Do Black Men React Differently To Colorism Than Black Women?

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Well stated.
If this is true why do women act like it’s not true?

You know the I don’t need no Man thing if looks are so godawful important to your very survival?

Also if looks matter so much and Dark Skinned women are at such a disadvantage then why don’t women simply marry the dude that is willing to marry due that’s willing to marry her?


I know the answer because Humans like all animals need survival of the fittest to improve the gene pool, But as humans logic should take over at some point.
 

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I never took colorism or the people that argue about colorism seriously, I do not give a fukk.

You're either attractive or you're not attractive, it's that simple.
Most people are attrative on a spectrum. put Idris Elba in Nazi Germany and he’s way uglier than than Herman Goring
 

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I don't know if Blk men/women react differently to colorism, but...

I do believe that colorism is a young person's thing..

I say this as a DS'd middle aged man who has experienced mild forms of colorism growing up..

As I got older I came to the conclusion that colorism is simply stupid!

Also, ppl who subscribe to it whether it be an alleged victim or perpetrator don't know jack squat about melanin therefore isn't worth my time dealing with..

As an adult, one doesn't have time to deal with nonsense. So what if someone isn't attracted to your skin complexion!!

You weren't meant for those ppl anways and why would you want someone who doesn't find you attractive in the first place?? Why are those ppl even worth living rent free in your mind??

EFF em!!

There are more than enough ppl who don't have a problem with your complexion including those who may not share your ethnicity..

At the end of the day, a person should love him/herself because no person will love them as much as they love themselves!

You are who you are and look how you look! It is what it is, chin up chest out! *shrugs*
 
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No, 99% of colorism for black women comes to desirability. They care about who wants them. which puts them in competition with other women.

there’s no real male beauty standard, there is, but often other things can supersede how you look as a man.

A handsome nikka and a ugly nikka could get the same girl depending on many variables

Colorism for Black men comes down to seeing us a hyper violent, harsher prison sentencing etc

for black women it’s just about how beautiful the world thinks they are

im ngl tho if i was a dark skin woman living under this beauty standard i would have a hard time too

I don’t believe it. When a dark skin woman goes on the internet complaining that they are not seen as attractive because of colorism most of the time it’s not because of how dark they are it’s literally because they are just not cute.

Attractive is attractive, men especially will not pass up on a woman just because she’s darker.
 

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It's always the dark skinned short stocky Tyreek Hill looking nikkas that are the biggest pawgers. Maybe it's the height more than the color idk but I've definitely noticed.
 

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Complain about colorism while campaigning for white boys in the same breath brehette :mjlol:.


Actively create your own worst enemy brehette :pachaha:
 
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