Dime pieces explain why good and healthy relationships are boring, we need some inconsistency.

Wig Twistin Season

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Push her down the stairs every now and then to spice it up.

Bonus points for creeping up behind her and not letting her know it was you. That way you can rush to the bottom of the stairs and pretend you’re concerned.

When she’s in the hospital, only show up sometimes. Get side p*ssy with the other time and be sloppy about hiding it so she’s angry while recovering. It’ll add to your worth. The unpredictability is sure to keep her invested in the relationship.

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Be in toxic relationships brehs.

*sarcasm
 

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That's why you gotta be a good dude.

Go to work.

Do good things.

Be kind.

Take care of others.

Treat others right.

At the end of the night

Tuck your girl into bed.

Leave the room.

Reflect on how good of a person you are, and how blessed truly are.

Then...

Run back into the bedroom and...

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Just to spice it up.
 

Mike Nasty

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Meh, maybe listen to their clucking. Boredom is their kryptonite. Be interesting. More at 11.
 

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Yes doing the exact same predictable "good" things can be reptitive and boring, that's why the best thing you can be is a good man/woman with a flare for the chaotic/spontaneous.

That helps you override the need to do outlandish shyt to "spice things up". It's also why women tend to like "bad boys". Being "bad" is fun and unpredictable.

Be solid in your morals and consistent in following through with your duties, just don't ever be boring. I get away with being a good dude because I'm not boring. I don't talk boring, wear boring things, or fukk boring. Too many men are so focused on being amalgamations of what they researched to be a "good" dude that they forget to just be their fukking selves and embrace the ego that comes with loving yourself.

My girl and I just did a Power Rangers themed photoshoot for Valentines Day. Its great finding you a lil rider and enjoying life together. We had so much fun, and it came out really good. Can't wait to post. Have fun with your partners.
You're definitely preaching in regards to the brehs trying to be the image of a good breh instead of being themselves. I take care of my business but other than that I'm having fun and trying to live in the moment. That rubs some people the wrong way because it comes off as too playful but I'm genuinely being myself. People take dating much too serious these days it seems like more of a job interview to find someone to fit a position you made up in your head than actually learning who this person is and if it's someone that you can grow and build with
 

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Cons of wifing a girl who doesn’t have a hobby or something she loves. You need to bring the excitement to your own life, a person can’t consistently do that for you.
That's that worst because you literally become their hobby. So they put the ones on the breh to keep them engaged and happy. I done it once when I was younger and don't wish that on my worst enemy. There's nothing more draining then trying to love someone who doesn't even know who they are or what they want in life
 

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That's that worst because you literally become their hobby. So they put the ones on the breh to keep them engaged and happy. I done it once when I was younger and don't wish that on my worst enemy. There's nothing more draining then trying to love someone who doesn't even know who they are or what they want in life
Many men have fell victim. It’s a tough one, especially when she has everything else.
 
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