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Moreover, the worse thing you can do is actually dwell on it and bring it up as if you're actually bothered by it. If it were truly a problem, you would've addressed by now, not it's nothing more than a little ego hit. You'll get over it.

Girls are going to do stuff (subconsciously and otherwise) that "test" you. Pick your battles wisely.
 
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Either you are being stupid or your not.
Pick which one and handle it accordingly.
Your a grown man now not a little boy.
Tucking your tail and running is not what we do as black men. Everybodies had they ol lady do or say something that made them tight or jealous in a moment. Sometimes you can tease and joke about it if your being stupid.But sometimes it crosses a line into feeling disrespectful and has to be checked. Seems like you felt disrespected by Bob and want to punish your girl now.When you shouldve checked Bob
 
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Well, he challenged you and you went ahead took a knee, breh. If you bring this up to her now, there’s a really good chance this girl will think it’s not a big deal or you’re just being insecure. Do you really want her thinking ol Bobby has you pressed? That will only add free points to him

Just keep this information in your back pocket for now and press onwards. You took an L and that’s all there’s to it. And ignore all the people taking shots at your expense cause it seems like you came here for genuine advice

Also, don’t beat yourself up too much about it, but don’t allow it to happen again.
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When another man tries to one up you infront of other people, especially when other people involves a woman your seeing; just remember it’s always better to diffuse the situation with a tasteful joke at their expense or with one of those passive aggressive ‘Colton/Brad things cacs usually do. For example, ‘take it easy Captain America, I really like that thought, but we’re gonna be doing X instead. I’m open to giving your idea a try if we ever do this again though’ or ‘I don’t need an echo bud, you’re good - double tap his shoulder

It’s important to make sure your response sounds like your kidding but also serious cause you don’t wanna come off as angry or confrontational when you’re supposed to be having fun
 
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Bob smelt the biitch in you.

You never double date unless you are with a married couple or another serious couple. Nikkas like Bob go into "Life of the Party/Impress" mode when women get around.

It can go in your favor if they make an ass of themselves. Or it can backfire on you if that breh smells and exposes the biitch in you. Unfortunately your case was the latter. What you do with brehs like Bob is you subtly and jokingly make them look stupid. But it sounds like you folded and probably just stood there with a dumb look on your face :francis:

She didn't play you, she just reacted how women in nature react. And the fact that you didn't check that shiit immediately, means bringing it up days later will only make it worse. You'll either confirm what she's thinking or she wasn't even thinking about it, but now you put it in her head.
 
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