She right and I wouldn't wanna hear this in youth but we learn the hard way. If you stuck in a bind in life then the best way to level up quickly is focusing on you and your purpose and limiting your focus on women for a period.
Non-wifey women in your life are just there to drain you for the most part. Cold hard facts, you go after the bag and women will come. If you out here focusing on women and aren't at least heading to where you need to be in life then 9/10 times you finna keep struggling.
Build and maintain discipline to conquer your purpose and THEN enjoy the fruits of your labor or remain being broke into your 50-60s only having a triple digit body count to your name that know one even knows or gives a fukk about (unless you tell em).
p*ssy ain't going no where but thar energy, zeal, mental sharpness you currently have to build the dream reality you want eventually will