Do you, as a Black man, believe yourself to be worthless and see whiteness as the prize? According to Lemons

[Gloxina]

No I don’t. My soul has came into this life as a black man but I’m at a point where I’m beyond colour and if anyone wants to live in they own ignorance of what race is superior than have at it. There are white people in my life that would give the shirt off they back if I asked them too. Just like there are black family members in my life that all they would rather do is take from me or they only call me when they need something from me. There are shytty people in every single race on this planet just like there are good people. I live on the code of treat others how you want to be treated anyone who treats you any less doesn’t need to be apart of your life. This world is divided too much as it is already and usually it’s over bullshyt. At the end of the day we all in this human experience together and we all will eventually die and leave this place and who knows some of you militants may comeback as a white person or another race in your next life. At the end of the day you choose the experience in all facets of what type you want to live. I’m starting to realize that the less I start hating things or human beings the more peace comes into my life amongst the chaos.With that being said I love myself and I love this black skin that I’m in.

And I do feel all that, but stuff like this is why I can’t fully operate in that thinking. And I know some good whites folks myself.

This world is way too divided and there’s one group that has pushed that division more than anyone else.
Many of the white ppl we encounter in our daily lives don’t have this rosy view of humanity, or US specifically. Even if they don’t verbalize it, many think we are subhuman and look for a reason to justify those thoughts.

 

[Gloxina]

What do you think black women can do better for black men?

I commented about how ol boy referenced Black men whose careers were literally destroyed by white women, and that’s the question you ask?

 

[Still Benefited]

White men, as a group, benefit from a political and economic system built to serve and protect their interests. It was designed by them, for them, and still largely works that way. Over time, they’ve positioned themselves as the standard of success, civility, and desirability -- no Asian or Hispanic or North African girl wants a black man over a white man, that's brutal honesty. When you see how pressed Asian and Indian and yes, black men are to date white women, it just underscores how deeply that messaging has worked.

What’s insane is that despite being relatively late to develop certain civilizational benchmarks, white men managed to brand themselves as the origin of progress and refinement. Everyone else ends up reacting to that image. Black men are often hypersexualized, Asian men intellectualized, and most other groups are left trying to fit into a framework that white systems still control—especially when it comes to money and legitimacy.

Globally, Black men have been locked out of real economic agency. In the U.S., we’re celebrated for style, strength, and charisma—but rarely seen as leaders, owners, or decision-makers. And that’s by design. The average white man still benefits from legacy, quiet influence, and access we often don’t even get a chance to compete for.

Great post, that "the average white man has nothing we care about" spoke volumes. Like you said,we live in a society created for the white man,established to benefit and make white people comfortable. The average white man has sovereignty

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Yet rather than building and seeking sovereignty. We have countless long winded discussions about "Should we go 50/50". Constant discussions about interracial relationships. And most recently how many men will it take to beat a gorilla. Rather than how many black men will it take to overcome white supremacy.


Its apparent now that getting the white mans fake fiat currency in their pocket. Having the white mans woman on their arm. And wearing the emperor's clothes,allows them to ignore reality and feel like the emperor. This means white women arent just women. They are one of the black mans many drugs used to cope. Sadly many of you are junkies with multiple vices(money,european trinkets) who will have to be left behind.

 

[HimmyHendrix]

I commented about how ol boy referenced Black men whose careers were literally destroyed by white women, and that’s the question you ask?

Yeah, how can black women be better partners for black men?

 

[Gloxina]

White men, as a group, benefit from a political and economic system built to serve and protect their interests. It was designed by them, for them, and still largely works that way. Over time, they’ve positioned themselves as the standard of success, civility, and desirability -- no Asian or Hispanic or North African girl wants a black man over a white man, that's brutal honesty. When you see how pressed Asian and Indian and yes, black men are to date white women, it just underscores how deeply that messaging has worked.

What’s insane is that despite being relatively late to develop certain civilizational benchmarks, white men managed to brand themselves as the origin of progress and refinement. Everyone else ends up reacting to that image. Black men are often hypersexualized, Asian men intellectualized, and most other groups are left trying to fit into a framework that white systems still control—especially when it comes to money and legitimacy.

Globally, Black men have been locked out of real economic agency. In the U.S., we’re celebrated for style, strength, and charisma—but rarely seen as leaders, owners, or decision-makers. And that’s by design. The average white man still benefits from legacy, quiet influence, and access we often don’t even get a chance to compete for.

 

[Gloxina]

Yeah, how can black women be better partners for black men?

Ionno, seems like Jonathan Majors already figured out the answer

 

[HimmyHendrix]

Ionno, seems like Jonathan Majors already figured out the answer

so nothing?

 

[Gloxina]

so nothing?

Lmao


The point is Black women weren’t the problem for those two particular Black men. Being a BAD PICKER is the problem for most ppl across the board regardless of race.

Since we started off using Black celebs with these questions, we can continue. Ask LeBron James what a Black woman can do for him. And Chris Paul. And Russell Westbrook. And JayZ. And Russell Wilson. And Sterling K Brown. And Morris Chestnut. And Jalen Hurts and his lovely new wife. DK Metcalf and his new fiancée.

Again- folks can choose who they want regardless of race. Being a BAD PICKER is the problem for most ppl across the board regardless of race.

 

[HimmyHendrix]

Lmao


The point is Black women weren’t the problem for those two particular Black men. Being a BAD PICKER is the problem for most ppl across the board regardless of race.

Since we started off using Black celebs with these questions, we can continue. Ask LeBron James what a Black woman can do for him. And Chris Paul. And Russell Westbrook. And JayZ. And Russell Wilson. And Sterling K Brown. And Morris Chestnut. And Jalen Hurts and his lovely new wife. DK Metcalf and his new fiancée.

Again- folks can choose who they want regardless of race. Being a BAD PICKER is the problem for most ppl across the board regardless of race.

I’m asking you in your opinion how can black women be better for black men? all those people you mentioned is old as hell outside of Metcalf.

If somebody asked me how we could be better for black women id have a list and answer

i ask you, and you’re defensive. because the truth is yall don’t know black men anymore.

 

[Still Benefited]

Ionno, seems like Jonathan Majors already figured out the answer

Yes,found himself a wonderful Corretta in a sea of hellhounds. By simply making better choices and healing.

A poster just said dating out helped them learn they are the common denominator in dysfunctional relationships. This really does speak volumes.


It says that many of you were happy to just blame the black woman,and write black women off as the problem. But once they go non black,suddenly they start to do self reflection. And ask real questions like "Could I be the problem".



Imagine just asking yourself that before you dated outside your woman. Yes of course you are the problem. All you had to do was realize you are the problem and find solutions. Will you need more solutions when dealing with black women? Probably.


But maybe black men have created more problems and issues within black women. If you feel no responsibility to have answers and solutions for your women? To hell with you.


Go be with other women and admire what a great job other races of men did with those womens upbringing. Rather than stay home and be apart of the solution.#TheChildOfMan

 

[Still Benefited]

And heres a tip. Its not hard to find a good black woman if your only looking for one whos right for you. Or one who may not be quite right but is moldable because of how much she likes and appreciates you.


But most of yall are unserious about commitment. And are mostly upset black women wont provide you with a unproblematic roster you can use and discard when your done. If you cant,your probably not ready for and dont deserve a woman yet. Which means you damn sure shouldnt have a roster

 

[SNG]

And I do feel all that, but stuff like this is why I can’t fully operate in that thinking. And I know some good whites folks myself.

This world is way too divided and there’s one group that has pushed that division more than anyone else.
Many of the white ppl we encounter in our daily lives don’t have this rosy view of humanity, or US specifically. Even if they don’t verbalize it, many think we are subhuman and look for a reason to justify those thoughts.

Like I said I don’t care about those individuals it’s all about the ones who choose and show a good representation of a human being to me. Everyone has they way of how they wants to live. I don’t care to focus on racist people who add no value you to me other than make me angry and frustrated cuz of they own ignorance. But hey do you you’re entitled to think how you want to.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Somewhat true

 

[Wiseborn]

Shannon Sharp paying a teen for @nal sex Shannon Sharp? That’s who you choose to use as an example


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What y’all miss is that no one GAF if y’all want white women; it’s not unusual at all at this point.


What ppl call out is how blinded some of y’all are by white skin that you get yourselves in stupid situations accepting bad behavior and obvious red flags from women because they are white or non-Black.

Plenty of Black men in the media with white partners/wives who ain’t doing dumb shyt and setting them up because *gasp* those men probably dated decent/quality white chicks and didn’t simply get blinded by their whiteness.

If Jonathan Majors dated a Black girl who was a belligerent drunk he would’ve dropped her like a bad habit from jump, but he accepted the white party girl who went through his phone up until she ruined his life. His babymomma white as well. No one canceled him when that was discovered. But he only found a Black woman after his world fell apart.

Shannon old ass paying girls fresh out of HS for sex.

That’s why these negros got laughed it.
Not because they chose to date white women.

That was just two examplles off the top of my head

They definitely wasn’t moving smart.


You really gonna tell me no one cares what Black Men do. Do you remember when Black women lost their minds when Bronny took the white girl on the Prom date?

Finally you want to talk about being Blinded when Only Logical posts daily stories of Dievestor L’s?

He posted one yesterday of a Florida Lawyer trying to crash her car into people.

Turns out some white dude was piping her she has mental issues but came off the meds So she could get Pregnant by Him.

Thank god she was not charged due to insanity but Bye Bye to her career and bye bye to the cac who was literally just piping her.



The thing is for the most part every Black Man gets the talk about shyt going completely left when dealing with cacettes. The way Black women crash when dealing with cacs you’d have to assume that they don’t get the talk.



Finally this thread is in response to a disgusting stereotype about Black Men’s alleged “lust” for white flesh. I notice you didn’t check the bytch

I just pointed it out until this thread was made.

I get it you’re concerned about people attacking the Black woman’s image I’m concerned about protecting the Black Man’s image.

 

[Wiseborn]

Yeah that's all bullshyt.

White men LOVE them some Asian women. Do they hate themselves?

Mexican brehs will smash anything with a cute smile and tetas grandes. Self hate or horn dawgs?

Arab and Indian men stay trying to get some pink toe. Don't let her be blonde . Hafeez and Amit don't hate themselves but they want nothing more than to clap the whitest of cheeks.

Every race of men wants to limit swirling from THEIR OWN women while also gorging themselves on an international buffet of puzzy. Women are the same way. They want as many options as they can get while limiting the options of men. It's why women think it's cute to date an attractive young man but get an attitude when old men date young tenderonis.

Only Black men are considered "low self esteem" for spreading their seed to all races. If a nikka had a roster with 3 dozen sistas....does that mean he has higher self esteem than a nikka that only had 5 Becky's?

You could close the thread right here.