"Did you eat breakfast today" ..................like there's so much going into the world and you're asking me something my mom asks me? It's the conversation starters in this case.
Do y'all keep a constant conversation on a 1st date?
- Thread starter jadillac
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"Did you eat breakfast today" ..................like there's so much going into the world and you're asking me something my mom asks me? It's the conversation starters in this case.
But u guys always focus it on the man...I understand why because women mostly can get by on looks but that's a small faction of women in society
We got to promote the same values to women as well. It makes no sense to educate the dudes and talk about a man this or that and never bring up women's responsibilities
Go to any mall, hell go to any college campus and try to have these so called "intellectual" conversation most women yap about and see the results u get
A lot of them dn't know shyt and it's you guys along with a failed parenthood that encourage that behavior
A typical girl wakes up, stay on the phone all day listening to music, no self improvement podcast, no Malcom x interviews to listen to, just constant unwarranted attention and false dreams
then somebody comes and wifes em up, and find out she ain't shyt beyond the bed now u got a broken family that we all got to deal wit
PhonZhi
Veteran
I agree, but you're assuming that all women are brain-dead zombies. Thats how your post reads. All im saying is that AS A MAN having the ability to gain a womans attention and interest through convo is a valuable asset.
Somebody just made a thread about this interview:
Dude is an extremely gifted talker and i GUARUANTEE that he could smash Deelishous strictly off convo.
I agree that women need to bring something to the table also. Thats the difference in being a smash & dash and becoming a wife.
Im not disagreeing with you
PhonZhi
Veteran
seriously? 
I love Latina women
Veteran
naw, i just let it flow naturally and if there are ever moments of silence, then just chalk it up to havin' no chemistry with her and move on
just tryin' to have conversation for the sake of havin' conversation is annoyin' and comes off fake
just tryin' to have conversation for the sake of havin' conversation is annoyin' and comes off fake
J.E.T.S
Lookahere mayne...
I love to talk. First dates are the best, you learn so much from women. You can keep it constant with the right questions. Learning how to accommodate a woman's personality will turn her into a chatterbox too.
Young girls though?... smh. As I said in another thread, you don't talk because they're not going to be talking about shyt. You only say enough to get them in the car to smash or chewed up real quick.
Young girls though?... smh. As I said in another thread, you don't talk because they're not going to be talking about shyt. You only say enough to get them in the car to smash or chewed up real quick.
I hate small talk, unless I'm getting to know someone then it's great. That can last months... but I'm not really big on chit chatting with strangers while I'm out. Or I'm just goofy with random convo after I'm really comfortable with someone
But I'm pretty introverted, I have my moments where I don't shut up tho.
All in all when on a 1st date there should be pretty consistent talking from one person or the other if you are feeling each other. Alot of people don't like the "awkward" silence. I don't mind it, I think it's good if can have silence for a bit and not feel like your losing the other person just because conversation isn't going on
But I'm pretty introverted, I have my moments where I don't shut up tho.
All in all when on a 1st date there should be pretty consistent talking from one person or the other if you are feeling each other. Alot of people don't like the "awkward" silence. I don't mind it, I think it's good if can have silence for a bit and not feel like your losing the other person just because conversation isn't going on
Go on a date while a nikka like me hit the same broad on the first night brehs
If it comes naturally then yes. If not then 
The Oracle
Expat
In my experience, talking too much can work against you.
Ya'll ever heard of the strong, silent type?
That's who women generally respond to, not a guy who is nervous and talks too much just to fill the space.
A quieter man maintains an aura of mystery and also sub-communicates that he is confident and comfortable in his own skin.
But obviously, if the conversation is flowing naturally, do you.
Ya'll ever heard of the strong, silent type?
That's who women generally respond to, not a guy who is nervous and talks too much just to fill the space.
A quieter man maintains an aura of mystery and also sub-communicates that he is confident and comfortable in his own skin.
But obviously, if the conversation is flowing naturally, do you.
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
The key is to get the woman to open up and talk about her self. You shouldn't be babbling on.
Part of having a nice mouthpiece is knowing when to shut the fukk up tho.........................
Theres a woman at my job who talks so much sometimes she forgets to breathe. Real talk. I agree 100% that good convo is a critical skil. But that doesnt necessarily mean being a motor mouth.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
What if he stopped talking and just started beating off at the table
I'd leave.