do it even make sense to date outside career field? IMO careers might be the best place to start

[DrX]

if y'all have the same career interest...to me thats the best place to start. because y'all understand each other better. it makes sense, this is a capitalistic society , so why not start with same field? since you're going to spend most of your life dedicated to your job , why not select off of that first? and then narrow it down.. plus y'all can help each other and understand each other lifestyles

what sense would it make for a chemical engineer to date a lawyer or a tech worker to date a nurse? at some point they're bound to clash

but if you have 2 people that work at the same restaurant for example. they know each other schedule, they can talk about the job, and they can come to together and build their relationship goals around advancing in their career

 

[JahBuhLun]

2 artists or designers would click, esp. if they start their own design firm.

 

[Henri Christophe]

in a perfect world.....

but women want a boss nikka and men want the baddest chick.... and those two things usually dont connect when working in the same place together.... women seek the top dawgs, men seek the most beautiful chick....

 

[DrX]

in a perfect world.....

but women want a boss nikka and men want the baddest chick.... and those two things usually dont connect when working in the same place together.... women seek the top dawgs, men seek the most beautiful chick....

maybe....but not everybody want that type of relationship....not everybody into the boss chick and boss nikka lifestyle

 

[VelourSocks]

What a boring ass life. I would hate that. All you would talk about is work and stuff centered around that. shyt would have me ripping my hair out

 

[DrX]

What a boring ass life. I would hate that. All you would talk about is work and stuff centered around that. shyt would have me ripping my hair out

actually it not boring because yall can build yall dream together

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Variety and bringing in something I don't have. That's the spice of life. Teach each other something you don't know.

If you're in the same field aren't you in direct competition?

 

[FSP]

What a boring ass life. I would hate that. All you would talk about is work and stuff centered around that. shyt would have me ripping my hair out

That's not true at all

 

[FSP]

Variety and bringing in something I don't have. That's the spice of life. Teach each other something you don't know.

If you're in the same field aren't you in direct competition?

I was about to say this is some female shyt but then I saw that you were female

That's a 1 way street pretty much. If you're a dude looking for a different kind of chick, then suddenly you're out of your element and need to stay in your lane.

But women can fukk pro athletes and entertainers all they want, so...

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I was about to say this is some female shyt but then I saw that you were female

That's a 1 way street pretty much. If you're a dude looking for a different kind of chick, then suddenly you're out of your element and need to stay in your lane.

But women can fukk pro athletes and entertainers all they want, so...

I don't get it

 

[Smashius Clay]

If you're in the same field aren't you in direct competition?

This. You don't want to ever have the conversation where she insinuates she's better at something than you are or vice versa. Competition is rarely friendly and most men don't want to feel emasculated when their girl is crushing it in the same field as them.

Now if it were complementing skills such was developer/designer, contractor/real estate agent, entrepreneur/accountant.... I can see it working very well.

 

[FSP]

I don't get it

I didnt expect you to.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I didnt expect you to.

 

[FSP]

Not at all. Women want what they can't get themselves, men want easy