Do you ever truly get over your first love?

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Sadly I don’t think so that’s why I’m scared to date anymore. Either I have to deal with women who are still caught up with their ex, or I’m dating women that remind me of mine.

I Was always taught people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Tough to move on when you feel that the lifetime passed.
bruh i feel u we might all have to settle
 
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Yea you do but for me it took YEARS

But when I take into account the fact that I haven’t been “in love” since then...

Maybe not :mjgrin:
 

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I'm 23 and claimed to be in love twice a few years back. Eventually had the chance to get back with the second one but I left both of them hoes alone, each of em had their vices:hhh:

The first one was always thick, but had lipo done and started stripping:upsetfavre: I'm assuming she's fcking for $& too

The second moved to Atlanta, also tried to strip, left it alone and works odd jobs now. Heard she occasionally does coke and is looking for a sugar daddy:skip:


I ain't trippen off nann one of them bxtxhes:yeshrug:
 

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No. :wow:

The first love is like discovering a whole new universe with infinite dimensions and possibilities. After that love ends you're "self-aware." You're mindful that the new dimension has some really beautiful planets that seem inviting and nourishing, but internally they're falling to pieces and that the terrain hides monsters that wait to destroy you. Basically, in the back of your mind you know things fall apart. You can't go back to being unaware.

Dream said it best:



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This shyt makes perfect sense. It’s worse when she gives you multiple chances and you still fukk up. I’m not talking about no petty shyt, I’m talking about cheating and having a baby on her.

I consider myself to be cold emotionally, but man seeing her break down like that is something I wish I could erase :francis:
 

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She will always be my first love my greatest heartbreak and my biggest scar

She changed me drastically too who I am now

I don’t love her or miss her but she will always have a piece of my heart cuz she was first love first experience too something new that I couldn’t shake shyt was like a damn movie damn near love at first sight
I knew I wasn’t myself but I just couldn’t help what I felt wasn’t expecting her that night
We ended up engage in long run but I ended up calling it off due to cheating

Thing I learned is love can be blind also
But I also learned I will never and haven’t fell in love like that again or will ever once in a lifetime feeling for me
shyt was like a high or a drug I couldn’t resist and I never done drugs in my life

I’ve fallen in love again obviously and it has been deeper but it will never be that instant impact like hers

She is in my memories still outta the blue at random times when certain things trigger I see or remind me of her but not like I miss her more like ya I remember u it was a great experience and learning experience but :ufdup: in the end to where we never had a future

I look at her also as a steppingstone to something better but never forgetten

But god damn it why did she dress like the Asian version of Alicia keys when she was out wit that diary album :whew:





Remind me of her and how we met tho
 

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Time doesn't heal scars.


That's why they're scars. :yeshrug:
Facts. Life is a novel that doesn't skip details. The character you live out takes those experiences and unwittingly change...sometimes subtlety, often significantly...and a
first love is not a small thing. It will shape your entire perception of romantic and friendly relationships. Nobody comes out the way they came in unless it wasn't really love.
 
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