Do ain't **** women always say they were molested for attention?

[Still Benefited]

But this subject to just come up with someone you just met.

Let think about the motivation that would lead a woman to
disclose something so traumatic and personal such as this...

Maybe I'm too old school or something, but I think she would
have an agenda for that guy to fix her and that to me is bad
business and it could lead to something far worse than the
molestation like heartbreak.

People, in general, can't handle their own problems, so it's a
must we take on someone else's? I'm not trying to be callous
or unsympathetic. I'm just looking at the common sense factor
of this situation.

I don't even mind a chick sayin it early on,it might be your the type of conversationilist that makes people want to open up to you....I'm pretty open and able to make light of serious shyt so I often end up with people tellin me shyt that seems kinda heavy for me to be knowing...so maybe if sumbody is revealing this info to you it says maybe your more open than the average person,maybe you seem like too good a listener to these bytches,or maybe you started out so sympathetic on less heavy shyt she liked the way that felt and gave you sum other shyt to be sorry about...dangers of simping,same way u can end up a friend listening to all her man problems and emotional problems pretty quickly,rape is just another one.


If its put out there in line with the conversation I wouldn't doubt its real....but real or not anything blurted out randomly like that can come off as a cheap cry for sympathy and they got a angle like u said....it ain't just rape,I think anytime sumbody blurts out a heavy issue when u barely know them has an angle....and the angle is for you to listen to this heavy shyt u don't wanna know and is hard for u to care about unless your a really empathetic person which most ain't....it may be as simple as the person being one of those people who want free counselors at they discretion and wanna call u every week with another problem they goin thru....sum people are just like that,may not be evil intentions and they may not kno its annoying....all u can do is stop listening or show no sympathy.

 

[BuyandSave]

Back in hhighschool I had a speech class and this girl got up there,fine as hell by the way......she got enough attention as it wuz....she went up front to tell her speech and told us all how she had been raped when she wuz younger and how it caused her to be really angry and bitter but she found god and is doin better now,and she wuz real emotional and had us all ...bcuz nobody knew before that,after it wuz over everybody went up to her consoling her telling her we wuz sorry about that happening to her just showing her a lot of luv and support not on no tryna smash shyt like we normally wuz.....next thing we all know over the next few weeks suddenly a bunch of chicks confessing around the school they got raped too...almost as if they wanted the love and attention she got and they wuz tryna steal her moment away.


Now sum of y'all gon say "maybe she just inspired those other girls to come out and talk about it"....well that's great but if all u doin is tellin us and not going to the police station to tell who did it,excuse me if I think the timing and intentions wuz a little suspect on they part....it just looked like alotta bad acting goin on on sum of them girls parts.

I actually remember you telling this story before - part of the reason why I decided to make this thread.

 

[ltheghost]

I've messed with three girls who have told me that they were molested when they were kids. All three of them were crazier than a motherfukka. Great in the bed but fukked up in the head. This one bytch gave me the best head I had ever had at that point in my life. After it was over she started crying and said she never did that before. I didn't know whether to feel bad or confused. She had skills. But something wasn't right with her. The constant mood swings and the crying I didn't know how to deal with. She said I made her feel safe, so she would give me the ass anywhere and at anytime. But she got possessive as fukk. I left that alone and the bytch showed up to my mom's house at 4 in the morning, drunk, and crying. Crazy bytch.

 

[Turbulent]

bytches are crazy, molested or not. they just want you to pity them so you don't "take advantage of them".

 

[resurrection]

bytches are crazy, molested or not. they just want you to pity them so you don't "take advantage of them".

The unfortunate thing is that in this case, the lady often does not change the type of dude they attract. They just tell the new one the bad stuff that happened before hoping he doesn't hurt her like the last guy. But if it's the same type of guy, all you did was give him the blueprint on how much abuse you are willing to put up with before you walk away.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

This concept escapes me whenever it comes up. There isn't anyone on Earth who hasn't been affected by something. What makes survivors of rape and molestation "damaged" but no one else?

i feel the same way, sometimes we need to get over the past to move forward. but the last girl i dated would talk about being molested as a kid and break down and cry about it all the time. she used it as an excuse for all her wild behavior. if you've never dealt with a girl with molestation issues then idk how to explain. but a lot of girls are really messed up by it

 

[Seea]

i feel the same way, sometimes we need to get over the past to move forward. but the last girl i dated would talk about being molested as a kid and break down and cry about it all the time. she used it as an excuse for all her wild behavior. if you've never dealt with a girl with molestation issues then idk how to explain. but a lot of girls are really messed up by it

I think in that case talking to a professional or even calling a helpline is important. Using it as a crutch really isn't the move.