Is Iyala your mother or something? You don't know me or what my educational background is. She fumbled her role in this "intervention", plain and simple. If an addict is crying and telling you his issues with relationships stem from abandonment, why would you suggest someone use abandonment as a carrot to get someone to kick a habit? Does it take a world renowned psychologist to see that was counter productive? All that extreme "I bow to you" act she did after Xavier drew a line in the sand on his relationship with his pops was embarrassing. Xavier isn't a kid anymore. Xavier wanted an apology and closure and X gave it to him. All X wanted in return was a damn phone call! A chance to say wassup to his son without his son being on some "we need some money" tip. Your Pops has to be clean for you to call and see wassup with him? Like I said earlier, if the roles were reversed and X told Xavier he couldn't rock with him unless he was straight, I guarantee Iyala wouldn't be bowing to X in approval. She made up her mind to exploit X issues from the get go. X talking about his issues with relationships (women, family, etc) and this broad walks him to a wall with his mugshots?!?!? Then when X told her to bounce she played her ace card and asked X can he at least talk to his son and he agreed.....only to have her step all over that. The whole "I guess I'll be quiet on MY show" line told you everything you needed to know about her intentions. If they were sincere she would've sat back and let the cameras capture the heart to heart. But she couldn't and took away from a moment that could've been a huge turning point in X and his son life. But she got her ratings and her badge of honor of standing up to the big bad unpredictable DMX. Shes a fraud and if YOU think it takes a PhD to see that, then that speaks volumes about you, not me.