Do women really not like being approached in public

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I don't do dating apps, so I'm more of a meet in person,or in a public event, or mutual friend hang out- then convo , then compatibility. It may be old school or whateva but I don't have time or patience to be setting up profiles

I always feel like I have the upperhand by face to face interaction rather than online dating.

Women be extra confident online, can pick and choose who they want, so of course they're gonna aim high and make their criteria some over 6foot breh with muscles.

BUT you can't hide physical attraction....i'm 5'10 and slightly chubby, I recognize if a chick has the choice tomake a criteria online she'll weed a dude like me out no problem...and that's okay. But I believe my personality, smile, and face balances the scale...

Plus I like showing women ain't no one scared to talk to they asses

 

[PhillyzFinest]

Get out the way, get out the way, get out the way yeah (yeah)
Get out the way, get the fukk up out my way, yeah (yeah)
You either with me or against me, ho (ho)
You either with me or (wait)
Win win, win, win, win (yeah)
fukk everything else, win, win, win, win (win)
These nikkas ain't shyt (mommy), win, win, win, win
Stop chasin' that bytch (stop), win, win, win, win (yeah)

In other words... focus on your money/career/portfolio/real estate... let the women come to YOU. They WILL.

 

[Bossino]

This shyt was just a wall of depressing ass text breh.

Reality usually aint pretty or fun

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

Would you please expound on this?

Some women need to be the only physical attractive person in the relationship. Others assume attractive men get too much attention and she doesnt want to have to compete all the time. Then there are those who assume attractive men are just playing games with them and not really interested.

You also have people who think attractive people are incapable of having deep, loving relationships which is crazy.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

It's like a salesman trying to approach you while you out and about. Sometimes you don't feel like being bothered but the product is good.
Sometimes you might be open but the product is bad.

Sometimes the product might be trash but you get it b/c the pitch was good.

Other times you trying to be polite and the salesman is STILL doin the most until you have to do the most.

And then there is that magical moment when you came looking to buy and the salesman is good and his product is golden.

But I digress. Women who complain about legitimate approaches (not "Damn guh...oh fukk u bytch, u ugly anyway) are stupid and are looking for attention in a lot of cases. Approaching takes a lot of courage on the male's part and some females want to act like utter c*nts but then get in their feelings when dudes stop.

I need two things to happen. I need women to learn how to be a bit more gracious if they aren't already. I also need some men who may be approaching in a crazy fashion to chill a bit if they are over the top. Otherwise, I think women do like it when men approach them. Some even like having faux outrage about it.

 

[Neuromancer]

I need two things to happen. I need women to learn how to be a bit more gracious if they aren't already. I also need some men who may be approaching in a crazy fashion to chill a bit if they are over the top. Otherwise, I think women do like it when men approach them. Some even like having faux outrage about it.

Great post.

I think classes should be taught for both or mentors given.

My older bro came home and was mad thirsty I watched him walk into an establishment see a girl he liked grab her by the waist and actually get a number. I mean he could have known her but I can say for sure at the time. I am no where near as bold as he so I wouldn't attempt that ever, but some young dudes see that wild shyt and be like "It worked, lemme try." I we need some kind of code in place. Like you said women shouldn't be harassed or berated. But then we have that video of that girl filming the guy who approached her and dressing him down.
We should be more courteous to each other .

 

[poppastoppa]

All depends on the situation. If she in a bar or lounge just chilling then I doubt it would be any problem. If she in the middle of her morning commute trying to get to work, then you most likely bothering her. Just keep things in context.

 

[number21]

It will. Give it a couple decades.

I say just one decade maybe even just 5 more years.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

I say just one decade maybe just 5 more years.

What do you think happens after that?

 

[number21]

What do you think happens after that?

We'll see. Going to be hella interesting.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Shes right, I've seen females say this shyt my whole life. Many of em are automatically insecure because of the implication of dating a very attractive guy. shyt drives them crazy knowing that any given sunday the guy they dating can drop them and keep it pushing because they know, he knows he a attractive dude, they get bad wraps of being a playa type cat.

Broads be showing they insecurity with that "you look like a playboy" shyt

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

If you've dated enough very attractive men you'd know that they are usually the worst lovers with the most uninteresting personalities. It comes too easy so personal development is usually zero.

Could explain why some women tend to treat attractive dudes like shyt at first because they assume he's a conceded a$$hole with no personality.

I've had that happen at work or in public chicks be all at you borderline trolling you, then they calm down and be ...

I've had that happen a few times...I know how to let that bullshyt go, but first impressions matter to me... I understand some women turn into kids and gotta tease a dude first to see if he can handle it..but I can't reward shytty immature behavior because i've dealt with women who don't need to do that dumb shyt

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I always feel like I have the upperhand by face to face interaction rather than online dating.

Women be extra confident online, can pick and choose who they want, so of course they're gonna aim high and make their criteria some over 6foot breh with muscles.

BUT you can't hide physical attraction....i'm 5'10 and slightly chubby, I recognize if a chick has the choice tomake a criteria online she'll weed a dude like me out no problem...and that's okay. But I believe my personality, smile, and face balances the scale...

Plus I like showing women ain't no one scared to talk to they asses

I've never done online dating in my life before, never even been to one of those sites. It isn't hard to meet men if you go out. I think it's a more organic way of meeting people too. Not knocking Online dating, but it isn't something I'd ever do. I agree though, I find myself more confident online, just when I interact with people(even on here), but in person.... I'm so awkward with men. The other day, a breh gave me a compliment on my looks & wanted to talk, I saw that he was attractive and he had a nice car(I was walking to my car) I wanted to be more receptive, but being that I was in a rush and needed to get to work, and also felt awkward because I was still in an early morning sleep daze, I rationalized in my mind that it was okay to just be my normal awkward self, tell him no thank you, then dip to my car, to get to work and therefore not let anything come of it. That's what I did, but as I left, I was like "damn... He was actually cute asf, oh well". I realized that it was the fact that I wasn't prepared for that interaction(wasn't in the right mood), was rushing so the context wasn't right, and like I said I'm awkward so.... LOL. I tend to fukk up a lot of approaches by men that I actually am attracted to. I really think I have to be a little tipsy and at some event with the intention of trying to meet someone, for it to go smoothly.

In any case, I totally get what your saying and agree.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Yall nikkas think a fresh haircut and macklessonsradio will stop you from looking creepy.

Stop talking to stranger women who are doing everyday activities.


I walk past women strict, looking the opposite way like a Nazi.

Mein kampf on women in the streets

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Could explain why some women tend to treat attractive dudes like shyt at first because they assume he's a conceded a$$hole with no personality.

I've had that happen at work or in public chicks be all at you borderline trolling you, then they calm down and be ...

I've had that happen a few times...I know how to let that bullshyt go, but first impressions matter to me... I understand some women turn into kids and gotta tease a dude first to see if he can handle it..but I can't reward shytty immature behavior because i've dealt with women who don't need to do that dumb shyt

Nah most women go gaga for overly attractive men. Most women don't date overly attractive men so the wouldn't know.