Do u brehs make ur girl pay half the rent bill.

[BaileyPark31]

Nothing wrong with a traditional household. I prefer it if im comfortable with my lifestyle. But why would you allow him to give you traditional benefits and have traditional hardships while you give him none?

WTH are u talking about?

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

He exposed the balding ponytail

Edit:wrong thread

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

This is a complex topic. Not a one size fits all answer and is dependent on age. My philosophy is that your lifestyle should be based on what the man brings to the table.

Reason being is that if your wife or girlfriend gets pregnant, the home will not fall apart if she stops working. If there is no chance that she will get pregnant, then the approach should change.

 

[Sterling Archer]

WTH are u talking about?

You said he's traditional and will be paying all the bills. Im saying if he's traditional and you're benefiting from him being a traditional man then why wouldnt you give him the benefit of a traditional wife? Not that hard to understand. Why is an egalitarian woman with a traditional man?

 

[HarlemHottie]

I ain't even mad at this because you do all the work in the house. Sounds like you play the submissive role so your man is lucky.

Interesting. How would this work in marriages when the wife has a career?

I'm gon respond to both of yall at once. Imho, 'careerist' women don't make good wives. It's possible they did back in the day, but not now with shea butter twitter and them. There's too much interference. So when we reached that point all modern couples reach, I said, 'Hey, maybe we're doing this wrong,' and we sought out other relationship models. The one thing we knew for sure was, we wanted to be together, and happy, so we tried the model that worked for thousands of years of human history.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

The majority of the time that's the case bruh...
Ppl move in together...they get a crib together and decide to go half....
Cause if a man already was paying all his Bill's for dolo, if he gets a woman to move in... hes gonna start making her pay half? That doesnt really make sense.... I guess to me..
But the way some men see themselves and the way they see women....
Is different than how I see myself and a woman...
Me and my lady arent equals because we are different... we have different roles.
I want to do certain things and I'm naturally good at certain things and vice versa...
Ur women is an asset if she comes in and relieves a burden from ur life..
I've been a single dude living on my own for the vast majority of my life...
I never even wanted a female even to stay over and help do anything in my crib...
The 1st time I let a female clean up and cook in my crib...
Dawgggg.. I realized how important it was to me...
Imo, that shyt is equivalent to me going out and making the money...
She's become an asset cause now I dont have to bust my ass at work, and come home and do a bunch of shyt I dont want to do...
And she has the engery to not only do that stuff, but to make me feel appreciated when I get my tired ass in the door... that shyt is Priceless bro.
Also, if u got a good women who has skills in other things, she can use tho skills to improve ur life in other ways... online businesses, home business, etc...
I personally would like a women who uses her free time to be active in the community, doing different projects

Seems like you just not prioritizing and being lazy

 

[Jsully]

You didnt make a general statement because you quoted a response that was made directly to me fakkit. And I already said the shyt to you nikka, fukk you gonna do about it clown?

Stop actin tough behind that keyboard
nikka gettin emotional like a lil ho
Neither 1 of us can really do shyt cause we'll never see each other irl
And next time I'll @ you if I'm talking to you specifically
You bytch ass nikka

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Exactly, this is norm. You can do it different but this usually the normal set up. Rent/ mortgage is usually paid by the man unless he is down and out . The rest are usually footed by the woman. Lame coli brehs who haven’t been in a relationship since high school neggin and shyt.

It’s truly an equal set up. Rent mortgage are just ONE large bill.
Especially if have you kids, men don’t usually shop for school clothes, pay for food( men usually can’t grocery shop for shyt) , and assist in the paying for daily duties or smaller bills . It’s almost always mom. I see it all the time at work.

Coli delusion on full blast yet have no real world experience outside of the coli to type shyt! Smh

*Notice most the married men on here pay the rent/ mortgage and the single incels complaining.

Lol fukking joke.

Be a grown man and not how to grocery shop and buy clothes brehs. Al bundy ass nikka

 

[patscorpio]

I'm old school so when my lady eventually moves in with me I pay the bills. The only thing she will be responsible for are things like her school loans, car loans, and the groceries.

 

[chowism]

I'm gon respond to both of yall at once. Imho, 'careerist' women don't make good wives. It's possible they did back in the day, but not now with shea butter twitter and them. There's too much interference. So when we reached that point all modern couples reach, I said, 'Hey, maybe we're doing this wrong,' and we sought out other relationship models. The one thing we knew for sure was, we wanted to be together, and happy, so we tried the model that worked for thousands of years of human history.

Big facts!

 

[Sterling Archer]

Stop actin tough behind that keyboard
nikka gettin emotional like a lil ho
Neither 1 of us can really do shyt cause we'll never see each other irl
And next time I'll @ you if I'm talking to you specifically
You bytch ass nikka

 

[hotbeezie]

Me and my wife both make decent money in Louisiana.
(we’re both from the country)

but we base our Living expenses off of what she can afford by herself since I make more money.

We have separate accounts and separate savings that are linked and we both have full access to...so we can see exactly who’s spending what and who’s making what.

I pay the bills because always paid the bills since I moved out on my own. We been together since high school and I still made sure I had my shyt together before I moved her in with me.

At the end of the day, my wife is more than capable of handling her business by herself, and proved that she could whenever something unexpected happened, but shiddd it ain’t that complicated we just out here tryna get this bread.



I don’t cook either

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

With my ex he paid rent and we split other bills. At first I was trying to be gracious, but when I realized I was doing every damn thing else, I didn't feel nearly as guilty.

Growing up with my parents marriage this just wasn't something that came up often. My dad was the sole provider for 12 years. He got laid off and my mom picked up the slack until he switched businesses. We grew up and by that time, my mom had a job at Walmart and my dad was a painter. We had to have the house clean and dinner cooked.

One thing about growing up with pragmatists is how seamlessly you can see your folks go from one role to the next, no hassle. When my dad got laid off and he was out of work, I saw him be a stay at home dad. Hell he cooks better than mom! (Don't snitch on me and tell my mom I said that...)

My mom didn't dog him out, she went and got a job even tho she was Susie homemaker most of our lives. You just kinda find ways to make shyt work. Money gets pooled in our families and bills get paid. If ur in a relationship, I just think that's the way it works.

So u wont date someome who ask u to pay half

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

So u wont date someome who ask u to pay half

To me this isn't even an issue. Half implies we aren't working as one unit based off our mutual strengths.
If I'm going to be with somebody, I'm going to be with them. All in 100%. Growing up, everybody in our family pooled everything we had so that all bills were taken care of and we could each have some of what we wanted.

In a solid relationship, everybody's money belongs to everyone. Ain't no need to ask for half of what's yours anyway. I just assume that's the way it goes.
But I have friends who tell me I'm naive or idealistic.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

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Wtf kind of man doesnt know how to grocery shop?

I wouldnt have it any other way especially with my workouts.


Yall nikkas something else. U should speak for yourself ln this one...

dudes by junk food and call it a meal.

Lol

Ask yourself who did you go to the grocery store with growing up 90% of time. Mom or dad ?

I’ll wait....

nikkas up here lying their ass off acting like they wasn’t with they mama at the grocery story, bank, the mall getting school clothes etc

Mom took care of they ungrateful asses while dad payed the rent to keep a roof over their ungrateful ass heads.

Lying ass MFs.