Do NOT Chase Women

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Exactly dudes been saying this since the beginning of time.
It's only acceptable from a female I suppose

The problem is that dudes keep saying this, but “find your purpose” sounds vague, and more like some esoteric chit than what it really is. It evokes the thought of some pseud-spirituality, like dudes need to go on a vision quest or something. “Find your purpose” is a buzz phrase now.

All it really means is to have a focus for your life/find out what you really want to do with yourself. That’s simple.
Even little boys do that; “I wanna be a fireman”, “I wanna learn the family business from my daddy”.
The problem is your hormones take over, and when you don’t have anything to focus on besides women
they start driving the car.

The other major factors in this context are (A) damn near everyone else around you is on the same chit, because they don’t have a “purpose” either. So you won’t really have any peer support to encourage you to have a focus. And (B) as said - women/girls monopolize your time because they don’t have anything to do and want attention/entertainment. So if they become your focus you’re only gonna wear yourself out trying to make them happy, and you can’t. Plus (B2), when a chick finds out you don’t have anything going on in your life but messing with her, she either will (1) use you up or (2) run off because she doesn’t want the pressure of being your “focus” - that means she may have to do something or be worth it. Lol

So it’s not that you have to “abstain” from women - it’s that you have to have to have something(s) in your life that keep you grounded and are more important than they are. Women should not dominate your life.

Real talk - when you have a focus like that, you will miss women sometimes.
Not long ago, it came to my attention that this happened in my case. But you will be fine with it because you were doing something else. That idea in itself won’t make sense to a man focused on women.




The true irony IMO is that everybody talmbat “find your purpose” always seem to be speaking from
the viewpoint of doing so so you can get women. Like dude in this clip. That’s why it rings hollow.
 

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She right and I wouldn't wanna hear this in youth but we learn the hard way. If you stuck in a bind in life then the best way to level up quickly is focusing on you and your purpose and limiting your focus on women for a period.

Non-wifey women in your life are just there to drain you for the most part. Cold hard facts, you go after the bag and women will come. If you out here focusing on women and aren't at least heading to where you need to be in life then 9/10 times you finna keep struggling.
:yeshrug:

Build and maintain discipline to conquer your purpose and THEN enjoy the fruits of your labor or remain being broke into your 50-60s only having a triple digit body count to your name that know one even knows or gives a fukk about (unless you tell em).
p*ssy ain't going no where but thar energy, zeal, mental sharpness you currently have to build the dream reality you want eventually will :manny:
:blessed::blessed::blessed:
 

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Nonsense.
I agree, a lot of people if you look throughout history found/mastered their purpose BECAUSE/WITH THE HELP OF their partner.
It was Einstein's wife who arranged his documents together for the patent office, Steven King's wife encouraged him to keep writing, etc.
Finding success in solitude is the exception, not the norm.
 

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I agree, a lot of people if you look throughout history found/mastered their purpose BECAUSE/WITH THE HELP OF their partner.
It was Einstein's wife who arranged his documents together for the patent office, Steven King's wife encouraged him to keep writing, etc.
Finding success in solitude is the exception, not the norm.

This

You don't need to isolate yourself from women to get a job. SMH.

Cats are acting like they are super monk getting ready to fight agent evil.
 
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