Dispelling coLIES: nikkas automatically recieving a harem of young dimes as they get older

[LadySimone]

Maybe its because of the way I was brought up (coming from a 2 parent home), but why is there this need to have a harem of women in your 30s and 40s? Isn't the goal to get married to one woman, and raise a family? Seems like people on here want to live out this James Bond-esqu fantasy when they get older. That doesn't seem realistic.

They didn't grow up in a two parent home but they did watch a lot of BET.



Feel sorry for their daughters. They never saw their mom be a wife. Feel sorry for their sons. They never saw their dad be a husband. And the cycle continues.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Man, I've seen some older dudes with their sh*t together, pull some really nice joints. A good looking 42 year old guy can definitely pull a nice 27 year old female.

But you can't be slacking. Your paper, style, physique, personality, confidence all have to be on point.

 

[The Bilingual Gringo]

Had a good run of 18 to mid 20 year olds in my thirties so far.

 

[Originalman]

Also old dudes don't mind normally to spend. Young women who have dated older dudes will say that shyt all the time.

I have mentioned on here how I have been in clubs and some old dude will come into a club dressed up and asking girls for their numbers and if they need some bills paid. Dude will walk out of the club with a young girl on their arm and some numbers in their pocket. shyt is absolutely crazy.

And folks lying if they ain't got some home girl or cousin out here who is young and mess with old dudes cause they keep her laced or pay her bills.

I will never forget in college how me and a couple of dudes were all intrigued by this one girl (we are all around 19 at the time). We all trying to holla and get her number and all that shyt. Few older dudes on campus tried to holla but get no where.

So I am working off campus at some factory job on the weekend where I run into an older kat who works at the factory (dude worked off shore so his paper is long but was recently laid off and worked at the factory until the off shore company called him back).

Well we begin chatting and this dude is like man I staying messing with girls at your school. So I am like name some of the girls (thinking dude lying).Dudes rattling off a bunch of girls I know and then mentions the girl that me and my boys are crazy about.

Well long story short I am like old girl a tough nut to crack. Dude like naw man I been messing with her for a year. She just don't give y'all no play cause you can't help her with her bills. I pay that girls rent and phone and get to smash whenever I want.

I knew dude was not lying because she stayed in a 3 bed room house that she could not afford by herself because she did not work. Not only that years later her cousin (who I was cool with) told me she would mess with older dudes because they would pay her bills for her when she was in college.

 

[Originalman]

Man, I've seen some older dudes with their sh*t together, pull some really nice joints. A good looking 42 year old guy can definitely pull a nice 27 year old female.

But you can't be slacking. Your paper, style, physique, personality, confidence all have to be on point.

Yeah no one talking about a broke bum that is a slob. Just a decent looking older kat with some paper and a decent career (dude doesn't have to be a millionaire or look like a 40 year old Stallone).

The dude is basically trading his money and security for the young ladies youth.

Many of these dudes are saying it is more common than some anomaly. Also the roles are rare when reversed.

In saying that old dudes still get taken for their money because that is some times all the younger woman sees. But that is what that relationship is often built on looks and money.

But shyt men and women the same age have relationships built on looks and money.

 

[DarkHorse23]

There are always exceptions to the rule, but generally speaking if you are lame (as in you don't get any women) in your 20s it isn't going to change, you have some type of character flaw. You can be a stereotypical lame and still get women if you own your lameness and don't fear rejection. Those are the type of guys this rule can probably apply to. But if you have no success at all....I mean I guess anything is possible right. Sorry if I struck a nerve

Well I'm glad that majority of men who have turned their lives around didn't listen to guys like you.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Well at that age they meant to be married. That there are so many young black men who expect to be single and ready to mingle in their 40s is sad. You know these dudes going to have kids. Their kids going to see them trying to date girls instead if being in a functioning marriage.

The black community y'all.

Why should we want marriage and kids when we were passed over in our younger years. When a man spends his youth alone and considered undesirable and finally at an older age is attractive to women why would he want to settle down then? He's going make up for lost time....

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I ate more after 30 with 0 effort than I ever did before. And I'm less socially active. It's not a myth its reality.

This may seem anecdotal, but if you are in your young 20s think of clubs/lounges/social spots that you are at. Think of the oldest people that always be posted there. Are they eating?
I know you've seen them trying to get at females always talking some game that was before the broads' time and they don't even know what these guys are talking about and makes them leave for another venue

These guys be confident as fukk too that they got some winning formula and that they are the damn star there


Now I'm not saying older people can't pull younger chicks. But you gotta be in the right shape to do it. If you are rich, or good looking, have game etc. then you'll do fine but it wasn't the age that helped now was it?
Being corny now and thinking "when I get older this will be light:tigerW:" without working on yourself at all, things may not go that swell. Don't let the coli trick you into being flabby n sick!

When women say "I wan't an older guy " they usually mean maybe like 3-4 years older usually, not 15+


Now in the media you may see eddie murphy, leo dicaprio, etc. pulling young women like nothing in these types of places but at thinking they are the everyday person. That isn't to say that you can't be the next leo/eddie though. I believe in y'all

 

[Poitier]

The dudes are on this site are delusional, many from an inability to get women. This is understood.

 

[Couth]

obviously if you look old you're not gonna pull females in their early 20s.


But if you're like 30-35 and you look 25-30 you'll eat better just because you have more money.

 

[LadySimone]

Why should we want marriage and kids when we were passed over in our younger years. When a man spends his youth alone and considered undesirable and finally at an older age is attractive to women why would he want to settle down then? He's going make up for lost time....

Gosh not this shyt again. Stop trying to date the cheer leader. Invite your neighbour with the glasses to the movies. Have a good time with her. Study travel graduate get a career a business find a woman settle down raise awesome black kids the shut the fuk up and die of old age.

 

[The Mad Titan]

33 and I've never been shot down by younger women outside of extenuating circumstances. Granted my goal has never been to go after a young women.


If your cool and not busted you have nothing to worry about as a male or woman. (Even more so as a man) it's just that simple really.

 

[wickedsm]

I hope the brehs who say they wont spend $5 on a date now are reading this thread.


Lmao @ flabby and sick tags

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

Wasn't @LadySimone bragging about hooking up with a beer gut bald headed swagless 45 yr old nikka ?

 

[Action Mike]

Had a good run of 18 to mid 20 year olds in my thirties so far.

they dont believe you