Divorcing.... What Should I Do Next?

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called it :mjlol:


you gonna end up getting bagged by a homely chick just cuz she takes care of you.



I'm cool with that as long as she looks good
what's wrong with a homely chic?
Especially for an introvert like me

He's Indian. Brown dudes go from mother to wife to mother/wife

breh has never prolly made a meal or done laundry in his life

smothered
And no you didn't call it, I just don't like doing dishes.
And I didn't go from mother to wife as you mentioned.
I went from home to my x's place while she was my girl, then another girl, then back home etc...
 

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nikka getting divorced and talking about getting into another relationship
:laff:
Something wrong with you nikkas lmao
How old are you?
Bro when you reach a certain age the clock is ticking man....
You can't just wait to get into another relationship for a few years, there's complications to that.
Girls will increase # of kids maybe, more mileage, they will get older etc...
You can't revert the odometer on life yo
 

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How old are you?
Bro when you reach a certain age the clock is ticking man....
You can't just wait to get into another relationship for a few years, there's complications to that.
Girls will increase # of kids maybe, more mileage, they will get older etc...
You can't revert the odometer on life yo
So why even leave your current set up :what:

You comfortable with your kids calling another man daddy?

Man make it work, sleep in the basement if you have to. Your kids happyness > yours.
 

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How old are you?
Bro when you reach a certain age the clock is ticking man....
You can't just wait to get into another relationship for a few years, there's complications to that.
Girls will increase # of kids maybe, more mileage, they will get older etc...
You can't revert the odometer on life yo
fukk that
Black man got optionsss at any age When u slanging that thanging


U can sit out 1-20 years of the game and come back and hit mvp numbers when u ready wit these women if u know what u doing

Take yo time playa.these hoes can wait.
U ain’t missing shyt but headaches stds and personal free time
 

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So why even leave your current set up :what:

You comfortable with your kids calling another man daddy?

Man make it work, sleep in the basement if you have to. Your kids happyness > yours.
Sleep in the basement :picard:
Have mercy lord Jesus
Kids shouldn’t see they daddy living like that breh


He the head of the house

Not a good look as the leader and guide of the family
 

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Sleep in the basement :picard:
Have mercy lord Jesus
Kids shouldn’t see they daddy living like that breh


He the head of the house

Not a good look as the leader and guide of the family
I was just being facetious. It’s just me saying do what you have to keep the family unit together.

The nicca can’t even cook for Christ sakes.
 

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So i'm divorcing, it's somewhat of an amicable divorce, and she not asking for alot of money financially as we finished our mortgage. only $400 a month.
Moving out in October, waiting for my place to get built, doors are scheduled to open Oct 1st.
Got 3 kids, they staying with her and me on most weekends.
Has to be weekends because where we stay now the kids's school bus is accross the street and my new place is far from their school.

What should I do once I move out?
Should I fukk around? Look for a relationship?
Take a break from both fukking around and getting into a relationship and just do me alone for a year.

See my thing is I never use condoms, so i'm worried about about fukking around.
Secondly fukking around can get expensive, or it can not as well, but depends.

I'm not sure which path I should focus on.
As I move out in October it will also be the first time in my life living alone.

I gotta learn alot of shyt and learn how to cook.


Haven’t read through the thread but I’ve went through a divorce first. Don’t fukk around man focus on numero uno and making sure your kids are straight. I even recommend going to threapy cause there questions your gonna have to ask yourself moving forward with your life.

Make sure you get that $400 in writing my man like get a lawyer and make sure it’s all in the Decree.

Third man be positive. You got kids to live for it’s going to be a big change but it’s nothing you can’t get through. Take time to yourself learn how to cook get your new routine down then out yourself back into the dating world woman are always going to be around but don’t rush into cause you feel a way or you just want some p*ssy.
 

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So why even leave your current set up :what:

You comfortable with your kids calling another man daddy?

Man make it work, sleep in the basement if you have to. Your kids happyness > yours.

LOL funny you say that.
I'm already sleeping in the basement.
And it's awesome, got my own shower and bathroom and sink, desk, laptop, TV Xbox and PS4 and my liquor collection and my weed and bong.
 
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