Dime Piece ‘My husband isn’t my type’

[International Playa]

This quarter-back heffa couldnt attract her "type" because she ain't as attractive as she thinks.

She's lucky she has a man, period.

 

[Umoja]

It's funny how society will try to browbeat men into finding such things acceptable, knowing it wouldn't fly if the shoe was on the other foot.

 

[Vandelay]

Men want respect more than love. Saying someone wasn't your type at best is a backhanded compliment.

I would torpedo the fukk out my relationship if my lady ever said this. For a social media post too???

 

[kwazzy100]

Imagine thinking you were the one who settled and did your woman a solid. Only to find out your woman thinks she settled for you


Im sure it happens often.

And its just two people not living in reality. That couple in the OP look like an average couple that found their looks-match. Her thinking she can do better is delusional at best.
Men should never settle.

 

[MaxPain]

Its crazy how the most average to below average women still want top tier men. How these women who look like Shrek all want Morris Chestnut or Shemar Moore.

I see this on facebook a lot too. You have a bunch of below attractive women doing the most in the comments.

Bc in real life , sometimes these guys dont know their worth & deal with Mark Henry looking women. I’ve seen it a few times. Ugly women have always been the boldest with approaching too.

Plus ugly/mid women tend to be more shallow from my experience, so they want a pretty boy to validate them for their lack of looks.

 

[Payday23]

I really see every day why the women in our community is only married at 25% rate today and its really going to drop down lower once the silent generation and early born baby boomers fall off

They minds are not wrapped in reality when it comes to mates until majority of they time , they been ran through and beat down physically and verbally by other dirty nikkas

Tbf this is a lot of modern women. They want to busted down by the scammers, alcoholic, welders, etc then find some goofy doofy to save them at 35+:there's going to be tons of golden girls setups in the future

 

[Kenny West]

Exactly. Everybody is assuming her type is a Coli Breh 6, 6, 6 brotha with long hair.

Her type could be a finance bro that wears glasses, a gamer breh, a church breh etc.

Its wild how there are tens of millions of women in this country but the bolded pretty much never happens

 

[3:30]

Even if he wasn't why put it out on social media for everyone to know?


This is why women who complain about struggling with dating are either LIARS, bytches, NARCS or all of three.

The majority of men have ZERO to low standards and a FEAR of asserting boundaries because of the potential of losing out on frequent sex and female companionship.

That's how you end up with shyt like this

Got this nikka on camera tyin up garbage

 

[FTBS]

She had to “let go” of her standards because she’s ugly.

And she is still saying she settled for him by saying she did the right thing.

Not necessarily...plenty of attractive women out here getting ran through and discarded. 90s dimes that we lusted after overplaying their hands and chasing the wrong dudes only to end up old and alone is a weekly thread on here.

She is doing exactly what we say women should do, rejecting superficial BS and getting with a real dude that is down for her. And yet all anyone can focus on is her looks, thereby only enforcing the very superficial BS that we rail against if its a chick that is all about a dude's money.

Obviously, she look good enough to him and that's all that matters. The point is that she learned a lesson that far too many people never learn and she is married and happy.

 

[Wiseborn]

I understand what she was trying to do here, but she’s the wrong messenger.

Most people end up settling and outside of the Coli where everyone is not 6 feet, 6 certs, 6 figs most people end up settling in some capacity.

She’s an average woman that got her an average man that she can live with being with.

The only issue with that is when a person settles it will eventually show up in little micro-aggressions. A person be it man or woman isn’t going to be as cooperative with someone they settled for as opposed to someone they see as an equal or even more than them.

Long term relationships and marriages are a lot of give and take and sometimes you’re the one giving and while your significant other takes and other times you take while your significant other gives.

You’re never going to get 100 percent of what you want with hardly anything in life especially with something as complex as a long term intimate partnership, so you better learn to find a few things you can live with and a few other things you can’t live without. If monogamy is what you seek and someone is giving you 70-80 percent or better of what you need and want then you better seriously consider making that person your one.

There is no such thing as a perfect situation and in anything long-term you will eventually have to learn to live with some things.

I understand what she was trying to do here, but the message will be missed, because again she’s not the right messenger for this.

Peep the house that´s a low key flex frankly she´s lucky to have duke I´m guessing she gained hella weight becuse dude ain´t completely fat or dwarf short most 40 year old women even so called ¨baddies¨ would love a Man with a house down to get married and willing to wash dishes? She totally won.

 

[Wiseborn]

The problem is all the women who aren’t ugly, are attractive, and still can’t find marriage material men they are attracted to. The supply of attractive marriage material men is low, especially black ones. And let’s be real, the more money you make, the less you have to limit yourself to black women. Attractive, successful black men aren’t waiting for their perfect black queen. And as much as yall don’t want to admit it, a lot of those men prefer non black women.

wild how a woman could finally be this honest. If she went on Kendra G with a list a mile long Kendra would say You Go Girl It´s wild to hear a women admist she´s mid and lucky to have an equally mid guy.

 

[Chrishaune]

Breh I don't even know why you are putting up with THAT.....

 

[Wiseborn]

Not necessarily...plenty of attractive women out here getting ran through and discarded. 90s dimes that we lusted after overplaying their hands and chasing the wrong dudes only to end up old and alone is a weekly thread on here.

She is doing exactly what we say women should do, rejecting superficial BS and getting with a real dude that is down for her. And yet all anyone can focus on is her looks, thereby only enforcing the very superficial BS that we rail against if its a chick that is all about a dude's money.

Obviously, she look good enough to him and that's all that matters. The point is that she learned a lesson that far too many people never learn and she is married and happy.

That part just yesterday we had Tia Mowry and Lisa Raye out there saying they want a Man and Tisha just said the same thing and they´re problem is they are having issues even buying dikk, They´re in a weird place probably worth a couple million on paper but not liquid wheras Traci Ellis Ross got residuals that lets her trick in peace.

 

[Rekkapryde]

I really see every day why the women in our community is only married at 25% rate today and its really going to drop down lower once the silent generation and early born baby boomers fall off

They minds are not wrapped in reality when it comes to mates until majority of they time , they been ran through and beat down physically and verbally by other dirty nikkas

Then get mad when nikkaz start going for other races and other black cultures

 

[Payday23]

She prayed and settled for coli breh

1. Not her type
2. She found god
3. Older and fatter

Oh hell no