Did she play me

[Roid Jones]

I had zero idea until we pulled up

That's not cool at all, any reason why you were not informed beforehand?

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Nikka didn't you just post the other day claiming that you have a roster of 6 woman? How does a nikka with a roster wind up going on a double date?

Read the thread. She lost weekend privileges and got bumped down the roster.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Your beef should be with Bob, not your girl.

He sniffed you out early and knew he could punk you. And now you're confirming it.

I’m not pressed about Bob. My interaction with Bob ended yesterday, will never see him again. I need to know the girl I’m dealing with can be on some funny shyt. So no my issue is definitely with her.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

This, breh you sound insecure as fukk. If she called him Dad it means she picked up on his passive aggressiveness by making a rash decision. To me that's a diss to him not really a compliment. You totally misread the situation. I suggest you dont bring it up because it'll make things go bad for no reason. Did you get the drawers yet? If you hit you won.

Bro I hit the night before and hit after the incident. Y’all mad presumptuous.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

That's not cool at all, any reason why you were not informed beforehand?

Cuz she was beefin with the bytch just the night before

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

I want to have a gauge if I’m suffering from toxic masculinity. Mind lending me your thoughts on the matter?

Quick facts:

Double date.

The girl that is my date we’ve been dating for about 2 months, close to the official bf gf stage.

The other date is her friend, and her new guy she’s dating. Let’s call him Bob.

Bob is your typical hyper masculine dude, like he has something to prove.

Fast forward in the double date, a decision needed to be made for the group. I was tasked to make it, Bob bumps in and pretty much says he doesn’t have time for this and makes the decision.

What the fukk ever. I don’t let it bother me. But what bothered me, was the girl I’m with said “let Dad handle it” after he made the decision for us.

Now should I take issue with this? Or is it my toxic masculinity seeping through?

I thought for her to make such a comment was total bullshyt. But I want to see what you all think before I bring this shyt up.

So should I bring it up, or just forget about it and keep it moving?

It all depends on what she meant by that

 

[EA]

I didn’t know people actually catch L’s like this

 

[Braman]

I read a lot of posts like this on Reddit. Dudes tippy toeing around afraid to offend women. I’m hoping OP is white bc it’s be a sad day if this feminized nonsense seeps into black folk

As others have stated, there is no such thing as toxic masculinity. And if it was, your girl would probably love it. You need to ‘divest’ from all feminine based indoctrination. Immediately

 

[ndthentherewasx]

Dad old ass had to go to bed

Could've meant that

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Yea, OP idk the dynamics of that whole situation. But prolly could've hit him with a stern "hol on" as if ur tyna reason to get to whatever decision you're gonna make. But ol girl was outta line. Don't entertain

 

[LuuqMaan]

Bob is your typical hyper masculine dude, like he has something to prove.

Fast forward in the double date, a decision needed to be made for the group. I was tasked to make it, Bob bumps in and pretty much says he doesn’t have time for this and makes the decision.

This is on you more than the chick. This exact scenario will happen again with another chick.
Wtf is a hyper masculine guy?

Regardless, that comment about he doesn’t have time would’ve pissed me off before anything else

 

[Surreal]

Damnit man

 

[Gunz&Butta]

That man and your girl don't respect you.

 

[CHICAGO]

ARE YALL CACS?

IS SHE A CAC?

IT SOUNDS LIKE SOME CAC shyt.

I CANT IMAGINE A BLACK WOMAN
SAYING THAT.



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[Surreal]

I'm married but I'd be damn I smash a broad that disrespected me

That stranger dude game you a glimpse of what the outside world thinks of you
Imagine what your "friends" have done you don't know about

This is a major hazard of being a man alot of women like/want because nobody hates you more than another man

He sensed you were soft and she always felt you were and played on that shyt with him. I woulda left all of em there