Do Married Brehs Have To Schedule Sex?
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Nah but with kids it's not easy. You about to do the deed and baby wakes up and doesn't want to sleep
when you have kids.....
when my youngest sister was born, we all looked at each other like
when did they have time to do that? cause we're always running a muck in the house.
they must have had it down to a science
when my youngest sister was born, we all looked at each other like
when did they have time to do that? cause we're always running a muck in the house.they must have had it down to a science
O.T.I.S.
The Monk & The Mercenary
It’s called Shower sexwhen you have kids.....
when my youngest sister was born, we all looked at each other like
they must have had it down to a science
We have scheduled duty sex in my home..every Tuesday and Thursday after kids been laid down, me and wifey get it in. Saturday nights is me and bm. People look down on duty sex but the truth is if you aren't intentional about sex, you won't be having it. That sex all the time in the honey moon phase type shyt only lasts so long...
You have sex with the wife on weekdays and baby momma on weekends?!.............
That sound backwards af
Ezekiel 25:17
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If you have to worry about a sex appointment with your wife, is she the woman for you?
feelosofer
#ninergang
Not really but you have to be creative when you have young children.
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
The OG (from Church) once told me that women have to be warmed up for sex.
Of course I thought he was talmbat foreplay and all that, but he said that’s not what he meant.
They’re not like us where we can be ready at will - their mind has to be receptive and ready.
So if you want some, it’s your job to put it on her mind. Therefore, in a marriage you don’t have to “schedule” it per se, but he said:
”If you want some that night, you gotta get it ready in the morning.”
Like, he always kisses his wife goodbye when he leaves for work - but some days he will also smack her on the booty.
That way it’s the last thing he did before he left, so when she thinks of him during the day the last thing he did is the first thing
she remembers - which a lot of times sets the table for unfinished business when he gets home. It made sense…
Of course I thought he was talmbat foreplay and all that, but he said that’s not what he meant.
They’re not like us where we can be ready at will - their mind has to be receptive and ready.
So if you want some, it’s your job to put it on her mind. Therefore, in a marriage you don’t have to “schedule” it per se, but he said:
”If you want some that night, you gotta get it ready in the morning.”
Like, he always kisses his wife goodbye when he leaves for work - but some days he will also smack her on the booty.
That way it’s the last thing he did before he left, so when she thinks of him during the day the last thing he did is the first thing
she remembers - which a lot of times sets the table for unfinished business when he gets home. It made sense…
As others have said when you got kids you have to plan it out.
Gotta come up with inventive ways. The most recent was that we were figuring out the kids bday and if we got interrupted then they weren’t getting anything. That’s was a good one
TV/video game/iPad time is convenient for it also. They are oblivious for 20-30 min
Gotta come up with inventive ways. The most recent was that we were figuring out the kids bday and if we got interrupted then they weren’t getting anything. That’s was a good one
TV/video game/iPad time is convenient for it also. They are oblivious for 20-30 min
I guess that's how it worked for me. It's not even like we officially said we're only going to get it in Wednesday, Saturday and Sunday, it just kinda happened like that for a while and we both noticed the pattern and made it a thing.
Devil Plisken…CMS
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Yeah…that wouldn’t work for me