The problem with that 'solution' is that women don't really be single. They single officially but have 'friends' and, like you said, violent men will be violent.
The disconnect is that some family lines pass down proper relationship management and others don't. In the internet era, you'd think that one group would learn from the other. Instead, the dysfunctional seem to be leading the conversation. Why not learn from those who get it right?
Yes and no. I think we should definitely focus on positive role models and how they did it right, but some of the reasons why people end up in abusive situations is because they think they need to be in a relationship. That kind of thinking is a recipe for dysfunction. There are people thriving without relationships and there are people thriving in them, but too many women at the abuse shelters can tell you they held on so long because they felt like they were less valuable without a man on their arms, which is just sad.
That’s one of the key things the men in my family taught me. If a man tries it, I’m fighting to the death. And as they say, “It would be a good death”. I’m very sweet and girlie so that can throw people off, because if you attempt to take it there you will see the fire in my eyes before you feel it. lolOh noooo.Oooh no.
We don’t play that shyt in our family. From the men Or the women.
Our great uncle was extirpated. He tried to control my great aunt by moving her into his mom’s home and getting her pregnant with three kids. Let’s just say, the shyt didn’t work out. He tried to lay hands on her. His mother tried to help.
My great uncle AND his mother BOTH got their asses beaten that day. Esther bit a piece out of his neck and beat his mother with a thick ass broom handle.
Let’s just say, if you hit us, you might as well kill us. If it’s worth your sorry ass life, then we’ll both start our spirit journeys together.I ain’t NEVER seen or experienced ANYBODY gettin lumped up in my family. Male or female. Just keep yo hands to yoself. Because if I have to consider you a threat…in my HOME?! Sheeiiiiiiiiittttt. I’d be on the new season of SNAPPED.
That 12 gauge gon have you hittin that “I don’t feel so good Mr. Stark”
'The lies!' Nobody right now is encouraging relationships. Where is all this social pressure to settle down? 
People currently in relationships are there because they want to be. Instead of complaining about relationships you've chosen to participate in, do some work. Listen to ppl who do it right. This isn't complicated.
Dude, I think you're talking to the wrong person. My parents just celebrated their 50th anniversary and my father has never laid a hand on my mother or to my knowledge stepped out on her. I do volunteer for a battered women's shelter though so I've seen the dark side of people thinking they *have* to be in a relation to have value. So I have a pretty balanced idea about relationships both good and bad. Either way, I think you're barking up the wrong tree here.
