Did she play me

[I Really Mean It]

Seems more like a low key diss of the other dude. But, I don’t see the point in obsessing over something this trivial. Why don’t you bring it up with her?

 

[Dad]

I want to have a gauge if I’m suffering from toxic masculinity. Mind lending me your thoughts on the matter?

Quick facts:

Double date.

The girl that is my date we’ve been dating for about 2 months, close to the official bf gf stage.

The other date is her friend, and her new guy she’s dating. Let’s call him Bob.

Bob is your typical hyper masculine dude, like he has something to prove.

Fast forward in the double date, a decision needed to be made for the group. I was tasked to make it, Bob bumps in and pretty much says he doesn’t have time for this and makes the decision.

What the fukk ever. I don’t let it bother me. But what bothered me, was the girl I’m with said “let Dad handle it” after he made the decision for us.

Now should I take issue with this? Or is it my toxic masculinity seeping through?

I thought for her to make such a comment was total bullshyt. But I want to see what you all think before I bring this shyt up.

So should I bring it up, or just forget about it and keep it moving?

 

[The Realist Perspective]

I'm married but I'd be damn I smash a broad that disrespected me

That stranger dude game you a glimpse of what the outside world thinks of you
Imagine what your "friends" have done you don't know about

This is a major hazard of being a man alot of women like/want because nobody hates you more than another man

He sensed you were soft and she always felt you were and played on that shyt with him. I woulda left all of em there

I was pretty high.

But there is nothing soft nor safe about me.

 

[Sccit]

I was pretty high.

But there is nothing soft nor safe about me.

HAVE U TALKED TO HER SINCE?

 

[The Realist Perspective]

HAVE U TALKED TO HER SINCE?

Yes. She understands moving forward.

 

[Sccit]

Yes. She understands moving forward.

LMAO!

SO U BROUGHT IT UP?

DEEZAMN

 

[The Wolf Among You]

Your issue is mainly with Bob. You should’ve told his impatient ass to chill, and then chose the bar/restaurant you wanted to go to.
I hate nikkas that show out in front of women, that shyt is so corny.

 

[humminbird]

I bet you bob didn’t really have shyt to do either

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I'm married but I'd be damn I smash a broad that disrespected me

That stranger dude game you a glimpse of what the outside world thinks of you
Imagine what your "friends" have done you don't know about

This is a major hazard of being a man alot of women like/want because nobody hates you more than another man

He sensed you were soft and she always felt you were and played on that shyt with him. I woulda left all of em there

Eh

Every nikka can't be a big dog

I dunno how old OP is but he should know his place in the world already

No matter how big/small you are, there's a way to not let nikkas disrespect you without getting loud and agitated

 

[skokiaan]

toxic masculinity

Thought people only did this on the internet

girl that is my date we’ve been dating for about 2 months, close to the official bf gf stage.

You seem to like her more than she does you ..run!

Bob is your typical hyper masculine dude, like he has something to prove.

You were intimidated by this man the moment you all met...it was downhill for you from here

a decision needed to be made for the group. I was tasked to make it, Bob bumps in and pretty much says he doesn’t have time for this and makes the decision.

How long did it take you to make a decision for him to say this ..were you nervously counting your fingers and biting your nails

 

[DOSDUMUNI]

 

[DOSDUMUNI]

I woulda deaded that shyt right then and there it's too late now u gonna look petty n she gonna respect u less for waiting to make a stand breh

 

[Alexander Wiggin]

Yeah how long did it take you to make the decision? That's the key to know if Bob was definitely rude or if you was too indecisive

 

[Sindicated]

OP was stumbling and fumbling like

Bob came through like

All jokes aside ask her what she meant by the comment and observe her words and body language

Don’t do this, I hope you have a roster if you do cut your losses now.

 

[AngryBaby]

she could have been being sarcastic to him, sticking up for yo ass

yeah I took it as that to be honest. I think you might be fine OP.

usually if a girl is actually "attracted" to that action the dude made, they show it in a non-verbal way...the fact that she acknowledged it and called him dad is actually dismantling his action a bit actually. nice of her actually. if I'm accurate.