my 30th bday party was the shyt 
wifey went to town w the food, the booze, the music, making sure all our friends and family were there. i knew it was going to be a get together but i had no idea how much work she put into that party. the whole thing was wild.
haven't really done much for my bdays since then, not because i thought of 30 as some magical cutoff #.
there's nothing wrong w enjoying a bday w your people. it's cool if it's not your thing, but there ain't shyt wrong w using a bday as an occasion to enjoy a good time w your circle.

wifey went to town w the food, the booze, the music, making sure all our friends and family were there. i knew it was going to be a get together but i had no idea how much work she put into that party. the whole thing was wild.

haven't really done much for my bdays since then, not because i thought of 30 as some magical cutoff #.
there's nothing wrong w enjoying a bday w your people. it's cool if it's not your thing, but there ain't shyt wrong w using a bday as an occasion to enjoy a good time w your circle.