Ms.CuriousCat
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that makes sense, I thinkNever again though
To those complaining about the thread
asking questions I couldn't ask my brothers to get a male perspective....one of the main reasons I'm on this site
Did he do it on purpose or am I just awkward?
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that makes sense, I thinkNever again though
To those complaining about the thread
asking questions I couldn't ask my brothers to get a male perspective....one of the main reasons I'm on this site
Chrishaune
Veteran
Never again though
To those complaining about the thread
It's like a little sister hug, to pick up her spirit. Grab her with one arm and give her a tight hug.
YaThreadFloppedB!
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If u had a crush on him would you have minded?Context: I'm pretty rubbish at hugging people I'm not close with, avoid hugging them and particularly the males so not sure what to make of this
What happened this guy I know comes at me, it's a public event loads of people and he's like "I'm in the mood of hugging people Hello" put me on the spot
He half comes round his desk and leans forward. He's in this weird position
Instead of facing me head on, he's facing my left (like "T" so his shoulders are perpendicular to mine) his shoulder/left arm is the closest part of his body
Now in the split seconds before I reach forward I'm thinking wtf how is this supposed to work
Anyway I reach forward not to be rude and I'm in this weird side to front hug then I feel that his left shoulder that he's pushed forward is on my boobso I'm like yo let's make this short
and instead he turns it into a tight hug
It all happened in a matter of seconds. Disgusting experience even if it wasn't on purpose but now I'm wondering. Is that a thing or am I over thinking it
Ms.CuriousCat
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Okay I will go with this explanation
Thank you, makes me feel a whole lot better about it
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/what...ng-sex-dirty-talk.284960/page-3#post-11810514direct me to thre thread where you posted that sig breh
Ms.CuriousCat
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If I had a crush on him I would not have hugged him and if I had hugged him it would have been a well thought-out organised hug and therefore I would be fully aware of the enviornment, both our bodies and there would definitely not be any contact below the shoulders
Would I have minded if after all that the guy still tried to maneuvered me/himself into feeling me up? Yes. In fact I think that would be the end of my crush on him
Amphibious
Land, water, wherever.
OP is the one-star queen, your threads are whack bytch 
If you don't want to hug someone say no. Once you agreed to hug you lost control of the situation because you did not know if it was going to be a pat on the back with the ass out and chests disconnected hug or a real hug where you feel boobs.
You could have said hey no boobs hugs
but you just stood there like a deer in headlights and allowed the situation to be controlled by him.
You are a victim in the making
You could have said hey no boobs hugs
but you just stood there like a deer in headlights and allowed the situation to be controlled by him.You are a victim in the making
Can you explain the bolded?
Kenny West
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the bossman
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cot damn it's just a hug. what is the big deal?
Ms.CuriousCat
All Star
If you don't want to hug someone say no. Once you agreed to hug you lost control of the situation because you did not know if it was going to be a pat on the back with the ass out and chests disconnected hug or a real hug where you feel boobs.
You could have said hey no boobs hugs
You are a victim in the making
Most people know not to even try it just from my body language but this guy made a show of it, would have been awkward to say no thanks in front of so many people. Who says "no boobs hug"
I just took the L and pretended like I wasn't feeling dirty
That said even after @Chrishaune explanation I'm keeping 50 metres distance at all times, from now on we are on a 'wave from a distance' level
RealAssanova
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