Did you settle for your s/o ?

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Darling, NO part of what I said has changed....

You should find yourself a meme that says "Try Harder.."
 

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No, I didn't settle at all and she's perfect for me. I like her personality, appearance and we share the same beliefs. There's not a woman better for me. She's attracted to my personality, appearance, and she loves me more than anyone else ever could so I'm very happy with my choice.

I disagree with that "everyone settles to some degree" saying. Perfect people don't exist and it's impossible for someone to never do anything less than perfect to another individual. Either a persons S/O is a choice their completely happy with or their not in my opinion.
 

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Expect people to only find one person on the planet ever attractive in their entire life brehettes. She might ask me "you think she is pretty' and I'll answer. :yeshrug:

People set themselves up for failure by having impossible expectations in relationships. Only a problem if you act on it if you're in a committed monogamous relationship and some people don't need to be in those based on their history.
 

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Expect people to only find one person on the planet ever attractive in their entire life brehettes. She might ask me "you think she is pretty' and I'll answer. :yeshrug:

People set themselves up for failure by having impossible expectations in relationships. Only a problem if you act on it if you're in a committed monogamous relationship and some people don't need to be in those based on their history.

Dont entertain that post breh.
 
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She's a yellabone dreadhead cutie with a big booty. Heart of gold. Scatter brain tho. Major procrastinator. Always writing checks then forget she wrote it, then write another check. Had to take her check book

Don't get into relationships with financially irresponsible Women.

Look up if you are in a common law state because a lot of them can claim common law marriage if you move in with them.

Then you'll really be having financial troubles.
 
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Expect people to only find one person on the planet ever attractive in their entire life brehettes. She might ask me "you think she is pretty' and I'll answer. :yeshrug:

People set themselves up for failure by having impossible expectations in relationships. Only a problem if you act on it if you're in a committed monogamous relationship and some people don't need to be in those based on their history.

Who cares what that bytch thinks. If she can find a nikka that only has eyes for her then more power to her. Whatever.

My Woman knows what I find attractive and she is smart enough to understand that doesn't mean I want to be with the other Woman in a relationship.

Some Women can empathize with how a Man is built biologically and others can't. My best advice is don't fukk with the ones who can't and make sure to lock down the ones who are open to it that you happen to vibe with - Because you will NOT come across those 2 things very often in this life.
 

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Expect people to only find one person on the planet ever attractive in their entire life brehettes. She might ask me "you think she is pretty' and I'll answer. :yeshrug:

People set themselves up for failure by having impossible expectations in relationships. Only a problem if you act on it if you're in a committed monogamous relationship and some people don't need to be in those based on their history.

That's not why I made that face. It's unrealistic to expect people to never find anyone attractive.

That doesn't mean it is "healthy" to constantly point out people you find attractive on TV or in real life. The post quoted did not clarify that the partner was asking.
 
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That's not why I made that face. It's unrealistic to expect people to never find anyone attractive.

That doesn't mean it is "healthy" to constantly point out people you find attractive on TV or in real life. The post quoted did not clarify that the partner was asking.

It's a common everyday conversation :dwillhuh:.
So basically you are saying a Man cannot tell the truth about other Women to you because you are too sensitive and think Halle Berry is gonna steal your man. Just stop it we already know your type. :rudy:
 

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I would say I settled for my daughters mother, I was younger and she was a model so :yeshrug:

relationship was ass though :stopitslime:

she's a better person now but we're not compatible like that, at least we get along.

I support her as much as I can
 

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Nope. She was (and is) attractive, smart, bout her biz and I knew she'd be a great wife and mother and she's all of that. I wasn't going to play the 'well she's a 7.5 and Ima hold out for an 8' or 'she's got 9 of ten boxes checked but I want a chick that makes me laugh more' game. I know a lot of middle aged people that wish they had someone but have 'the one that got away' because they were being difficult or too picky when younger
 
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