Do Successful Career Women Turn You Off?

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Unless you are unhappy with your career and life what does it matter if she is more successful? On some real shyt success can't even really be determined because everyone sets there standards of success
 

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I'm attracted to successful and driven women, but there IS a limit to how independent I can handle. She just needs to conform to masculine-feminine gender roles in some areas and not disrespect me. It's possible to have a balance :yeshrug:

At what point does an adult's independence cross the line? Inquiring minds would like to know.
 

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At what point does an adult's independence cross the line? Inquiring minds would like to know.
When she's hanging out with straight male individuals that are romantically interested in her alone

When she's making career and life plans without including me

When she asserts on getting her way EVERY TIME without regard to my role in the relationship

When she does something to disrespect me and refuses to adjust her behavior

When she NEVER performs any cooking/domestic duties (just a preference I have)



These things aren't unreasonable.
 

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I don't want a woman more successful than me :yeshrug:

yes imma :demonic: in the immortal words of biggie smalls "bytches I like 'em brainless"
Succuessful career women who treat every interaction like a corporate exchange are a turn off. Some ladies treat dates like job interviews.

F that.
 
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