Did you settle for your s/o ?

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I don't think I've settled with my current.

I've settled in the past though. I dated a guy for a while who wasn't the BEST looking (maybe a 5) and his sex game was kind of weak but he showered me with attention and made me feel special.
 

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Keeping my overhead low, and my understand high
I don't think I've settled with my current.

I've settled in the past though. I dated a guy for a while who wasn't the BEST looking (maybe a 5) and his sex game was kind of weak but he showered me with attention and made me feel special.


Damn. How long did it take him pursuing you before you gave him a shot?

Good guys want to know :lupe:
 

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You'll never find someone perfect. We all settle to some extent. Some more than others.
Its inevitable that your partner will do something or have some habits you find annoying.


Also its foolish to expect someone to always just find one person attractive for the rest of their life. My GF and I are both pretty open if we think someone is attractive on TV or something. It keeps the relationship healthy.
 

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Damn. How long did it take him pursuing you before you gave him a shot?

Good guys want to know :lupe:

Honestly not very long. We met through mutual friends and he made it obvious then that he was feeling me and it was just something about him. I'm big on people's energy and he had a great energy and personality.

I was not too long out of a relationship with a sexy, arrogant, a$$hole so I decided to try something different. Looks aren't the most important thing.
 

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At the time I didn't see it as settling, I got to date my best friend for goodness sake haha.
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