Most Exotical/mixed/mulatto/biracial/yellow one/redbone/Lightskin women come to realize one day that they can only get genuine love from black men exclusively . We’re the only race of men who will chase after them, cherish them, value them, date them, marry them, create families with them, etc. We’re the only men among all other men who are legitimately attracted to them and want to build something serious with them. Many of us I admit are also somewhat colorstruck and prefer lightskinned/mixed women with Exotic features over Darker skinned women with more pronounced African features. But that’s a debate for another day.
Most everyday Cacs don’t care about Exoticals like that , they have a racial purity filter on all times, subconsciously or consciously . They prefer to date women who look as white/European as possible. Thats why they will pick blondes, redheads, brunettes, Latinas, Asians, and Arabs over her. In their minds, they look at this girl and they just see another black woman. Because they apply the one drop rule in practice, so to them ofays/Buckras, the girl in the TikTok video is just as Black as a actual pure Black woman. They don’t care about making distinctions between the different shades/ethnicities/nationalities of black folks either . Most of them see us as one collective and monolithic group of Black folks.
And the popular/pretty boy cacs she probably wants are checking for their female counterparts anyway. I mean she lives in midwestern ass Iowa…