Do Married Brehs Have To Schedule Sex?

[benjamin]

You have sex with the wife on weekdays and baby momma on weekends?!.............









That sound backwards af

How many years u been married?

 

[Strapped]

We have scheduled duty sex in my home..every Tuesday and Thursday after kids been laid down, me and wifey get it in. Saturday nights is me and bm. People look down on duty sex but the truth is if you aren't intentional about sex, you won't be having it. That sex all the time in the honey moon phase type shyt only lasts so long...

@Gloxina could you do the Ben scenario if that man is financially stable & will not venture outside the 3some ?

 

[24 Hr. Finesse]

As others have said when you got kids you have to plan it out.

Gotta come up with inventive ways. The most recent was that we were figuring out the kids bday and if we got interrupted then they weren’t getting anything. That’s was a good one

TV/video game/iPad time is convenient for it also. They are oblivious for 20-30 min

mentionin this one to the wife later

 

[Oatmeal]

How many years u been married?

Legally, 0

 

[Swirv]

The OG (from Church) once told me that women have to be warmed up for sex.
Of course I thought he was talmbat foreplay and all that, but he said that’s not what he meant.
They’re not like us where we can be ready at will - their mind has to be receptive and ready.
So if you want some, it’s your job to put it on her mind. Therefore, in a marriage you don’t have to “schedule” it per se, but he said:

”If you want some that night, you gotta get it ready in the morning.”

Like, he always kisses his wife goodbye when he leaves for work - but some days he will also smack her on the booty.
That way it’s the last thing he did before he left, so when she thinks of him during the day the last thing he did is the first thing
she remembers - which a lot of times sets the table for unfinished business when he gets home. It made sense…

This is what I was told back in the day. The problems start when you stop paying this attention.

 

[The ADD]

No but we don’t have kids

 

[broller]

The fun spontaneous wild sex is for the non important guys in her past.

You married brehs get the responsible version of her. You should feel lucky

 

[Deafheaven]

man that shyt sounds miserable, having to put sex on your outlook calendar

 

[Mike Nasty]

9:00pm? That'd be like round three for the day, and 12:01am resets the count.

 

[OsO]

GMB.

 

[benjamin]

@Gloxina could you do the Ben scenario if that man is financially stable & will not venture outside the 3some ?

 

[broller]

I heard someone say married men are the real incels

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

We sleep in the same bed. Even if it’s not an “event”, I’m pulling up from behind when she’s on her side, unless she’s on her period. We’re grown.

That’s any healthy relationship.

 

[Krs2]

Looks like hell. Rather put her to sleep and go hit the streets

 

[MajesticLion]

LMAO @ the circling shark vibes


Time management is a necessary life skill