Do you, as a Black man, believe yourself to be worthless and see whiteness as the prize? According to Lemons

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White men, as a group, benefit from a political and economic system built to serve and protect their interests. It was designed by them, for them, and still largely works that way. Over time, they’ve positioned themselves as the standard of success, civility, and desirability -- no Asian or Hispanic or North African girl wants a black man over a white man, that's brutal honesty. When you see how pressed Asian and Indian and yes, black men are to date white women, it just underscores how deeply that messaging has worked.

What’s insane is that despite being relatively late to develop certain civilizational benchmarks, white men managed to brand themselves as the origin of progress and refinement. Everyone else ends up reacting to that image. Black men are often hypersexualized, Asian men intellectualized, and most other groups are left trying to fit into a framework that white systems still control—especially when it comes to money and legitimacy.

Globally, Black men have been locked out of real economic agency. In the U.S., we’re celebrated for style, strength, and charisma—but rarely seen as leaders, owners, or decision-makers. And that’s by design. The average white man still benefits from legacy, quiet influence, and access we often don’t even get a chance to compete for.
excellent points.
 

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That was just two examplles off the top of my head

They definitely wasn’t moving smart.


You really gonna tell me no one cares what Black Men do. Do you remember when Black women lost their minds when Bronny took the white girl on the Prom date?

Finally you want to talk about being Blinded when Only Logical posts daily stories of Dievestor L’s?

He posted one yesterday of a Florida Lawyer trying to crash her car into people.

Turns out some white dude was piping her she has mental issues but came off the meds So she could get Pregnant by Him.

Thank god she was not charged due to insanity but Bye Bye to her career and bye bye to the cac who was literally just piping her.



The thing is for the most part every Black Man gets the talk about shyt going completely left when dealing with cacettes. The way Black women crash when dealing with cacs you’d have to assume that they don’t get the talk.



Finally this thread is in response to a disgusting stereotype about Black Men’s alleged “lust” for white flesh. I notice you didn’t check the bytch

I just pointed it out until this thread was made.

I get it you’re concerned about people attacking the Black woman’s image I’m concerned about protecting the Black Man’s image.
I said it earlier- BOTH SEXES have this issue, not just BW or BM.

That was my point. Ppl are talking about the 2 men you mentioned cuz they obviously weren’t being smart.


Guess what? Ppl should talk about that attorney you mentioned because her ass was moving stupid over a white dude. Yes.
 

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Exactly

Dating multiple races also helped me to realize that the common denominator in all of this is myself. My dating failures ultimately boiled down to me having PTSD. So there are issues I have to fix personally to keep growing, learning, and getting better at this relationship thing no matter what race of woman i’m with.

So it can also be a learning experience. But people assume because you date out you automatically exclude black women from the conversation and suddenly dont mess with bw..

Nope. Us men in the same military huddles talking about the same females no matter the race if they are bad.


Some men are militant like that and thats great for them. I just mess with whichever lady wants to mess with me
If only women took this same accountability.

Tracee Ellis Ross blamed her dating issues on nikkas being homophobic as if that determines what makes a good husband or not.

What she means is she wants someone to marry her who will benefit her in many ways including Financially Yet doesn’t want that Man to have any say over her major life decisions she wants some weird sugar daddy situation where he pays all the bills without any input over decisions.

So she pays for YN dikk.
 

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If only women took this same accountability.

Tracee Ellis Ross blamed her dating issues on nikkas being homophobic as if that determines what makes a good husband or not.

What she means is she wants someone to marry her who will benefit her in many ways including Financially Yet doesn’t want that Man to have any say over her major life decisions she wants some weird sugar daddy situation where he pays all the bills without any input over decisions.

So she pays for YN dikk.
I mean, some don’t need to date interracially to realize that they are the common denominator in their dating woes. Only dating BM didn’t make me think brehs were the problem. Lol 🤷🏾‍♀️


And yea…Tracey’s complaints about older men are like older men’s complaints about older women. That’s why I left it alone. Sounds like a generation issue.:manny: Ppl with the money and status to attract younger…tend to go younger. Cuz they want something pretty to look at that who is probably more agreeable due to less life experience. She was literally coming up with a excuse for why she likes younger men.

BTW, her liking “younger” men is like, men who are probably 38-40Years old; not men who are 19.
 

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I said it earlier- BOTH SEXES have this issue, not just BW or BM.

That was my point. Ppl are talking about the 2 men you mentioned cuz they obviously weren’t being smart.


Guess what? Ppl should talk about that attorney you mentioned because her ass was moving stupid over a white dude. Yes.

What % of black men are attracted to white women? In my experience, most black men are attracted to black women, not white women, more often than not most black men recoil at the idea of the white women I find attractive.

I think black women would be better off admitting they aren't attracted to most black men, they are mainly attracted to the black men that date out. I have seen BW admit that the kind of BM that date out are better than the ones that don't on paper. Meaning they are individualizing the black men that can date out, because those black men, on average, are significantly more ambiguous that other black men, see Jay Ellis, or Childish Gambino. If most BM had the features of Gambino, most BW would be married to BM, and that's what BM don't understand. But I have experienced it first hand with my treatment from black women as opposed to the way I see most black men treated, because they are not ambiguous enough.


No offense, I am attracted to black women, I'm not a colourist in the slightest because I find significantly darker skin women as having better faces than any of the other black women, the only ones that come close, are the BW of my genetic makeup, but overall, forcing me to date BW would be a joke at this point if I'm mostly attracted to WW. I can't help my attraction, it's beyond looks, and most obviously don't understand that because you keep focusing on looks, not everything is about looks.



Put simply, I know, as being around them, that above average white women are not attracted to the average white man, mainly because they are usually hit in the face and are recessed as fukk on average compared to their women. There is no way in hell, black women, especially of the same caliber as good looking white women, are attracted to the average black man, MOST black men will go without a partner and without sex, but we will never address that.


I feel bad for the rest of black men who don't get the true attraction of most BW, who are definitely attracted to ambiguously looking black men over the average black man. Which should be obvious to any man, considering the physical requirements BW will jot off when describing their ideal partner.



Just go date the BM that worship the ground you walk on.... :ohhh: But wait, their faces are hit, and men like FD signifier look like women.
 
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I said it earlier- BOTH SEXES have this issue, not just BW or BM.

That was my point. Ppl are talking about the 2 men you mentioned cuz they obviously weren’t being smart.


Guess what? Ppl should talk about that attorney you mentioned because her ass was moving stupid over a white dude. Yes.
Yes at the end of the day this is a Black Male board so you could literally make a thread about some old lady that’s severely overweight and minding her business and nikkas will say Smash or Pass?

That’s the kind of fukkery you get in a Locker Room.

Just like on a female board like LSA there’s 50 appreciation thread for Tom Huddleston.

Like I said I see this shyt again go to the Black woman subreddit and find a positive post about Black Men I dare you. Actually they did post a Black Love thread once.


 

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Guys if most white women aren't attracted to most white men, having touting the idea that only 10-20% of WM are attractive, thus white men making the majority on ALL INCEL sites, what the fukk makes you think BW are attracted to the average black man?

Stats in the black community show that they are mainly fukkign the same men, MOST BLACK MEN DON'T HAVE CHILDREN, not count the % of black men that have more than 2, or more than 1 babymothers...


BW aren't attracted to you like that, I literally get WM treatment from BW, I would record it to shock you guys. :dead:
 

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I honestly think this is why white men love interracial porn featuring Black men. They view white women as property and it's the ultimate ego stroke to have someone coveting your property. That's the whole incentive to acquire property so other people can envy it. Which is why they get off on this narrative and beat off to Black men starving for it. I also think some of the pawg threads on the Coli aren't even started by Black men. Of course I have no proof but I think it really excites lurkers on here to see those threads because again, it's an ego stroke for them.
 

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Most BM don't want to deal with the idea that BW don't find strong black features attractive, I have seen women saying Johnathon Majors looks like a slave, now consider why any BW would say that.


Most BM, that worship the ground that BW walk on will go without partners. LOL Most black men don't have sex. CONSIDER that.
 

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What % of black men are attracted to white women? In my experience, most black men are attracted to black women, not white women, more often than not most black men recoil at the idea of the white women I find attractive.

I think black women would be better off admitting they aren't attracted to most black men, they are mainly attracted to the black men that date out. I have seen BW admit that the kind of BM that date out are better than the ones that don't on paper. Meaning they are individualizing the black men that can date out, because those black men, on average, are significantly more ambiguous that other black men, see Jay Ellis, or Childish Gambino. If most BM had the features of Gambino, most BW would be married to BM, and that's what BM don't understand. But I have experienced it first hand with my treatment from black women as opposed to the way I see most black men treated, because they are not ambiguous enough.


No offense, I am attracted to black women, I'm not a colourist in the slightest because I find significantly darker skin women as having better faces than any of the other black women, the only ones that come close, are the BW of my genetic makeup, but overall, forcing me to date BW would be a joke at this point if I'm mostly attracted to WW. I can't help my attraction, it's beyond looks, and most obviously don't understand that because you keep focusing on looks, not everything is about looks.



Put simply, I know, as being around them, that above average white women are not attracted to the average white man, mainly because they are usually hit in the face and are recessed as fukk on average compared to their women. There is no way in hell, black women, especially of the same caliber as good looking white women, are attracted to the average black man, MOST black men will go without a partner and without sex, but we will never address that.


I feel bad for the rest of black men who don't get the true attraction of most BW, who are definitely attracted to ambiguously looking black men over the average black man. Which should be obvious to any man, considering the physically requirements BW will jot off when describing their ideal partner.



Just go date the BM that worship the ground you walk on.... :ohhh: But wait, their faces are hit, and men like FD signifier look like women.
Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat

The average man and woman are AVERAGE, not hit. And the truth is for both sexes being fit fixes most issues with attractiveness. I don’t talk about my race like that. :hubie:

Most black women are having kids with black men, and they aren’t all drop dead gorgeous men, just like they aren’t all drop dead gorgeous women. They’re just irresponsible ppl who aren’t creating families- but that’s a different topic.
 

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I mean, some don’t need to date interracially to realize that they are the common denominator in their dating woes. Only dating BM didn’t make me think brehs were the problem. Lol 🤷🏾‍♀️


And yea…Tracey’s complaints about older men are like older men’s complaints about older women. That’s why I left it alone. Sounds like a generation issue.:manny: Ppl with the money and status to attract younger…tend to go younger. Cuz they want something pretty to look at that who is probably more agreeable due to less life experience. She was literally coming up with a excuse for why she likes younger men.

BTW, her liking “younger” men is like, men who are probably 38-40Years old; not men who are 19.
This is why I want you to engage ( if you want to) I realize I say shyt that sounds extreme in context but I just put it out there.

I don’t know how much younger Tracee dates but a 38 year old is probably too old unless he’s just piping for a minute because at that age Men like women are generally looking to have kids unless they really don’t want any

So if she’s having relationships it would be with someone whos 28 who feels he has time.

I just don’t sugarcoat shyt on here for example I don’t use condoms that’s a wild statement but based on being Unc status I can guarantee you Tracee stopped using condoms when she was 38 at the latest. because either she’s down to have an "oops baby” Or she knows she’s unlikely to get pregant

So I just say it but very few people in their 40’s use condoms.
 

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And that's a major problem, I know the average BW see you guys as women in the face, you have no notable bone projection on average. Which is why they will rank an average white man above most of you, they see the white man as having a more mature face on average.


If we got into this looks shyt, most BM would be devastated.



I have always been treated like a god by BW, ALWAYS. And it's 100% because of my looks, nothing else.
 

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Just consider the BM that BW were all over, we look nothing like the rest of you. Now how brutal would it be if we could trace that attraction with the %s of european blood in the black man.

That's the main reason Tariq goes in on everyone else, because they look nothing like the BM with higher euro blood, so it's actually RACIST. They joke on the hairline, the facial features (look at his thumbnails) etc. Recognize that if a man can see that, women, who look at more than what the men look at when choosing a partner, see things similarly.
 

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Just look at how many white men are literal incels and talk about dating Asian and Black as a last resort. Why do you think that is? White men who are incel, that could NEVER pull a well-rounded and attractive white women, can pull significantly better looking BW than most black men % wise.

I have seen you guys complain about that. Then expand that thinking and you will find the truth.

Sure, most black men are colourist, featurist, and texturist, but you would be a fukking fool if you think women aren't as well. That will answer all of your questions.
 
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