Do ain't **** women always say they were molested for attention?

[Ain't That Something]

I have a uncle that molested many of my female cousins. Those female cousins have had a messed up life due to the psychological effects of that. Molestation and rape is very real, its the ignorant people like you that make people scared to report it.

Exactly

I don't think ya read the nikka OP.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

I don't think ya read the nikka OP.

No they didn't, they just wanted to make an emotional "pc" response regardless of the OP's point.

 

[ebonykiss]

I don't think ya read the nikka OP.

No they didn't, they just wanted to make an emotional "pc" response regardless of the OP's point.

I did read it, all I see is a man trying to dictate how women should deal with their abuse, and what he believes is the correct or incorrect way of dealing with it... disgusting thread... sometimes you keep things inside for soo long you start to blurt sh*t out, especially as you start to remember things more vividly as a child it's hard to understand the shyt is wrong

 

[Ain't That Something]

I did read it, all I see is a man trying to dictate how women should deal with their abuse, and what he believes is the correct or incorrect way of dealing with it... disgusting thread

Nobody should be telling people they barely know intimate details about their past. That's common sense

So you should take offense to these women trivializing molestation, they and you who find normalcy in such behavior do more damage than O.P. ever could.

 

[The 2020 New Member]

as a dude that is willing to talk to anyone i will inform you a little thing us true players like to call a 'red flag'. do what you want/can with it. it's not much game i'm giving you but you also didn't pay for any so i think we cool.

 

[ebonykiss]

nvm,

 

[ebonykiss]

Nobody should be telling people they barely know intimate details about their past. That's common sense

So you should take offense to these women trivializing molestation, they and you who find normalcy in such behavior do more damage than O.P. ever could.

I believe if you plan on being serious with someone in the future you should let them know before hand , even it's just a friendship

Again people deal with it differently, I've seen girls who do that, and that's how they choose to cope with the reality of what they went through

There are girls who make light of the situation because it eases the pain,


Anyways if you guys want to talk about how victims should conduct themselves, who's real and who's fake I'll let ya'll

 

[Ain't That Something]

I believe if you plan on being serious with someone in the future you should let them know before hand , even it's just a friendship

Again people deal with it differently, I've seen girls who do that, and that's how they choose to cope with the reality of what they went through

There are girls who make light of the situation because it eases the pain,


Anyways if you guys want to talk about how victims should conduct themselves, who's real and who's fake I'll let ya'll

Now I know you ain't read the O.P.

I've noticed a trend with these pseudo-intellectual chicks that always seem to be in "a rough spot" in their life. Within a week of meeting a potential sucker they will always blurt out that they were molested or raped and make sure to ask the person not to tell anybody

So you know you want to be serious with someone within a week of meeting them and tell them all your deep dark secrets.

At this point your arguing for the sakes of it. Experiences like that need to be discussed with close family and friends, counselors, and doctors who specialize to help you recover, Not nikkas you met in a club last week. That's common sense

You are a detriment to the cause you think you protecting.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

I believe if you plan on being serious with someone in the future you should let them know before hand , even it's just a friendship

Again people deal with it differently, I've seen girls who do that, and that's how they choose to cope with the reality of what they went through

There are girls who make light of the situation because it eases the pain,


Anyways if you guys want to talk about how victims should conduct themselves, who's real and who's fake I'll let ya'll

Negative

This is something that you keep to yourself.

Everybody just try to use some sort of calamity as a badge
of honor nowadays, in order to say, "hey, I am great
person, despite what happened to me and so you should
think I'm great person too."

That is fantasy, get off of that. It is this type of thinking
that keep women victims, honestly.If you wanna talk,
go to a friend, therapist, church counselor or whomever, because
in spite what you may want to think, men judge shyt like this
at the beginning. Might not be fair, but it's real

 

[Ain't That Something]

Negative

This is something that you keep to yourself.

Everybody just try to use some sort of calamity as a badge
of honor nowadays, in order to say, "hey, I am great
person, despite what happened to me and so you should
think I'm great person too."

That is fantasy, get off of that. It is this type of thinking
that keep women victims, honestly.If you wanna talk,
go to a friend, therapist, church counselor or whomever, because
in spite what you may want to think, men judge shyt like this
at the beginning. Might not be fair, but it's real

Forget even judging. You know how many nikkas out here who can use information like that to manipulate and hurt a woman even more so than she was already. And she would like you to believe it's okay to share that info with people you barely know

Women like that need not give other women advice.

 

[ebonykiss]

Now I know you ain't read the O.P.



So you know you want to be serious with someone within a week of meeting them and tell them all your deep dark secrets.

At this point your arguing for the sakes of it. Experiences like that need to be discussed with close family and friends, counselors, and doctors who specialize to help you recover, Not nikkas you met in a club last week. That's common sense

You are a detriment to the cause you think you protecting.

Negative

This is something that you keep to yourself.

Everybody just try to use some sort of calamity as a badge
of honor nowadays, in order to say, "hey, I am great
person, despite what happened to me and so you should
think I'm great person too."

That is fantasy, get off of that. It is this type of thinking
that keep women victims, honestly.If you wanna talk,
go to a friend, therapist, church counselor or whomever, because
in spite what you may want to think, men judge shyt like this
at the beginning. Might not be fair, but it's real

Okay you guys are the experts on how to deal, but have never been through it, okay gotcha

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Forget even judging. You know how many nikkas out here who can use information like that to manipulate and hurt a woman even more so than she was already. And she would like you to believe it's okay to share that info with people you barely know

Women like that need not give other women advice.

shyt, have her ass out on the strip

Go up to one of your local streetwalkers and see what
kind of story they about to tell

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Okay you guys are the experts on how to deal, but have never been through it, okay gotcha

You won't ever learn anything and if you do , it will be
the hard way, so keep doing ya thing.

And furthermore, you don't know what anybody on here
has been through.

 

[ebonykiss]

You won't ever learn anything and if you do , it will be
the hard way, so keep doing ya thing.

And furthermore, you don't know what anybody on here
has been through.

Different things work for different people, and different people have different coping strategies, I've seen it before, therefore I don't agree with OP assuming the chicks are lying ... and I don't agree that women shouldn't talk about their experiences however they see fit, especially this keep it to yourself b.s ,

 

[Existential]

There is no way a person attracts that much negativity in their life and they just happen to be a victim of circumstance.

Very untrue and unfair thing to say here. About anyone at all. Children have been raped and murdered because some sick fukk thought they were sexy. Evil happens to the innocent. It rains on the just and unjust. Major flaw in your OP.

Nobody should be telling people they barely know intimate details about their past. That's common sense

So you should take offense to these women trivializing molestation, they and you who find normalcy in such behavior do more damage than O.P. ever could.

I don't know... it's hard to speak on this. You feel like these things are traumatizing and it would be hard for someone to casually drop it in a conversation. At the same time, why should the past re-victimize them so easily? If they've gotten to the point where they can share it without fear (and where no one can manipulate them by using it against them), then doesn't that mean they've recovered?

I don't think they're trivializing molestation at all, though. It's a serious thing, it doesn't mean that it has to be a traumatizing thing or a weakness.

But maybe you meant something different than trivializing. Maybe you're saying that the women who share so easily--even if it actually happened, might place some kind of expectation on all victims of molestation to openly share OR might make people think it's OK to casually ask people about their dark past (because others shared so freely). That I understand. But despite those two issues, do we really want to be telling people who were molested to shut the fukk up? There must be another way to resolve this.