Dime Piece ‘My husband isn’t my type’

[murksiderock]

Need? No. Is it a great great advantage that changes the dynamic with most women? Absolutely.

A great advantage to brothers lacking in other areas---->it is neither an advantage or disadvantage if you a brother checking other boxes that draw women in....and I'm not talking about money.

Right! They are plenty of out of shape men (and women) in relationships. A gym bod will not automatically attract a woman.

I’m tired of the chronically online giving advice they learned from other chronically online beings who refuse to get off the internet and have real human interactions. For most, your dating woes will not cease to exist once you get hit the gym, or buy some new clothes, or shyt like that. It’s a lot more internal work than external. That’s why the poster you’re replying to been spewing hypergamy rhetoric on here for years, yet she still is unmarried

It's so easy to differentiate the guys who are used to female attention, from guys who aren't and take cues from the online groupthink.

Ever since I was a child, I've seen men of every physical archetype, have women all over em. Fat as fukk men, skinny as fukk men, short as fukk men, tall as fukk men, bald as fukk men, hairy as fukk men, men who we may think of as "feminine", men who come off as brute or rude, lightest of the lightskin men, darkest of the darkskin men, etc etc etc.

If you a nikka who need the gym to enhance your appeal, that's cool, but those nikkas are easily identifiable to the men (and women) who don't. I swear I'm writing that book one day

I've seen nikkas who can't lift 50 pounds not be able to beat women away, nikkas who can't do 10 push ups, nikkas who can't run 10 steps without falling over, as well as nikkas who could throw a 200 pound woman on they shoulders with ease. Attracting women is not about "getting in the gym"

 

[Cakebatter]

TLDW: "I was use to letting guys out of my league pump and dump me, so after being married to my current husband, i had a hard time. I felt like I was just settling for less than my standards. Thus, I prayed to God to reset my standards, and he revealed that I am just an adjustable 5, which helped me become grateful that a man is willing to accept my basic ass and high body count."

 

[MicIsGod]

A great advantage to brothers lacking in other areas---->it is neither an advantage or disadvantage if you a brother checking other boxes that draw women in....and I'm not talking about money.

Being in great shape is an advantage in dating for anyone, of either gender. Even if you’re a celebrity. Humans like nice bodies. That’s like saying having confidence isn’t an advantage. Even if you have it all, you’re adding 2-3 points to yourself at least if you have an attractive build. It ain’t everything though, which I hope is your point.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I understand what she was trying to do here, but she’s the wrong messenger.

Most people end up settling and outside of the Coli where everyone is not 6 feet, 6 certs, 6 figs most people

What do you mean settling?


If you got $3000 for a down payment on a Ferarri, but they point you towards a Hyundai dealership, is that settling?


If a breh who works as a garbage man couldn't get Rhianna, so he gets Keisha at the burger king drive-thru, is that settling?

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

bytch looks like Ed Lover in the face
I don’t even blame these ghostbuster mobile built bytches anymore
I blame fakkit ass nikkas of this society for this shyt
It’s several panderbear ass nikkas in this thread co-signing this ostrich shaped bytch with a muppet face
If nikkas stopped lying to these hoes and started calling them bum, beggars and losers
They wouldn’t be doing this nonsense online
Before 2010, fat bytches and ugly bytches knew their place
Fast forward and the dinosaurs have escaped Jurassic World with no repercussions

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

She should just be grateful men will stick their dikk in anything

 

[MikelArteta]

disgusting

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

I really see every day why the women in our community is only married at 25% rate today and its really going to drop down lower once the silent generation and early born baby boomers fall off

They minds are not wrapped in reality when it comes to mates until majority of they time , they been ran through and beat down physically and verbally by other dirty nikkas

Sistas have higher self esteem than other races of women (google for the studies).

It's counterintuitive, but higher self esteem can make you more resistant towards marriage. You are proud of yourself AND your accomplishments. Why settle down with a bozo?

Problem is that not all men are bozos. Plenty of good ones, but you have to put yourself in position to get one. You also have to recognize what a "good one" is. If you're waiting on 6'2", young Idris Elba clone that checks all boxes.....well, you're going to be waiting. The tippy top-shelf men have options and you have to COMPETE for those men. This is where some chicks get confused.

The average woman >> the average man. The top man >>>>> all others.

Why? Because a top man with looks/money/character etc., he can go for the baddies. He can go for the boardroom sista. He can go for the church sista. It's all a matter of preference.

Women tend to thirst after the same handful of guys, so they limit their own options. Fallback men no longer exist in large quantities. If you spend your youth chasing Jamal Chaddington, Regular Joe Breh will be long gone by the time you wake up.

If you love a 5'9" accountant with a heart of gold and a dad-bod, your chances are much better. If you insist on "better" you have to accept that you may never find The One. Even if you do, he might not be marriage material.

 

[Wild self]

I really see every day why the women in our community is only married at 25% rate today and its really going to drop down lower once the silent generation and early born baby boomers fall off

They minds are not wrapped in reality when it comes to mates until majority of they time , they been ran through and beat down physically and verbally by other dirty nikkas

They been raised off of music videos and social media.

Not every black man is LeBron James with an engineering degree. Not every black man is a 6 foot 8 hood legend with clout and the tight mouth piece.

 

[Gloxina]

I actually had to watch this again and *of course* looks aren’t everything, but yea damn he’s actually more attractive than her. Lmao

This is an old ass clip but it’s making the rounds again because of how ridiculous she looks saying this. Good message but it could’ve been worded much better.

 

[King Poetic]

Sistas have higher self esteem than other races of women (google for the studies).

It's counterintuitive, but higher self esteem can make you more resistant towards marriage. You are proud of yourself AND your accomplishments. Why settle down with a bozo?

Problem is that not all men are bozos. Plenty of good ones, but you have to put yourself in position to get one. You also have to recognize what a "good one" is. If you're waiting on 6'2", young Idris Elba clone that checks all boxes.....well, you're going to be waiting. The tippy top-shelf men have options and you have to COMPETE for those men. This is where some chicks get confused.

The average woman >> the average man. The top man >>>>> all others.

Why? Because a top man with looks/money/character etc., he can go for the baddies. He can go for the boardroom sista. He can go for the church sista. It's all a matter of preference.

Women tend to thirst after the same handful of guys, so they limit their own options. Fallback men no longer exist in large quantities. If you spend your youth chasing Jamal Chaddington, Regular Joe Breh will be long gone by the time you wake up.

If you love a 5'9" accountant with a heart of gold and a dad-bod, your chances are much better. If you insist on "better" you have to accept that you may never find The One. Even if you do, he might not be marriage material.

Agree

Because Claudia Jordan just did a interview ssying shes 53 and realized at her age , all the quality men now are married with regular women

It took her 30 years to realize this because she was too busy getting nailed to the wall by entertainers and athletes and thought all the while one of them was going to cuff her up

 

[MicIsGod]

Sistas have higher self esteem than other races of women (google for the studies).

It's counterintuitive, but higher self esteem can make you more resistant towards marriage. You are proud of yourself AND your accomplishments. Why settle down with a bozo?

Problem is that not all men are bozos. Plenty of good ones, but you have to put yourself in position to get one. You also have to recognize what a "good one" is. If you're waiting on 6'2", young Idris Elba clone that checks all boxes.....well, you're going to be waiting. The tippy top-shelf men have options and you have to COMPETE for those men. This is where some chicks get confused.

The average woman >> the average man. The top man >>>>> all others.

Why? Because a top man with looks/money/character etc., he can go for the baddies. He can go for the boardroom sista. He can go for the church sista. It's all a matter of preference.

Women tend to thirst after the same handful of guys, so they limit their own options. Fallback men no longer exist in large quantities. If you spend your youth chasing Jamal Chaddington, Regular Joe Breh will be long gone by the time you wake up.

If you love a 5'9" accountant with a heart of gold and a dad-bod, your chances are much better. If you insist on "better" you have to accept that you may never find The One. Even if you do, he might not be marriage material.

Fall back men haven’t gone anywhere. These type of women are just treating those dudes even worse than before. If they come to reality, those guys are always there and that’s reality

 

[Gloxina]

Agree

Because Claudia Jordan just did a interview ssying shes 53 and realized at her age , all the quality men now are married with regular women

It took her 30 years to realize this because she was too busy getting nailed to the wall by entertainers and athletes and thought all the while one of them was going to cuff her up

I give her credit for at least saying it. I think she’s the only one

 

[Big Boss]

 

[BigMan]

Some women need to learn when to not say the quiet part out loud lol