Do you agree with Steve Harvey about focusing in your 20s?

[Shadow King]

what are you even arguing? when did I say they "needed" a wife to be successful?

Breh said if you try to balance with a relationship or family, you stand no chance compared to someone who doesnt or you'll be average trying to maintain relationships, family life, while working on your craft. I gave several obvious examples why that is wrong.

You presented your statement as if marriage is conducive to that success.

 

[TRUEST]

He's right...but you can't make your entire life about work and sacrifice

Your 20s are your young years...and while it's critical to use them wisely, you have to live life a little because once you hit your 30s real responsebilities kick inand then it's over because you have people who depend on you to handle your business.

I spent my 20s finishing undergrad and grad school...classes, thesis research, fellowships, study aborad etc etc....alot of my time was spent traveling everywhere abroad that i could get to....trying to publish research papers and getting my dik sukked as often as possible...i spent alot when i could have saved....and it was worth every second

Think of it this way. Use the time and energy of your youth to create a nest to rest in your helpless days.

Life is guaranteed to have problems. It’s your choice to decide how badly u get beaten up, or if you ever get beaten up at all.