At what point does an adult's independence cross the line? Inquiring minds would like to know.
When she's hanging out with straight male individuals that are romantically interested in her alone
When she's making career and life plans without including me
When she asserts on getting her way EVERY TIME without regard to my role in the relationship
When she does something to disrespect me and refuses to adjust her behavior
When she NEVER performs any cooking/domestic duties (just a preference I have)
These things aren't unreasonable.