Do Y'all Go On Coffee Dates?

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Usually more intimate. Always less noisy

I can def see that. I guess it depends on your vibe cuz one man's intimate may be another man's awkward.

Some of my favorite dating memories have been where the music is blaring...making it necessary to get right up in my ear so i can hear the words and i can smell the smell goods, maybe a brush up against our bodies. Gives me chills just thinking about it lol.

I'm not really the type to be sitting somewhere asking 21 question.
 
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But yeah that one coffee date I had was super awkward. It was like 40 mins, I think I ask the wrong question or he gave the wrong answer or some ish. Found out he was a recovering alcoholic lol. He offered another drink, I was like nah I'm good. So we left on our own way. I dont think any environment is guaranteed to get you anything. But if you want to save money, then yeah i guess go get a tea or some ish lol
 

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Why is this dude interviewing blossom and he is black?

Tha fukk!?!?!!!


Tired of the ol maybe i find my own hawk tua black giy interview.

Stop the cap ass no talent youtube meets public access channel level bullshyt.




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Exactly, I’m really not understanding how this shyt is even a question. Yall must go for ain’t shyt bytches :laff:
Bout to say... bunch of these dudes really embodying that "coli nikka" archetype..... whole purpose of a date is to initially see where each person is mentally and that is through conversation.. :skip:
 
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Why is this dude interviewing blossom and he is black?

Tha fukk!?!?!!!


Tired of the ol maybe i find my own hawk tua black giy interview.

Stop the cap ass no talent youtube meets public access channel level bullshyt.




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boy's whole interview style is awkward amd weird....
whole time he was trying to steer the comversation to his preconceived notions..
 
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Bout to say... bunch of these dudes really embodying that "coli nikka" archetype..... whole purpose of a date is to initially see where each person is mentally and that is through conversation.. :skip:

Conversations could be had over the phone, why not use the date for fun. If yall really was treating a girl like she was bout something an extended phone conversation shouldn't be an issue lol. Yall be trying to rush the p*ssy though so phone convos are shunned
Is it oochie wally or one mic :jbhmm:
 

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I did once. I don't really drink coffee though so I just got wine so idk what the difference between that and a lounge or bar is

I mostly drink coffee when I go to the office which is like 2-3 times a month...cuz I be in there wanting to fall asleep. And it's free too lol
But I have a 2pm cut off for coffee. Don't want to be on caffeine at night
I was shopping with my dad the other day, he bought coffee and was like "im go home and have some coffee" I was like it's 10pm :mindblown:
True. Would you be offended if a man wants to meet you for a coffee “date”?

I’m a “I don’t text or talk on the phone” type. All of my convos were in person. I’ll meet you at your job, do a quick lunch, we go walking after work type person.

When I met my Wife, I worked from 1-9pm. She had a 9-5 and was studying for the LSAT. She was sleep by the time I got off. I woke up for a breakfast date. We did a coffee date as well. Dating is getting to know each other imo. The venue shouldn’t matter at all, especially if we aren’t talking on the phone.

I’m not trying to “sell” you an experience, I’m trying to see if we are compatible. Coffee or the park gets that done. I’m not trying to see you chew your food and talk with your mouth full.

Drinks and possibly apps are cool too though. If I’m meeting you pass 7pm though…
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True. Would you be offended if a man wants to meet you for a coffee “date”?

I’m a “I don’t text or talk on the phone” type. All of my convos were in person. I’ll meet you at your job, do a quick lunch, we go walking after work type person.

When I met my Wife, I worked from 1-9pm. She had a 9-5 and was studying for the LSAT. She was sleep by the time I got off. I woke up for a breakfast date. We did a coffee date as well. Dating is getting to know each other imo. The venue shouldn’t matter at all, especially if we aren’t talking on the phone.

I’m not trying to “sell” you an experience, I’m trying to see if we are compatible. Coffee or the park gets that done. I’m not trying to see you chew your food and talk with your mouth full.

Drinks and possibly apps are cool too though. If I’m meeting you pass 7pm though…
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Of course I wouldn't be offended. I'm not the offended type. I probably would just consider it a meetup though cuz i think of dates as something that has romantic intentions. And more importantly, I'm just speaking from a perspective of what do I LIKE to do for socializing and get coffee is never on my top 10 list. But like I said, I don't drink coffees so that's probably why
 

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Im cool with either… I can do coffee but I’d prefer a spot where the lights are low so I feel up on her
 
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Conversations could be had over the phone, why not use the date for fun. If yall really was treating a girl like she was bout something an extended phone conversation shouldn't be an issue lol. Yall be trying to rush the p*ssy though so phone convos are shunned
Is it oochie wally or one mic :jbhmm:
a phone conversation???.... really? .:dahell:.. so we are going to overlook the other important variables such as physical attraction, body language, ability to hold conversation in the present with another individual sans all the distrsctions in our modern world., the nuances of developing/building sexual energy in the physical?.........

If one cannot derive "fun" from what is supposed to be a stimulating conversation and is in need of some other separate act to be classified as entertaining then this speaks volumes of the problematic chasm you and other women find yourselves... ..


shambolic...:heh:
 
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a phone conversation???.... really? .:dahell:.. so we are going to overlook the other important variables such as physical attraction, body language, ability to hold conversation in the present with another individual sans all the distrsctions in our modern world., the nuances of developing/building sexual energy in the physical?.........

If one cannot derive "fun" from what is supposed to be a stimulating conversation and is in need of some other separate act to be classified as entertaining then this speaks volumes of the problematic chasm you and other women find yourselves... ..


shambolic...:heh:

Yes all that can be had over the phone. You obviously never had a good ass phone conversation. Back in the day people used to fall deeply in love over the phone. Shambles on you :sas2:

And I assume you know what they look like already if you thinking about dates lol
 
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