Did he do it on purpose or am I just awkward?

[Mowgli]

Most people know not to even try it just from my body language but this guy made a show of it, would have been awkward to say no thanks in front of so many people. Who says "no boobs hug"

I just took the L and pretended like I wasn't feeling dirty


That said even after @Chrishaune explanation I'm keeping 50 metres distance at all times, from now on we are on a 'wave from a distance' level

Alot of women give hugs where its chest to chest. Alot of people dont overthink hugging. Its kind of undertood that the hug can go either way. Men arent mind readers. You really only have yourself to blame. If you dont like hugs to begin with and you agree to a hug, you're going to get what you get. Stop blaming the man because you cant stand up for yourself.

I know women who see guys go in for hugs and then put out their hand to shake and have no problem being like if they arent comfortable. YOu just go with the flow becaues you dont wanna cause any waves. You really need to learn how to be a real woman that sticks up for herself

 

[Elle Driver]

You got bullied into giving up the boobs. This is how sexual harassment starts.

Lmaooo

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Can you explain the bolded?

Well ironically if I am attracted to someone I am extra cold to them (don't know why). So a hug is unlikely and I am very very conscious of anything non-cold e.g. a hug, it would never catch me off guard. Unless the guy forces it which the guy I'm crushing on kinda does after 24 months of trying to get me to volunteer it

But before you turn this new info against me, he does not feel me up obviously. Does random shyt like pull me in a tight hug while he's sitting (and me standing feeling awkward) and make a comment on how my hair smells

So this particular guy aside, I usually don't usually hug (or find myself forced to hug) a guy I like and if I was to, it would be premeditated (today I will hug him like the one time me and this crush had a regular hug, I really am a dork )

dork

I'm not denying it

 

[Nymbus]

sounds like a little of both tbh

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Alot of women give hugs where its chest to chest. Alot of people dont overthink hugging. Its kind of undertood that the hug can go either way. Men arent mind readers. You really only have yourself to blame. If you dont like hugs to begin with and you agree to a hug, you're going to get what you get. Stop blaming the man because you cant stand up for yourself.

I know women who see guys go in for hugs and then put out their hand to shake and have no problem being like if they arent comfortable. YOu just go with the flow becaues you dont wanna cause any waves. You really need to learn how to be a real woman that sticks up for herself

no one has ever accused me of not sticking up for myself.

I was trying not to be mean/weird or cause a fuss but yeah you're right in the split second I already knew it was going to be uncomfortable. Could have just as easily turned it into a handshake even with a joke to make it less awkward.

Also he's quite a bit shorter than me, there might be another lesson in that

 

[Mowgli]

no one has ever accused me of not sticking up for myself.

I was trying not to be mean/weird or cause a fuss but yeah you're right in the split second I already knew it was going to be uncomfortable. Could have just as easily turned it into a handshake even with a joke to make it less awkward.

Also he's quite a bit shorter than me, there might be another lesson in that

There definately is. When ugly women try to hug me i put my hand out. I have no fear of making it weird or awkward. I set the boundary and draw the line in the sand. There will be none of that between me and that person.

 

[GoFlipAPack]

You really need to stop telling us your pointless boring fukking stories.

 

[DIMES]

somali women

She's not somali u damn c00n

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

She's not somali u damn c00n

Am I getting disowned right now

 

[froggle]

If I had a crush on him I would not have hugged him and if I had hugged him it would have been a well thought-out organised hug and therefore I would be fully aware of the enviornment, both our bodies and there would definitely not be any contact below the shoulders

Would I have minded if after all that the guy still tried to maneuvered me/himself into feeling me up? Yes. In fact I think that would be the end of my crush on him

what am i reading?

 

[Couth]

Dapped/undapped,

 

[Bay Area]

Im starting to realize how weird some forum posters are in the real world.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

what am i reading?

Let's conclude the thread with, she's just weird. I prefer different, interesting but I'll accept weird


@Bay Area





/thread

Dapped/undapped,

Negged/un....oops

 

[RealAssanova]

She's not somali u damn c00n

man shut the fukk up and don't quote me again...abaha wuss.

 

[EA]

it's just a hug, it's not that serious.

Now that I think about it, this isn't as uncommon as it should be. A lot of girls find hugging awkward for some weird reason.