Divorcing.... What Should I Do Next?

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

I just finalized my divorce in April, do not jump back into another relationship immediately trust me on this one. Be single for a while.

Also you need to lawyer up and beat her to the punch bruh, you will get fukked over if you let her file first. Women will say one thing and do another, do not believe for a second she will honor that $400 a month shyt once she sees what her bills are about to be.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

OP, just tell us what the freak you did!!

White boys never take accountability know he was one if those white boys with a whole girlfriend while married goofy shyt

 

[number21]

So why even leave your current set up

You comfortable with your kids calling another man daddy?

Man make it work, sleep in the basement if you have to. Your kids happyness > yours.

Type of rhetoric that leads to a man becoming broken and depressed.

 

[MoveForward]

There's no judge at the moment, we gotta live apart for a year first.

I went through a divorce in 2020 and I recommend you go see a therapist. One thing that I did that I absolutely regret was getting back out here and dating as soon as I found out my ex went bad on me. I didn’t process what was going on and the major change I was going through, all I was doing was sleeping around, smoking, and drinking. I left a trail of destruction behind me because I was messing around with women while my intentions weren’t pure.

On the other hand get out of husband mode, these chicks out here will take advantage of that. Take it slow…

It hasn’t hit you yet but this sh*t is going to hurt. Going from seeing your kids daily to only on the weekends is cool at first but you will miss them and something will ALWAYS be amiss. It’s something you never really get used to.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

White boys never take accountability know he was one if those white boys with a whole girlfriend while married goofy shyt

who's white?

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

#1 focus on being a great father which I’m sure you probably are. I’m sure the kids are going through ALOT. Enjoy your kids and making money. And getting to know yourself again. New relationships are fine. But don’t have more kids breh. Save your money for the seeds you already got so you can live a dope bachelor lifestyle and be ready in case one of the kids want to come live with you soon when they get a little older. My dad getting remarried to a crazy bytch changed him and I don’t like him anymore honestly. Don’t want that happening to you with your kids feeling like you switched up. Good luck tho breh. Wish you happiness. But relationships are fine, but don’t rush

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

#1 focus on being a great father which I’m sure you probably are. I’m sure the kids are going through ALOT. Enjoy your kids and making money. And getting to know yourself again. New relationships are fine. But don’t have more kids breh. Save your money for the seeds you already got so you can live a dope bachelor lifestyle and be ready in case one of the kids want to come live with you soon when they get a little older. My dad getting remarried to a crazy bytch changed him and I don’t like him anymore honestly. Don’t want that happening to you with your kids feeling like you switched up. Good luck tho breh. Wish you happiness. But relationships are fine, but don’t rush

Great points!!!

Kids don't know anything, we told them i'm moving because my office is very far.
Ya I don't think I can ever convince myself to have kids again, but I don't want a vasectomy because I got a serious pullout game so why go through that.
I know most people say that ya pullout game is not 100%, but most people don't have the level of will power I have, I know I sound like i'm joking but seriously, i've never caught no STD and never impregnated nobody I wasn't trying to impregnant.
My record is solid, solid as a rock.

I don't have a large bodycount though, but number of sex in quantity off the charts. I was never a one-night stand type of guy, I had some ya but only like 7, but was never my goal.
Ya not rushing for sure!!

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

You’re about to get spanked my boy… They’re about to put you on child support and she doesn’t get to determine how much you pay, the judge does.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

who's white?

You

 

[Uchiha God]

I don't wish divorce on anyone. be strong breh

 

[Sad Bunny]

Better find another woman after you settle ..

The leftover women in their 30s and 40s aren't getting any finer and they damn sure arent getting more wifeable.

Good luck, yikes.

This. I’m getting very close to 35 so if I’m ever single again I might just die alone

 

[gho3st]

I don't regret it no because if I didn't get married I would never have these kids and i'm crazy about my kids.

Cause of the divorce is... I don't know.
Too much negativity, too much arguing. Neither of us could take it anymore.

And when we argue, the argument she uses.... makes absolutely no sense.
And when I explain how there is absolutely no logic in that argument she gets even angrier.

Yall tried couples therapy?

 

[Apollo Creed]

I just finalized my divorce in April, do not jump back into another relationship immediately trust me on this one. Be single for a while.

Also you need to lawyer up and beat her to the punch bruh, you will get fukked over if you let her file first. Women will say one thing and do another, do not believe for a second she will honor that $400 a month shyt once she sees what her bills are about to be.

the fact breh so focused on new ass and free time he already cooked

 

[CW_1991]

Take it one day at a time. Enjoy the space and peace.

Find some nice strange.

 

[Camammal]

Get some therapy, focus on yourself. Maybe you should reconsider your marriage honestly, ain’t shyt out here for you in these streets.