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I can't relate. Both my mom and dad grew up where they were called "******s" to their face and even spat on :wow:. My mom said when she was a cheerleader, the white people would turn their backs when they started cheering. Both my parents always try to warn me against racism and how to fight it especially in the work place. Thank god for having non-c00ning parents :blessed:
I just tagged you cause I wanted to hear your perspective...plus I respect you as a member of this board.

I wanted the perspective of AAs, Africans, and west indians....a nice thing about this board that it touches on all members of the diaspora.
 

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I just tagged you cause I wanted to hear your perspective...plus I respect you as a member of this board.

I wanted the perspective of AAs, Africans, and west indians....a nice thing about this board that it touches on all members of the diaspora.
Oh ok well if you still want to hear my perspective, I actually sympathize with people like your mother believe it or not. I view those kind of the blacks as a "know not what they do" kind of ilk and try to explain white supremacy and how it affects our everyday lives to the best of my ability without getting riled up ( and trust me it's hard). When they don't want to hear what you're saying, just charge it to the game. Every black person that lives in America either will or has already gotten their Negro wake up call and it's up to that individual to either learn from it or ignore it, there's really nothing us conscious black folks can do about it :manny:
 

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I have no tolerance for that type of talk either. The sad thing is my mom and sister don't get it.

Like literally, they don't get it. They spend their freetime all day watching soap operas and nancy grace...:gag:

When Obama was fist running for office their neighbors put up McCain/Palin banners and when Obama was running for re-election they put up Romney/whoeever banners...if that doesn't give a black person a sign in a richy rich white neighborhood that they ain't fukkin with you...I don't know what will.


It seems that your mom worrying about what other white people think about them and she tires to be a good neighbor to the white suburb that she wants to be friend with them, etc. Your mom was like :whoa: "We gotta respect them, it is their property".



When your mom told you to be careful cause she just heard about shootings in Pittsburgh so of course, she's your mom and very concerned about you. She might be right about black shooting other black people cause that shyt happens everyday.

I think your mom did the right thing to say it because she doesn't want you to find the reason to angry with white cops that might cost your life and that's why she said, " no it's about black men shooting other black men" shyt just reminds you that you gotta watch your back from black people too.

She doesn't want you go focus on white cop like you're on your way to Pittsburgh with :birdman: on the only white cops when the cops can find the reason to stop you and pull over or ignoring black people when they can be on bullshyt shyt to attack you, rob you, jump you, etc.

I think I understand your mother. She's the mother that doesn't want to lose his son over anything. She loves you.
 
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It seems that your mom worrying about what other white people think about them and she tires to be a good neighbor to the white suburb that she wants to be friend with them, etc. Your mom was like :whoa: "We gotta respect them, it is their property".



When your mom told you to be careful cause she just heard about shootings in Pittsburgh so of course, she's your mom and very concerned about you. She might be right about black shooting other black people cause that shyt happens everyday.

I think your mom did the right thing to say it because she doesn't want you to find the reason to angry with white cops that might cost your life and that's why she said, " no it's about black men shooting other black men" shyt just reminds you that you gotta watch your back from black people too.

She doesn't want you go focus on white cop like you're on your way to Pittsburgh with :birdman: on the only white cops when the cops can find the reason to stop you and pull over or ignoring black people when they can be on bullshyt shyt to attack you, rob you, jump you, etc.

I think I understand your mother. She's the mother that doesn't want to lose his son over anything. She loves you.
At this point I'm on my "don't trust anybody" steez. I might be too aware of myself and my surroundings for my own good.

Anyways...there's no problem with us on any sort of level...I guess it was more so a conflict of interests or idealogies.
 

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someone has to break down the west indian thing for me... arent west indians the decendants of indian people brought to certain carribean/south american counteries way back when? what is the association with african decenants to where your mother would group them in?
 

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your mom right fool
this is real life
yea the cops are a$$holes but be real
 

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At this point I'm on my "don't trust anybody" steez. I might be too aware of myself and my surroundings for my own good.

Anyways...there's no problem with us on any sort of level...I guess it was more so a conflict of interests or idealogies.

Me too. I used to be sick of it when my parents kept telling me to be careful, all the time like they preach to the choir and I felt offended, etc. I always thought they don't trust me cause I have never been in trouble with the law, etc or whatever but maybe trouble as a kid do dumb shyt but as a grown man like damn, they still treat me like a kid, etc. I always talk back with my smart mouth just like you said with your smart mouth to your mother.

The more I watch the news with the all, Oscar Grant III, Mike Brown, Trayon, or some guy in the Wal-Mart, even black on black, etc so that shyt hits me so I understand why my parents very worried about it. Their parents probably said the same thing to their kids what your mother just told you.
 
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your mom right fool
this is real life
yea the cops are a$$holes but be real

Man...that's some mental slavery/propaganda.

Why should I be afraid of my own people? That's what THEY want...

Instead of everybody else?

Maybe I just went through an awakening or re-awakening of sorts...but the greatest lie the devil ever told was that he didn't exist.

I've had more black americans/AAs help me out then hurt me...

This is what I be saying when I tell people we need to just have unity as black people across the globe and stop with his segmentation bs against AAs, West Indians, and Africans. WE all black bruh. We all Africans.
 

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Man...that's some mental slavery/propaganda.

Why should I be afraid of my own people? That's what THEY want...

Instead of everybody else?

Maybe I just went through an awakening or re-awakening of sorts...but the greatest lie the devil ever told was that he didn't exist.

I've had more black americans/AAs help me out then hurt me...

This is what I be saying when I tell people we need to just have unity as black people across the globe and stop with his segmentation bs against AAs, West Indians, and Africans. WE all black bruh. We all Africans.
u gon learn
 

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as far as disappoints go...I learned in the weed thread just how much it costs. that made me disappointed in a few people. I thought weed cost like maybe $5-20 for a weeks worth. they're spending hundreds of their rent/food budget on weed when they have kids

i'm glad I read that thread. before I was open to dating a guy smoked, but now that I know how expensive it is no. imagine dating a girl who bought a new lace wig each week :childplease:
 

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I heard something similar from this white chick I work with and she's dating a black guy. He asked her to say "nikka" like it was a joke and announced he's not even attracted to black women :patrice::dahell:. Claims he only likes white women only this dude is a certified purebred c00n
 

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:aicmon: u got a better chance of gettin shot by a fellow black man than you do a cop.Stop tryin to diminish what happens DAILY in inner cities across the usa black on black crime is legendary
 
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