Do Men Change Brehs?

JackRoss

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Hits the streets and doesn’t say anything. I don’t give a shyt that you go just give a heads up so I can make plans with my own girls instead of waiting to spend time with your goofy ass. I ain’t gonna say don’t go or come home just LET A BREHETTE KNOW SO SHE CAN MAKE MOVES TOO.

Breh: Boo I’m going out after work
Brehette: Ok cool have fun

That 1 sentence will let me know I don’t need to cook and it’s time to hit up the squad and get cute in these streets

What’s the problem here?

Tell him that shyt then. As far as the thread title and your particular issue. Most men grow out of that. Are y'all younger?
 

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Hits the streets and doesn’t say anything. I don’t give a shyt that you go just give a heads up so I can make plans with my own girls instead of waiting to spend time with your goofy ass. I ain’t gonna say don’t go or come home just LET A BREHETTE KNOW SO SHE CAN MAKE MOVES TOO.

Breh: Boo I’m going out after work
Brehette: Ok cool have fun

That 1 sentence will let me know I don’t need to cook and it’s time to hit up the squad and get cute in these streets

What’s the problem here?
I used to get accused of being an a a$$hole for doing the exact same thing by an ex.
She wasn't necessarily being needy, she just wanted to kno if I planned on going out some nights.. I never conceded to her requests tho because I felt like if she was going out I wouldn't make such a big deal of it.

After sex all would be forgotten
 

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TL;DR - Start playing games or end the relationship. Either way, the relationship ends.

Option A: You do the same thing to him in all aspects.

Option B: You leave him because you don't feel like he thinks you're worth being considerate to. (You can claim it's nothing major but if it really bothers you, it's major. Stop devaluing your feelings). I got cut off by some chick once because I got bogged down by work one day and didn't hit her up with a simple text to tell her I was off the grid for the time being. That shyt was minor/insignificant to me, but she likes constant communication and had some insecurity about the lack of it (she had been played before). Way it was put to me by a female friend: "The fact you didn't take 10 seconds to shoot that text says perhaps you don't really like her like that."

A person's dealbreaker is just that, though. Live and learn :manny:

People will get away with what they are allowed to get away with. Folks have to do better about establishing certain behaviors as unacceptable and moving accordingly when said behavior is shown.
 

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Only a man who loves genuinely loves a woman, will change and get better for her. Otherwise his ego will always get in the way.

Essentially if the change is something seriously needed and he doesn't drop the ego to improve--- not front like he changes - - - but actually does what he needs to do. He doesn't give a damn about the girl.

Females really need to work at not wasting time investing in males who will never put their egos down for their girl. Those guys have no interest outside of sex, will never change, and ultimately you'll end up wasting your time.

Far too many females with low self esteem trying to be codependent (and say they have a boyfriend) will waste time waiting on a man to change-- instead being with the guy that would if he had to.


For that lack of judgment, plenty of lames, simps, predators, fboys and etc. Eat off female Stupidity. It's a damn buffet.
 
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