fukking stories.

 

[OPTiMO]

You really need to stop telling us your pointless boring fukking stories.

this girl really made a thread about getting hugged...

 

[Diondon]

Your hugs are trash, B

 

[Chrishaune]

The dude turned to the side so that you wouldn't feel like he was trying to feel you up most likely. Just trying to give a little bit of love. He probably saw on your face that you don't really feel comfortable hugging, but he was there so........